What most men desire is a virgin who is a whore. – Edward Dahlberg
Nine updates and a metaupdate.
Backward, Turn Backward (March 15th, 2011)
Apparently, Zimbabwe is a colony of the Bizarro World, where whores force men to have sex with them for free:
Three sex workers accused of raping 17 men in Zimbabwe have been freed…[they] were arrested last year after…a police…search of their vehicle revealed more than 30 used condoms…men…said the women forced them to have sex while brandishing weapons. However, DNA evidence…disproved any link between the women and [their accusers]…[there was] widespread speculation that the sex workers were collecting semen for witchcraft.
You’ve gotta love the use of the modern term “sex worker” in that last line.
The First Time (March 20th, 2011)
Victorian men used to pay big money for whores who could credibly be passed as virgins, and apparently that kink is still around:
…Sweet Girls Premium Escort…is offering a Chinese-born Melbourne high school student [for $12,000]…”She is a virgin, you can tell,” [said] a spokeswoman…”She goes to your place or hotel and you can spend two days together. She does not have a boyfriend and she wants to do it for the money,” she said. The escort agency recruits mostly Asian women aged 18 to 25…The website written in English and Chinese suggests working for the agency “to solve your financial problem within short time”…
The rest of the article is a chorus of “feminists” clucking a lot of nonsense about “financial desperation” (as if anyone ever worked for any other reason), “no woman should have to sell her body” (because a woman is nothing but sex so selling it is equal to selling her entire self) and “double standards” (like the one they’re upholding by suggesting a girl’s virginity is too precious to sell and should instead be pointlessly given away). I wish I had had the sense to sell my virginity; the experience probably would’ve been a lot more interesting than being clumsily mounted by some inexperienced boy in a dark room, and I would’ve had a lot fewer money worries the first few years of university.
The Scarlet Letter (March 29th, 2011)
Greece has joined the parade of countries using extrajudicial punishment against hookers, and Cheryl Overs explains why this is a bad idea:
Greece has been in the news for prosecuting HIV positive sex workers and posting the women’s photographs on the Internet…public health prosecutions and “naming and shaming” of [HIV+] sex workers occurs…across the world, including in the UK and US. We are also observing a general increase in mandatory HIV testing…Successful HIV prevention is known to depend on a large portion of sex workers and clients using condoms and accessing…treatment …there is sufficient research and experience to compare the results of “rights based” approaches with heavy handed tactics like those used in Greece that have been shown to drive sex industries underground…repeatedly testing a few “legal” sex workers while alienating “illegal” sex workers from services and testing them forcibly in the wake of sporadic raids is not good public health…
Simply put, if hookers know they’ll be shamed and prosecuted for turning up positive, they simply won’t get tested. And if legal workers are forcibly tested, they’ll simply work illegally instead. This isn’t rocket science, but “authorities” seem completely unable to comprehend it.
