Posts Tagged ‘bad customers’
Throwback Thursday vs Frankenstein
Posted in Miscellaneous, Perception, Philosophy, The Dark Side, Tyranny, tagged adolescence, agency denial, bad customers, Bad Girls, blogging, consensual crime, fantasy, genitalia, hysteria, Imagination Pinned Down, neofeminism, propaganda, PSA, psychology, Shazam!, violence vs. sex workers, yin and yang on June 12, 2025| Leave a Comment »
There is no therapy for poor judgment. – “Public Service Announcement”
Just as we ignore those topological elements of a cloud or inkblot which do not fit the meaning our minds have imposed upon it, so do we forget or distort elements of a memory which fail to conform to the schema in which we have embedded it, or even invent elements which were not in reality present, but which the schema predicts should be. – “Imagination Pinned Down”
As long as we allow and even encourage our governments to criminalize private, consensual behaviors with no clear victim and no actual corpus delicti, lots more people are going to be senselessly killed and lots of senseless killers are going to get away with it. – “Rotten to the Core”
Most modern prohibitionist propaganda is based upon depicting the prostitute as a mentally inferior creature whose statements about her own thoughts and feelings cannot be trusted. – “Ninon de l’Enclos”
There is no magical moment of “Shazam!” at which teens are mystically imbued with the ability to consent. – “Legal Fiction“
In the News (#1523)
Posted in Current Events, Miscellaneous, News, Perception, Tyranny, Words, tagged artificial stupidity, bad customers, censorship, cops, Eavesdropping, FBI, Germany, If Men Were Angels, Indiana, internet, language, Maine, New York, politicians, porn, Property of the State, rape, sex work is work, sporting events, surveillance, teachers, The Last Shall Be First, The Next Target, The Notorious Badge, To Molest and Rape, transgender, West Virginia on March 22, 2025| Leave a Comment »
It’s a fake legal process…[that] reeks of pure politics. – David Webbert
This will continue until fools stop teaching children unquestioning obedience to “authority”:
…Jose Saez, Jr., [the] pastor [of] a church…in Brentwood, New York, pleaded guilty to…child [molestation, and]…faces a minimum sentence of…30 years…Saez used an encrypted messaging service to engage in sexually explicit conversations with [a cop fantasy role-playing as a child, stating]…he had sexually abused an infant, that his “sweet spot” was molesting children between the ages of 11 and 15, and that he was able to find his younger victims at “church”…FBI agents [also found] numerous images and videos of child pornography [when they searched his stuff]…
People everywhere are getting sick of prohibitionist censorship:
The Administrative Court in Düsseldorf is set to decide on the future of online pornography in Germany…The North Rhine-Westphalia State Media Authority (LfM)…demands that pornographic sites meticulously verify the age of all visitors…or…face network blocking. The operators of the world’s largest porn sites…don’t want to harass their millions of visitors with ID checks…Pornhub and YouPorn, both owned by Aylo…refuse to [spy on visitors thus, so LfM]…demanded that Germany’s largest internet providers block their websites…However, most porn fans are unlikely to have noticed this, as the affected porn sites simply changed their domains. Pornhub is…accessible at “de.pornhub.org”; the…block only applied to “de.pornhub.com”…In addition, users can easily circumvent a network block…with…a VPN…Two cases before the Düsseldorf Administrative Court revolve around the question of whether the blocking orders issued by the media regulator are even [legal]…
The Last Shall Be First (#1244)
Another disgusting genital inspection law:
…the West Virginia Legislature passed a bill that would allow health care providers to “visually or physically examine a minor”…for the purpose of identifying their “biological sex” without the “consent of the [minor]’s parent, guardian, or custodian.” The bill, S.B. 456, would define sex based on whether a person produces eggs or sperm…[and limits] gender-segregated spaces like locker rooms or restrooms…to…a person’s sex…at birth…an amendment…[restricted the “right” to violate a minor against their will to their] “treating health care provider”…[which] was actually an improvement over a previous version of the bill, which…would have allowed teachers to perform the [molest]ations…
In the authoritarian mind, for students to voluntarily allow other people to examine their genitalia for the purpose of pleasure is a “crime”, but for the same students to be forced by law to allow strangers to examine their genitalia for the purpose of bigotry is “protection”.