Because We Say So (June 8th, 2011)
The crusade to impose Western cultural norms on Nepal has turned low-caste people into persecuted criminals:
…[Members of] the Badi, a Hindu caste that has for centuries been associated with entertainment and prostitution…live in the western districts of Nepal but…work in…cities…including Kathmandu, Mumbai and New Delhi. Four years ago the Nepal government banned the Badis from pursuing their traditional occupation…[and] local communities…[have] used violent methods to compel the Badis to give up their sole means of livelihood…”We didn’t want to continue with prostitution but the government has failed to fulfill its promises of rehabilitation,” says Bishal Nepali, husband of a Badi sex worker. The government did announce a package that included housing, income generation activities and scholarships…but these were never implemented…Nepali society gives little encouragement to Badi girls to pursue other professions and those among them who enter public schools are “often severely harassed by high caste students”…Badis are not allowed to run legitimate businesses. “People fear to buy anything from my shop because they fear the villagers,” says Dinesh Nepali, a Badi male who runs a small shop selling cigarettes, vegetables and soft drinks. “How can we survive like this?”…In 2007, Badi activists threatened to march naked through Kathmandu to embarrass the government into implementing the court-ordered rehabilitation, but that brought nothing except more promises…
September Q & A (September 30th, 2011)
In response to a questioner who defined using every minute of a call in penetration as “getting what he paid for”, I replied: “…the price doesn’t assume that; it’s like going into a restaurant and complaining because every square centimeter of the plate isn’t covered in food. Though I usually gave a price break for multiple hours, I didn’t do so if I knew the client was doing cocaine because the work of attending to him was much more difficult; the same thing could be said of a client who wants 60 full minutes of pumping. Most girls even give a price break for dinner-date type calls because they’re much easier per hour than calls spent entirely in bed.” Well, here’s a man who apparently had the same attitude as the questioner, but was far less civilized about it:
A 58-year-old Elgin [Illinois] man…tried to strangle a prostitute in a motel room after the woman refused additional sex after more than 30 encounters over a four-day period. Kim P. Brandmire was charged with aggravated battery…[the] woman said the two had rented a room at the motel Thursday and…when she refused to have sex Sunday…Brandmire…choked her…The woman was charged with prostitution…
The realization that it’s sick and sadistic to charge a crime victim with a crime herself never dawns in the lawhead mind.
The Immunity Syndrome (March 5th, 2012)
Back in March I mentioned in passing that gonorrhea was rapidly becoming immune to all antibiotics; here’s an article from Scientific American which goes into more detail:
…Last summer…the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention…demonstrated that up to 1.4 percent of 5,900 gonorrhea bacterial samples from around the U.S. had diminished susceptibility to cephalosporins…gonorrhea…is the second-most reported infectious disease in the U.S., with more than 600,000 new cases a year…if untreated, it can cause widespread organ damage…and infertility…Gonorrhea…[can borrow] DNA from other bacteria to construct new…defenses. It steadily gained resistance…first the penicillins in the 1960s, then the tetracyclines in the 1980s, and…fluoroquinolones…in the 1990s. By 2000 the only class of drugs that could provide [the inexpensive, effective, single-dose cure that] public health strategies rely on…was the cephalosporins. [But] cephalosporin resistance has been emerging in Japan, and moving east and west from there, for at least a decade…Efforts to control STDs may have inadvertently accelerated the spread of resistance. For years standard practice has been to quickly identify an infection, dole out the appropriate treatment and then move on to the next patient. If symptoms return, the assumption has been that the patient was reinfected. Experts now say that such patients may in fact have harbored resistant bacteria that were never killed in the first place—bacteria that the patients possibly spread to others…so far attempts to create a vaccine against gonorrhea have failed…
Even if a vaccine is eventually developed it won’t help the US, where adolescents – the carriers of 35% of all STIs – will certainly be blocked from receiving it by the same parental insanity which already prevents their vaccination against HPV.
Much Ado About Nothing (April 18th, 2012)
Dania Suarez, the escort Agent Arthur Huntington cheated, was interviewed on the Today show in Madrid:
…the alleged escort at the center of the Secret Service scandal… [described] the…agents…as “stupid,” “idiots”…Dania Londono Suarez told NBC that the Secret Service agents seemed accustomed to soliciting women, saying the three men who approached her were not shy, drinking vodka “like it was water”…U.S. investigators have yet to talk with the single mother after she says she fled Colombia fearing for her life.
Note the dysphemism “alleged”, as though prostitution were criminal (which it isn’t in Colombia); if you don’t understand what Suarez was afraid of, you might want to read my column on Deborah Jeane Palfrey.
Hiring whores is “unbecoming” to a soldier? Pardon me while I die laughing.