Remember, Amazon eagerly hands data from internet-connected devices to cops:
With Alexa+ rolling out to Amazon Echo devices in the coming weeks, we’re getting a clearer view at the privacy concessions people will have to make to maximize usage of the [LLM] voice assistant and avoid bricking functionality of already-purchased devices…Amazon said that Echo users will no longer be able to set their devices to process Alexa requests locally…starting on March 28, recordings of everything spoken to…Echo speakers and…displays will automatically be sent to Amazon and processed in the[ir servers]…One of the most marketed features of Alexa+ is its more advanced ability to recognize who is speaking to it…To accommodate this…Amazon is eliminating a privacy-focused capability for all Echo users, even those who aren’t interested in…Alexa+…In 2023, Amazon agreed to pay $25 million in civil penalties over the revelation that it stored recordings of children’s interactions with Alexa forever…the company [also] allowed employees to listen to Alexa voice recordings…and…watch video recordings of customers’ private spaces…taken from Ring cameras…
The Last Shall Be First (#1517)
Wouldn’t it be nice if there were at least a few adults in office?
…after a [politician feign]ed outrage on Facebook about a transgender girl winning a high school pole vaulting event…[mad emperor] Trump singled out Maine’s governor…and threatened to cut off the state’s federal funding. “See you in court,” Gov. Janet Mills shot back. Then came a barrage of investigations and threats [from] the…Department[s] of Education…Health and Human Services…Agriculture…and…Justice…The National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration…pulled $4.5 million for marine research…[and] the Social Security Administration…cancel[ed] contracts that allowed hospitals to automatically report births and funeral homes to report deaths…more federal agencies are pressing down on Maine than there are transgender girls competing in girls’ sports in the state…David Webbert, a longtime civil rights attorney in Maine…[observed that] it’s as if Trump is saying: “Maine believes in transgender rights? Well, you’re going to see what happens to you”…
Though his victim wasn’t a student, would you want a rapist lurking around your daughter?
…[An Indiana cop named] Zachary Kerley is [paid to lurk in]…schools [to spy on, harass, and intimidate students]. He…[was friendly with his victim] via Snapchat…and asked her out for drinks. She…accepted but told him “it’s not going any further than that”, and…he agreed…[but then raped] her at [her] hotel…despite her physical and verbal objections…Kerley [has been rewarded with a paid vacation]…
Didn’t this ignorant clod used to be a comedian or something?
Bill Maher…took some time during his “New Rules” segment to exclaim, “Whores are having a moment…You gotta give me more than a week to get used to a new word or phrase or name for what we call something…We did this with homeless until it was unhoused. We did this with illegal alien until it was undocumented migrant…And now we’re doing it with prostitute…If it’s such an important liberal cause…why didn’t you do it 10 years ago or 20 or in 1975?”…
NB: The term “sex worker” was coined by Carol Leigh in 1979, became popular among activists in the ’80s, and has been commonly used in the mainstream media for about ten years now.
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Halloween Ruins Throwback Thursday
Posted in Call types, Miscellaneous, Perception, Philosophy, Tyranny, tagged bad customers, blogging, holidays, hysteria, prohibitionist myths, psychology, sex work is work on October 30, 2024| Leave a Comment »
One expects juvenile pranks from a juvenile. – “Deadbeats”
Dealing with trafficking fanatics is a lot like stumbling into the Country of the Blind; they have their own narrow and ignorant concept of sex work, and anyone who tells them the truth is treated as a fool, an idiot or a liar.
– “The Country of the Blind”
The only cure for innocence is experience.
– “Q & A (October 2012)”
Halloween…is the day to flirt with the Reaper, to dance on one’s own grave, to play with skulls and to have fun with the gruesome…because the more familiar one is with something, the less terror it holds. And the less we fear death, the freer we are to enjoy everything life has to offer. – “Halloween 2013”
Thursday of Throwbacks
Posted in Miscellaneous, Perception, Tyranny, tagged agency denial, Arizona, bad customers, blogging, censorship, fascism, hysteria, Just Call Me Nobody, politicians, propaganda, psychology, yellow journalism on September 19, 2024| Leave a Comment »
In a fully-developed fascist state it isn’t necessary for the government to censor the media or ensure academic cooperation via threats of repression, because those institutions are more than willing to violate every standard of professional ethics in their eagerness to assist in the dissemination of propaganda.
– “The Phoenix Pharisees”
It’s a kind of black joke among sex workers that everyone is an expert in our lives except us.
– “Just Call Me Nobody”
Haggling isn’t actually about the relative expense of a sex worker’s price; it’s a means of trying to circumvent her boundaries. – “Another Kind of Haggling“
Throwback Thursday of the Beast
Posted in Miscellaneous, Perception, Philosophy, Tyranny, tagged bad customers, blogging, Childish Things, condoms, hysteria, politicians, prohibitionist myths, psychology, sex work is work, Washington (state) on August 8, 2024| Leave a Comment »
Nobody would expect a lawyer or a surgeon to perform his professional duties in the dark, and asking a whore to do so is just as ridiculous. – “Nothing in the Dark”
Many humans still function at a very childish level, and since the insecure need to control others is one of the most primitive and immature of human traits, it is inevitable that the least developed of humans are disproportionately represented in positions of power.