Little Boxes (April 29th, 2012)
Dr. Marty Klein published a superb essay entitled “Why Janet Jackson’s Nipple Won’t Go Away”:
You may recall that way back in 2004, Janet Jackson’s right nipple was unexpectedly exposed for exactly one-half second during the Super Bowl halftime show. Grown men cried. Women fainted. Children were driven mad by the brown protuberance. Not surprisingly, the stock market crashed only four years later, soon followed by the meltdown of Japan’s nuclear reactors. To punish the TV network on which the travesty occurred, the…FCC levied enormous fines…Since then, the FCC and our federal courts have been going back and forth in an attempt to design a TV censorship policy that doesn’t involve, um, censorship…So why are two successive presidencies…obsessed with a half-second of nipple? Why are millions more of your tax dollars about to be spent attempting to punish CBS for what they failed to prevent over 8 years ago?…It’s a special kind of politics: coding certain phenomena as sexual…makes them…subject to public control. There is virtually no private sexual behavior in America…the “public-izing” of sex is a key weapon in the War On Sex…
One has to wonder: Do American politicians want to make the US the laughingstock of the entire world, or do they really not comprehend that’s what they’re doing?
Whorearchy (May 10th, 2012)
In a perfect example of how “authorities” draw lines to divide whores from one another, Spain continues to turn the screws on streetwalkers so as to make it increasingly harder for them to make a living, while brothels are doing fine:
Indignant prostitutes take to the streets in Barcelona, angry at the city’s plans to ban street prostitution. Unemployment in [Spain] has reached 23 percent, and sex workers say this is the only way they can earn a living…the police make their lives difficult as it is and…tightening the law will make it even harder to feed a family. But…[brothels have] been making bigger profits every year since the crisis hit…
Metaupdates
The Camel’s Nose in TW3 (#16) (April 21st, 2012)
Even if Obama really does keep his promise to veto CISPA, there’s already a contingency plan in the works:
The FBI is asking Internet companies not to oppose a controversial proposal that would require firms…to build in backdoors for government surveillance…FBI officials argue the dramatic shift in communication from the telephone system to the Internet has made it far more difficult for agents to wiretap Americans…The FBI [wants to force] social-networking Web sites and providers of VoIP, instant messaging, and…e-mail [to] alter their code to ensure their products are wiretap-friendly…The FBI’s proposal would amend a 1994 law, called the Communications Assistance for Law Enforcement Act, or CALEA, that currently applies only to telecommunications providers…there are [also] indications that the [FCC] is considering reinterpreting CALEA to demand that products that allow video or voice chat over the Internet — from Skype to Google Hangouts to Xbox Live — include surveillance backdoors to help the FBI…
One Year Ago Today
“A War for Peace” turns a critical eye on the antics of Femen, the Ukranian feminist group known for topless protests.
“as if anyone ever worked for any other reason”
Hang on a moment, Maggie. You’re saying that people only work for money. As a broad generalisation, that’s true; but it’s not the whole picture. Plenty of people work for no financial reward. There’s lots of (young) volunteers who work abroad, lots of interns who work (are exploited) for no pay. You might say that what they are doing is building up their CV in the expectation of better rewards in the future, so that the financial payback is deferred; certainly, that can’t be denied. But at the time (apart perhaps from expenses) they aren’t paid and the don’t know what future rewards they will get. Then there are organisations like Médecins Sans Frontières whose members don’t get paid. I don’t think that (religious) missionaries are paid beyond expenses.
And many retirees go into voluntary work with local charities, many of which wouldn’t otherwise survive.
For those who can do it, the payback isn’t always financial, it’s because they like doing whatever it is, perhaps they feel they are making a difference, they are giving back something to their communities. And, for the retirees, they are keeping active and using their abilities.
And there are plenty of bloggers who write because they enjoy it, because they have a certain (political) view that they want to get across and want to educate (or amuse) their readers. Even if it was said of Dr Johnson, “No man but a blockhead ever wrote, except for money” it simply isn’t true.
And don’t try the “it isn’t work, it’s a labour of love” argument when it comes to blogging. Anyone who’s ever tried knows just how much hard work goes into writing a single piece, let alone a daily column of the quality of yours. Now, that’s what I call work.