– “Childish Things”
“Authorities” all over America seem embroiled in a competition to see who can march the farthest up his own arse, produce the most ludicrous, specious nonsense, and generally look the most like a credulous clown devoid of even the smallest particle of that elusive quality erroneously called “common sense”. – “Race To the Bottom“
The Throwback Thursday Syndrome
Posted in Miscellaneous, Perception, Tyranny, tagged agency denial, bad customers, blogging, fantasy, Hollywood, hysteria, pragmatism, prohibitionist myths, The Implosion Begins, yin and yang on July 18, 2024| Leave a Comment »
Some men simply can’t handle the truth that women are in control of the sexual sphere, so they invent myths and fantasies with which to convince themselves that it’s actually the other way around.
– “Head Games”
If the primary purpose of a movie is to entertain, it makes sense that a film can be “so bad it’s good”; some movies are just so incredibly, amazingly, jaw-droppingly bad that we can’t help finding them funny.
– “Pull the String”
The claim that sex workers “sell our bodies” is…based on the notion that…a woman has nothing of value to offer except her sexuality, [therefore] if she “sells” that she has “sold herself” and there is nothing left. – “More Harm Than Good“
In the News (#1451)
Posted in Current Events, Miscellaneous, News, The Dark Side, Tyranny, tagged abortion, bad customers, Bits and Pieces, California, censorship, cops, Florida, Idaho, If Men Were Angels, Israel, Joey the Player, Never Call the Cops, New Jersey, porn, racism, rape, slavery, surveillance, The Face of Trafficking, The Puritan Recrudescence, The Vultures Descend, To Molest and Rape, violence vs. sex workers, West Virginia on July 3, 2024| Leave a Comment »
Th[e Assange] precedent now can and will be used in the future against the rest of the press. – Stella Assange
Anyone “shocked” by this must live in a cave:
[Jonathan Elwing, a Florida pastor caught using cryptocurrency to buy child porn of children as young as 4] is now facing more charges…[after] a…search of [hi]s cell phone revealed…at least 14 pictures of him [rap]ing a 2-year-old…
Note that cases of actual coercion don’t look much like the myths:
A [West Virginia] couple [who]…lock[ed two of their adopted] children up in a barn and forc[ed] them to work are back behind bars…on a bond that’s more than double what they had already been given– now set at $500,000 each. Donald Ray Lantz…and Jeanne Kay Whitefeather…[pled] not guilty to over a dozen new charges against them…the adopted children, who were black, were specifically targeted by the couple and forced to work because of their race…the couple was able to acquire the $400,000 bond money
for their release from jail in February…[despite claiming] that they had no income or assets, bringing into question where they had acquired the money…from…the couple [say they] sold an 80-acre ranch in Tonasket, Washington [that they claimed not to own] for $725,000 on Feb. 2…the[n]…on March 28…they…sold the…home [that they also did not own]…for $295,000…their bond money…still remains in the custody of the…Court Clerk’s office. [But in a rare moment of normal human decency, the prosecutor said he] believes it should be transferred over to a trust fund for the children…
Good grief, don’t volunteer to be around them either:
A Riverside County [California cop is at large] after [somehow] posting $1 million bail following his…arrest…[for] kidnapping…rape…and…oral [rape] of a sheriff’s office volunteer…Alexander Ravy Vanny…was… [arrested on June 22nd and out the next day after his victim]…told [another cop] about the [rape]…
At least these shitty laws were used against an actual violent criminal for a change:
On Wednesday, June 26th, 2026 “Joey The Player”, [AKA] José Olivio Torres was sentenced to 30 years in prison for 4 counts of Sex Trafficking related charges…The FBI interviewed more than 30 victims, [but]…the court was aware of likely hundreds more victims who were too afraid to come forward. A search of Torres’ home and office revealed more than 400 phone numbers and hundreds of email addresses he used to evade identification…he sent out between 60 and 150 texts and emails daily, trying to lure new victims to New [Jersey]…Torres had written nearly a million dollars in bad checks to sex workers…He sued the prosecutor, the victims’ attorney’s firm, and even the judge…filed hundreds of self-written motions with the court and fired at least four attorneys…most motions were denied, and the lawsuits were dismissed with prejudice…Torres…repeatedly stated that his “real crime” was theft of services…However, [neither] the judge…no[r anyone else involved]…was…convinced by Torres’ attempts to minimize his actions. The court never once referred to the survivors as anything but sex workers and treated them with the utmost dignity and respect…