Touche. Let’s say “money or other equally strong motivation” then. 🙂
in my 19 years i never thought i would ever be ashamed of being greek,our lovely politicians have so easily made me feel that way.the health minister,Loverdos is a fucking idiot,he not only ordered for the womens photos to be published but also their full names and adresses as if a whore would ever tell her real full name to a client or the adresses would be a way for them to recognise a brothel girl.when people called him out on this,he called them hypocrites and that public health is everything.what about the photos of the men who had unprotected sex and now spread the disease to other women,then?as long as in the last years we were a country famous for having huge financial problems,i didnt have such a big problem,now that we are also famous for violating human rights in such an idiotic and hypoctitical way,i feel like hiding under a rock.
Don’t feel that way, Laida; I’m an American, and our government’s violations of human rights make those of Greece look like philanthropy.
Re: US as a laughingstock.
Said politicians don’t care in my opinion. You see, they believe that the rest of the world is “wrong” and the US is the only country that is “correct”.
Alas, I think you’re right. 🙁
Of course she’s right, Maggie. The US and probably the rest of the world wouldn’t be in half the trouble it’s in right now if she wasn’t. But short of that apocalypse I keep thinking is probably right around the corner, I don’t see what could happen to jolt the naked emperors either to their senses or into the streets without causing a massive overreaction. That seems to be the only thing our government is capable of doing at the present moment.
I wish I wasn’t. 🙁
US is still the shining light of the world. If there were any better place – even incrementally better – I’d be giving my life savings to bribe my way into it.
This is not coming from a guy who’s spent his whole life on Mainstreet, USA – this is coming from a guy who has been to every corner of the world and to almost every civilized nation on this planet.
It’s not pride in being an American – it’s just a fact. Yeah, we’re pretty fucked up here alright – but relatively speaking, we a far measure off with respect to liberty than any other nation on the Earth.
**eye roll** Oh please. And it has everything to do with an “America is always right” attitude. I am sure you will argue otherwise, as I know other people like you who do. However, I know too many people who have lived in other parts of the world and sorry, your statement doesn’t hold up under scrutiny. There are plenty of people who have traveled the world but their minds never left home. So, no, not impressed.
Ad hominem. 🙁
How many different countries have you lived in or visited?
Sorry – but that’s not traveling the world. Watching Anderson Cooper from your living room while he runs around in a flak jacket and a goofy helmet in Afghanistan is NOT travelling the world.
I certainly agreed with you that the US is plenty fucked up. However, let’s not fool ourselves into thinking that it’s worse than any other place on the planet – it’s not. I just got back from my son’s graduation from a small Louisiana college and watched HUNDREDS of kids from the Ukraine, Czech Republic, Russia, Nepal, India, Pakistan, and a host of other nations get their diploma. Why do kids travel around the world to attend a small-time Louisiana college?
Because it’s IN AMERICA.
I wouldn’t even agree with you that most politicians think the US is always right. You’re certainly not talking about the MAJORITY party right now. Sure Republicans are guilty of that kind of mentality – but they haven’t been the majority party in Congress for SIX YEARS.
Sorry – I misread this – initially I thought you were saying it was possible to travel the world with your mind – without leaving home. Actually you were saying the opposite.
When I travel the world – I usually spend about month at a time living and working with foreign nationals of a different nation. I do this about three months out of every year.
Normally there will be about five Americans and 15 to 20 foreign nationals from the host nation. The cooks are foreign – I eat foreign food. The television is foreign. You wouldn’t believe the misconceptions many foreigners have of the US – why? Because they’ve never been here. There are simply a lot of people making judgements about the world who’ve never seen it.
I’ve done this for 30 years. I’ve painted school houses in East Timor while wearing a flak jacket because of armed insurgents in a nearby jungle who seemed to LIKE shooting at Americans who were simply trying to improve the life conditions of little East Timorean kids.
I have first hand experience dealing with the attitudes of Arabs who think Osama is the greatest thing since liquid soap. I mean – I’ve talked to these people – been spat on by one.
The places I’ve been – there was not a local tourist agent holding up a sign at the airport with my name on it. I went to these places the hard way and didn’t stay in five star hotels – I was often berthed with the local population, completely immersed in the culture – not there to sight see. I had to understand these people and these nations.
I’m simply telling you – that, after all that – had I found ANY place better than this god-forsaken nation known as the US – I WOULD BE THERE AS A CITIZEN now.
But I am not. You can dismiss this – you’re welcome to – but I don’t think you can become enlightened by completely dismissing the opinions of those who disagree with you – especially when they have some experience in the subject.
I’ve only lived in America but I have traveled to five other countries, thanks to not being born into a wealthy enough family that could fund such travels and a severe hesitation to “see the world” as a member of the military. However, most of my friends are people who have lived and traveled much more widely than I have and are brutally honest about all their experiences. And yet, they regularly favor the other countries they have lived in/traveled to; many are in the process of moving to other countries.
I just got back from my son’s graduation from a small Louisiana college and watched HUNDREDS of kids from the Ukraine, Czech Republic, Russia, Nepal, India, Pakistan, and a host of other nations get their diploma. Why do kids travel around the world to attend a small-time Louisiana college?
Because it’s IN AMERICA.
Uh-huh. And have you taken this same survey in other countries? Do you honestly believe that you wouldn’t be able to find the same diversity in the students? And really? Those countries you listed? Yes, of course they left those countries. That is exactly what I meant about your attitude, so thank you for making my point. Only compare America to countries with much worse problems and we look GREAT!
Furthermore, did you ever consider that the reason they are going to school in America is because the curriculum is easier? I know plenty of Western European students in universities over here, but they all say the same thing, “It’s less challenging.” My friend Niels is from Germany and he said that the way we test (and ultimately reward with a diploma) students is much easier to bs through than in Germany, France, or the UK, where you have to give oral presentations/discussions of what you know to a panel of professors, only one of which is yours. You either know the subject or you don’t. Here? So easy to bullshit and get an A. Final question, are these students staying here or going back home?
Sorry – but that’s not traveling the world. Watching Anderson Cooper from your living room while he runs around in a flak jacket and a goofy helmet in Afghanistan is NOT travelling the world.
This doesn’t even make sense. You clearly didn’t understand me. Who said anything about them watching a show in their living room? Again, you brilliantly illustrate my point in a way that I couldn’t. When someone is in another country and yet they can only view that country through “America is the best” lens, then no, their minds haven’t left home.
Sure Republicans are guilty of that kind of mentality – but they haven’t been the majority party in Congress for SIX YEARS.
You have this knack of making inaccurate claims (yet EASILY researched), hence my knack of not taking your opinion on the state of other countries (especially those we are supposed to be “equal” to) compared to America seriously. Republicans control the House and the Democrats control the Senate; ergo, NEITHER party is in the majority. Furthermore, quite a few of those Democrats in both houses of Congress are the Blue Dog, numbering 26–so add that to the Republican count. Unfortunately, there are very few “liberal” Republicans left in Washington, so its not as though their number will invalidate the contribution of Blue Dog Dems to any Republican initiative. Also, Republican, Democrat, Libertarian, Socialist…it doesn’t really matter. If you’re conservative and narrow-minded that is the mentality that will develop.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/112th_United_States_Congress
http://www.infoplease.com/ipa/A0774721.html
http://www.senate.gov/reference/resources/pdf/R41647.pdf
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blue_Dog_Coalition
So I’m going to go back to ignoring most of what you say just as you ignore most of what I say. Toodles.
What countries are your friends moving to?
See, unlike you – I won’t dismiss your opinion just because I disagree with you – and I’m desperately trying to read your point through the venum – and I intend to continue to try.
Like I said – I’ve been all over the world – and had I found a country that was better than the US as far as liberty goes – I’d move there – in fact, I would have moved there long ago.
But … maybe I missed this “paradise” – so can you please enlighten me as to which nation all your friends are moving to – which you are claiming in your response above?
I’d like to check it out.