The Puritan Recrudescence (#1421)
“Simply claiming that the ‘age verification preserves online anonymity’ does not make it so“:
A company that verifies the identities of TikTok, Uber, and [Twitter] users…by processing photographs of their faces and pictures of their drivers’ licenses, exposed a set of administrative credentials online for more than a year potentially allowing hackers to access that sensitive data…The Israel-based company, called AU10TIX, offers what it describes [using buzzwords] as “full-service identity verification solutions”…The news comes as more social networks and pornography sites [have been forced by politicians to] move towards an identity or age verification model…[and] highlights that identity services could themselves become a target for hackers…
Mutually-contradictory laws are an inevitable result of rampant authoritarianism:
The Supreme Court will allow emergency abortions in Idaho…while a lawsuit over the state’s controversial abortion law [goes] forward…the state…[even] prohibits abortions required to protect a pregnant woman’s physical health…[in] violat[ion of]…EMTALA…a federal law that requires many hospitals to provide stabilizing care to patients who show up to emergency rooms…An Idaho federal district court judge placed a preliminary injunction on [the] law in August 2022…but…Idaho appealed, and the Supreme Court reversed the block in January…[resulting in] “the State’s largest provider of emergency services ha[ving] to airlift pregnant women out of Idaho roughly every other week, compared to once in all of the prior year”…With Thursday’s decision, the Supreme Court has dismissed Idaho’s appeals, allowing doctors to provide health-preserving abortions in the state while the case continues…
A short EN Brown piece on the legacy of the Assange persecution:
…it’s hard to exactly call this a win for the WikiLeaks founder. But on the surface, it is a loss for the U.S. government, which wanted to put Assange away for a much, much longer period of time. And yet, on some level, authorities got exactly what it seems they wanted: a warning to anyone who would dare to publish information that makes the government look bad. It provides a clear view of what happens when you actively try to expose government secrets. Shots have already been fired against future renegade journalists…Assange’s prosecution almost certainly serves as a deterrent for journalists who would encourage whistleblowers…or any outlet that would aim to function, like WikiLeaks, as a source for unredacted publications of government information…
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Teenage Throwback Thursday
Posted in Miscellaneous, Perception, Philosophy, The Dark Side, tagged bad customers, blogging, Day of the Dead, fantasy, holidays, hysteria, imaginative fiction, Mexico, psychology, sex work is work, Thanatopsis, Throwback Thursday on November 2, 2023| Leave a Comment »
The lurid, sensationalized tragedy porn narratives that make up the body of “sex trafficking” mythology are nothing more than Gothic horror tales that opportunists pretend are real. – “Unreal Horrors”
Every…sex-work[er]…has had clients fall for her; it’s a natural outgrowth of a situation in which a lonely man spends a lot of time in the company of a beautiful, alluring woman who only shows him her best side. – “Out of Bounds”
You are going to die. Soon. And there is absolutely nothing you can do about it. – “Thanatopsis”
Sex and death are but two sides of the same coin: the former is the door through which we enter the world, and the latter the door through which we leave it. – “Eros and Thanatos”
That experience of being a stranger in one’s own community, of being treated like a living oracle, like a weird visitor back from the underworld with divine wisdom to share…that, I think, is the experience which defines the old.