What I’m looking for is a nation that allows me to make my decisions about healthcare – if I don’t want it – I don’t have to have it. If I want it – I have the right to shop around for the best deal that makes sense to me.
I’m looking for a place that will allow me to keep my assault rifles – as I can here in the US. I believe that an armed population always has options with a tyranical government – while a DIS-Armed population has none.
I currently own a two-story home with a fenced in backyard of approx 1 acre. I can afford this because the government doesn’t overtax me – though they are getting there fast. So I need to move someplace where the tax rates are lower than in the US – also, I’ll need a job – which I’ve never had a problem finding here in the US.
I need a place where Freedom of Speech is respected – and no, it’s not respected everywhere. In Germany – you can’t carry a swastika – I don’t want to carry one anyway – but if that can be prohibited then anything can. Ann Coulter was warned by the Canadian Government that their free speech laws were different from the US’s – so she needed to watch her mouth while in Canada or she could be arrested for hate speech. I think “hate speech” is a garbage government excuse for “speech we, the tyrants, don’t like” – so I don’t want to move to a country like that.
Now – if your friends have found such a country – PLEASE let me know. But if they, are simply to moving to “socialist paradises” because they think their physical lives will be more pleasant (until the government runs out of money) – I’m not interested.
RE: Janet Jackson’s ‘wardrobe malfunction’
The people who run showbiz and the media are friends with the people who run everything else in the world. And a lot of them are members of (semi) secret societies which are obsessed with ancient knowledge, ancient religions and anything to do with the occult/ esoteric world. They’re particularly obsessed with ancient Egypt and earlier. As such, they’re big on Goddess worship. This is why the whore/ virgin is such a big part of our mainstream culture.
The fact that, broadly speaking, these are the same ‘elite’ who went around the world stealing and then stamping out all ancient knowledge and imposing, for example, Christianity onto the poor Pagan people of Europe does not mean they aren’t interested in these things themselves. These rulers give us one type of organised religion, while they secretly practise another… they give us one world view, while they secretly adhere to another…. they give us one set of rules to live by, while they blatantly operate by another.… anyone see the pattern yet?
So on the one hand they supply us with a shallow, materialistic, hedonistic, narcissistic, competitive, entertainment-based culture which fixates us on money, hierarchy, violence and sex (in ways which speak only to our most primitive ‘reptilian brain’). From this point of view Janet Jackson’s exposed breast is just a bit of, er, titillation…….. but on he other hand they also use ‘our’ culture to simultaneously perform their own rituals and magic, and communicate in symbolic language right in our faces but without us even knowing. Like I said, these people are very much into Goddess worship.
Showbiz award ceremonies are often used to perform high level symbolic rituals. I guess you could call it a ‘meta ritual’. Justin Timberlake’s bearing of Janet Jackson’s breast was without doubt a symbolic act for those in the know which had nothing to do with ‘wardrobe malfunctions’ or being sexually provocative… all that’s just a load of nonsense for the public.
The recent Superbowl halftime show was another example of a high profile ritual performed in front of millions. Presumably the crowd energy forms part of the ritual ie mass consciousness helps to create reality, and so the ritual is made more powerful by our conscious (albeit largely ignorant) attention.
I don’t think we can fully understand the virgin/ whore attitudes in (western) society without looking at the virgin/ whore (and Goddess) symbolism and programming which we get from corporate media/ Hollywood/ MTV etc. (AKA the ‘culture creators’).
I could go on because I’d end up writing a book here… but I’ll end by observing that (probably by design) mainstream culture encourages us to reject everything to do with paganism, Goddess worship, ‘sexual power’, occult knowledge ….. while at the same time embracing (or condemning) its most shallow, moronic, mindless enactments, as are fed to us via mainstream entertainment.
To me all of the above attitudes represent running away from personal power and knowledge. As we are all supposed to do, no doubt. And where to we run? Towards hedonistic consumerism and instant gratification as well as guilt/ sin based organised religions.
More symbolism from our rulers, just for kicks……your previous post showed a picture of the Tower of Babel. Have you seen the EU Parliament building?