– “Let There Be Dark”
In the News (#1353)
Posted in Current Events, Miscellaneous, News, Tyranny, tagged A Moral Cancer, advertising, Arizona, bad customers, Canada, censorship, cops, crypto-moralism, disease, Drawing Lines, drugs, Facebook, fascism, Google, I Spy, internet, law, No Escape, Pennsylvania, pregnancy, propaganda, Property of the State, rape, surveillance, The Prudish Giant, Thou Shalt Not, To Molest and Rape, Whither Canada?, You Were Warned on July 8, 2023| Leave a Comment »
Sex workers…should have access to the same legal mechanisms to enforce their agreements as any other service provider. – Jessica Rose
The headline writer omitted the word “temporarily”:
A days-long ban by Instagram on dozens of kink and sex-positive creators [has been] lifted [for now]…Those impacted by the bans, which lasted from June 22 to June 28, still…[somehow can’t understand why the compulsively-censorious Facebook, which owns] Instagram…blocked [their accounts again as it did two and a half years ago], and [naively expect] explanations of how those involved in the sex-positive community can safely interact on [the] platform…without [being lumped in with those dirty, bad sex workers Facebook has repeatedly censored for years without a peep from the “sex positive community”]…
Pregnant women & new mothers are uniquely vulnerable to state coercion:
…in 2016…Congress passed the Comprehensive Addiction and Recovery Act…[which] included a one-word change to…federal law…requir[ing] newborns vaguely identified as “affected by” illegal drugs to be flagged to child protective services. In this new iteration, [politician]s removed the word “illegal”…[so] hospitals…were required to [snitch to pigs] any time a newborn was “affected by” any substance, legal or [otherwise]…Many [states] responded by expanding child abuse reporting requirements to include the use of prescription medications during pregnancy…States such as Arizona…doubled down on investigations…women [have been] reported after taking antidepressants, anxiety and ADHD medications, and even over-the-counter cold medicine…some…were reported after testing positive for the fentanyl in their epidurals. States are even less forthcoming about how many…newborns are [abducted under this pretext]…
I’m happy to have been proven wrong about her chances:
A Halifax sex worker has won her small claims court case over an unpaid fee from a client in what her advocates say is a huge step toward strengthening the rights of all sex workers…On Jan. 26, 2022, Brogan Sheehan…[agreed] to provide companionship services to a man named Bradley Samuelson…at a rate of $300 per hour. Seven hours…later…after [a great deal of hassle]…he finally paid her $300, leaving a balance of $1,800…Samuelson [bizarrely] argued that a contract for sexual services is not enforceable in law because it’s an illegal contract…[but adjudicator Darrel] Pink ruled that the contract was enforceable…because sex work is not illegal, [therefore] it follows that normal commercial law benefits afforded by civil law should be available to sex workers…Samuelson voluntarily hired her, agreed to pay for her services and communicated intent to pay…[he] was ordered to pay Ms. Sheehan $1,800 plus interest and costs, which he did on May 24. Ms. Sheehan said she’s relieved and proud that the victory now clears the way for other sex workers to seek a legal remedy when clients refuse to pay, which happens often…
It’s rare that a rapist cop stops at only a few victims:
A [typical and representative] Philadelphia [cop] already [caged] on child sex assault charges is now charged with dozens more sex crimes that stem from his [long career as a rapist cop]…Patrick Heron…has [been]…charged…in 19 new cases…from 2005 to 2019…the 233 new counts…include kidnapping, [anal rape, child molestation, rape, witness intimidation]…sexual assault, child sexual abuse, indecent assault, and [rape of a caged woman]…
When it comes to surveillance, fascism beats communism hands down:
Numerous government agencies, including the FBI, Department of Defense…[NSA, and] Treasury Department…have purchased vast amounts of U.S. citizens’ personal information from commercial data brokers…a partially declassified…report released on June 9…shows the breathtaking scale and invasive nature of the consumer data market and how [it] directly enables wholesale [unconstitutional] surveillance of people. The data includes not only where you’ve been and who you’re connected to, but the nature of your beliefs and [highly-flawed] predictions about what you might do in the future…[this] information, coupled with the now-ubiquitous decision-making a[lgorithms]…like ChatGPT, significantly increases the threat to privacy and civil liberties by giving the government access to sensitive personal information beyond even what it could collect through court-authorized surveillance…
Crypto-moralists believe people enjoying something is enough reason to declare it “unsafe”:
“The dose makes the poison.” That’s always what you have to bear in mind when you hear any claim about whether some substance…is “toxic”, or even “causes cancer”. Many “poisons” only do…harm at very high concentrations, and even water can be toxic if you drink enough…the International Agency for Research on Cancer (IARC), is about to declare that aspartame…is “possibly carcinogenic” …[despite being] repeatedly…declared safe by multiple health authorities over the years after dozens of studies…the IARC [has]…four categories…Group 1 is things they think definitely cause cancer. Group 2A is things that are “probably carcinogenic”. Group 2B is “possibly carcinogenic”. And Group 3 is “not classifiable”. Aspartame isn’t currently…on the list, but [IARC wants]…to add it to Group 2B…[along with] aloe vera…working as a carpenter…joiner…[or] dry cleaner…[and] pickled vegetables…Group 2A…[includes] red meat…working night shifts…[and] drinking hot beverages…At a certain level, all of these things might be hazardous to our health – but what is that level?…
Google has followed [Facebook] in announcing it will block Canadian news content from its search engine in Canada after [Canadian politicians refused to back down from foolish demands it pay for the “privilege” of linking to other websites]…The Liberals say the law is meant to end tech titans’ dominance of the digital advertising market [by reversing the centuries-old traditional advertising relationship (where companies pay to have their products advertised in mass media) via magical proclamation]…platforms would face fin[es on top of the extortion fees] for failing to [dance in the way politicians demand, so the only way for these companies to win is not to play]…
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