The First Time –
Unless there is a reproductive motive, wanting a virgin is a peculiar fetish; and how is virginity even established/proved? It can’t be.
Little Boxes –
If some people are traumatized by Jackson’s nipple, one wonders what effect full nudity in public parks (like Schönfeldwiese in Munich) would have on them.
Whorearchy –
As often is the case, unity is strength. The brothels are organized in a powerful organization called ANELA, and no political party is interested in picking a fight with them. Unfortunately, the street walkers are not organized to any significant degree, and frequently see each other as competitors rather than allies. This gives the political class – always eager to increase fines and restrictive laws – the opportunity to act against them.
Re: The First Time,
You might want to check out the film ‘How to Lose your Virginity’ when it comes out, if it hasn’t already. It basically posits that in this day and age the whole concept of virginity is pretty much pointless anyway. At least the inordinate amount of importance people worldwide place on it is.
OK, am I the only one who gets the giggles every time she looks at that Bizarro panel? My favorite part is, “Cheer up! You as good as dead!”
I really like the Bizarro panel. 🙂
I’ve never understood the virginity fetish. When I have sex, I think that at least one of us should know what we’re doing.
I once asked Jeff what the big deal was with virgins, and he told me that the few times he had ever been with them were absolutely the worst sex he ever had. I guess it’s just a “different strokes” thing.
That’s what I’ve never understood about the Muslim paradise promising pleasures like 72 virgins. That sounds more like hell to me. Give me 72 experienced whores.
I completely missed out on the “V” thing. I remember, as a young man in my 20’s I always hoped to find one. At the moment of truth – I would always whisper into the girls ear … “Is this your first time?”
And I always got “No”. Sometimes I got a giggle with that answer too, or a “No, Silly”.
Now, I don’t think I missed much.
In males – there’s a tertiary desire to MARK a woman for life. You can be #2 through #50 and the girl may totally forget you by the time she’s in her 40’s – unless you were exceedingly skilled or did something notable that she remembers.
She will never forget her first time. So taking a virgin is a way for a man to install himself into the mind of a woman for a lifetime.
The only problem is – since she’ll remember YOU – she’ll also remember how good you were for her or how bad you were. I also think she compares every lover she ever had to you – and you probably won’t come out very favorably.
And the reason for that is – sure, you may not have known what you were doing when you deflowered her – but also you’re disadvantaged in the fact that the experience is a just a tiny bit traumatic and painful for her – so that may inhibit your dazzling performance a bit as well as certainly coloring her memory of it.
Nothing to do with good sex and everything to do with being “first”. It’s a Mt Everest, and “rounding Cape Horn” kind of thing.
Yeah, but there’s only one Mount Everest, and hundreds of millions of virgins at any given time; it hardly seems comparable. On the other hand, I do remember that my younger siblings used to consider it an achievement to be the first one to take peanut butter or mayonnaise out of a new jar, so perhaps you’re right.
If there is any place on this universe where female rape of a male is possible then it’s Zimbabwe. It wouldn’t even approach some of the strangeness I’ve seen happen there. Not saying it happened and it prolly didn’t but since this is Zimbabwe we’re talking here I wouldn’t bet my life one way or the other!! 😛
And, it’s too bad that Mugabe and his Marxists have kept the tribes pitted against white Africans and against each other. Zimbabwe is a beautiful country and most of the people are beautiful too but Mugabe and his hoards have completely ruined it.
“Even if a vaccine is eventually developed it won’t help the US, where adolescents – the carriers of 35% of all STIs – will certainly be blocked from receiving it by the same parental insanity which already prevents their vaccination against HPV.”
If American adolescents become convinced they should take the vaccine (ay, there’s the rub), they will take it, whatever the law has to say about it. It surely can’t be any more difficult to get a banned vaccine (IF somebody will develop it and IF the kids realize they need it) than it is to get ecstasy, acid, pot, 2c-e, etc. (gotta watch out for that etc, it’s powerful stuff)