Oh look, picket-fence queers from groups like GLAAD are beginning to notice that deliberately ignoring sex workers after they reached the Big Table (and in some cases, actually joining the crusade against us) wasn’t such a good idea. And I must add again: stop your fucking partisan bullshit. This wasn’t “Trump’s crusade” or “the GOP’s crusade”; Democrats were equal drivers at every step of the process under the usual banners (“The Children!!!” and “exploitation of women“), so you don’t get to smugly point your fingers at other people and pretend you had nothing to do with it. This was done by people you elected, in fascist collaboration with companies you support (and who pay for your multi-million dollar “Pride” parades). You stood by while other sexual minorities were persecuted, and you were fine with it because it wasn’t you. Well, now those pigeons are coming home to roost, just as sex workers told you they would. Just as you should’ve known they would, but were too wrapped up in partisan bullshit to notice. “Operation Choke Point“, the government’s program telling big businesses that it was not only OK but encouraged to discriminate against sexual minorities, was an Obama program, not a Trump one. And don’t try whitewashing your direct involvement in the anti-whore crusades, ’cause Maggie has the receipts. (See all those embedded links? There are plenty more like them.) So sit the fuck down unless you’re going to own it and help fix the mess you helped make.
Posts Tagged ‘LGBT rights’
Under the Table
Posted in Current Events, History, Perception, Tyranny, tagged activism, censorship, Choke Point, Divided We Fall, ethics, fascism, internet, left-right myth, LGBT rights, Sold Out on September 16, 2021| 1 Comment »
Another Bunch of Tweets
Posted in History, Miscellaneous, tagged blogging, California, contraception, drugs, fascism, hysteria, internet, language, left-right myth, LGBT rights, politicians, Twitter on July 1, 2021| 1 Comment »
Given that this is their philosophy, I think Bloomberg should immediately transfer full ownership to me in recognition of the billions of dollars I've never had. https://t.co/SxhjtZtmfy
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) June 1, 2021
Several of the Founders actually GREW cannabis (hemp). Several of them, especially Franklin, were big fans of whores. And the Revolution started as a tax revolt. https://t.co/rOMz7esFRz
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) June 4, 2021
What the hell is wrong with you ladies who run around irresponsibly impregnating men all the time? You should be ashamed of yourselves! pic.twitter.com/fDCrdoYTi5
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) June 4, 2021
Boy, this "late stage capitalism" sure is lasting a long time, considering sex work has been around longer than writing, cities, laws, metallurgy, and even stone tools. https://t.co/kIyLi9BlTA
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) June 5, 2021
"Those who control the official A.C.L.U. Twitter account can prove erratic."
Gee, ya think? What gave it away? The weird all-caps chanting? The "say it with me" stuff? Or the complete absence of actual civil liberties content for days or weeks at a time? https://t.co/kmA26LR6NN
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) June 6, 2021
People who think oppressive governments are some kind of anomaly in world history would be cute if they weren't allowed to vote.
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) June 8, 2021
Unsurprisingly, Gohmert has also pushed "sex trafficking" hysteria, which has about the same scientific credibility as his suggestion below. https://t.co/iUobZQWTyT https://t.co/WbB5Xrc4vc
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) June 9, 2021
He still hasn't admitted that he was outrageously, hilariously wrong about the internet. Like most pseudo-intellectauals, Paul "Giant Platinum Coin" Krugman can't admit that he's just not very bright because his entire self-image is based on the opposite assumption. https://t.co/an22m0INqe
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) June 10, 2021
That's OK, she doesn't have to. But it believes in her. https://t.co/dTtwsDSnG1
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) June 12, 2021
Futurists love pretending to be "experts" despite the fact that futurists make correct predictions at roughly the same rate as Criswell did. https://t.co/zMYyzilt96
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) June 12, 2021
How is this is different from Elizabeth Warren's other "plans", such as imposing the Swedish model and enabling more intrusive bank surveillance?
"A hunch and some bad math, now with more vaginas" is kinda her brand. https://t.co/p8mYkypY4n
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) June 13, 2021
Retweeting tankies is a REALLY good way to get muted.
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) June 14, 2021
Yes, California has figured out a way to make SELLING WEED unprofitable.
If they didn't tax it to death and make it such an ordeal to open stores, the industry wouldn't be struggling. https://t.co/KsUDP1b5NF
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) June 15, 2021
I really hate it when people keep producing various misspellings, variant phrasings and other ways of ensuring terms I've muted keep popping up like cockroaches to annoy me.
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) June 15, 2021
I think it is safe to say that Pride has officially jumped the shark. pic.twitter.com/4ug9zWZHcr
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) June 18, 2021
The main thing Republicans and Democrats seem to disagree on is whether to destroy the country by beating it to death with a horde of thug cops or bleeding it to death by dropping it into a pit filled with giant leeches.
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) June 22, 2021
However, they're going to keep letting them use the old, crumpled one that was swiped fro the teacher's desk while she was on break. https://t.co/2jng1Rw8LQ
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) June 23, 2021
I sometimes mute people who aren't interacting with me at all, but say something so incredibly stupid and conducive to tyranny that I just want to pre-empt the possibilty that they ever will.
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) June 24, 2021
THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS.
1000x this. https://t.co/X6qgcX4XB8
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) June 24, 2021
This is no surprise; everything done by politicians makes everyone involved dumber. There are no exceptions. https://t.co/HqFZ9YRtIv
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) June 25, 2021
I'm not part of "The Left" or any other childish little political tribe, and I'm no fan of big government. But how stupid do you need to be to fail to comprehend that paying for poor women's contraception is a helluva lot cheaper than supporting their kids for two decades? https://t.co/dkZo3nT9zD
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) June 26, 2021
I liked Pride better when it was a single day for queer folks to defy societal expectations than a whole month for corporations and organizations to profit from. https://t.co/voRN3BvWrY
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) June 27, 2021
In the News (#1147)
Posted in Current Events, Miscellaneous, News, Tyranny, tagged A Broker in Pillage, asset seizure, California, censorship, cops, drugs, FBI, Forward and Backward, Having and Eating Cake, Hungary, illegal aliens, LGBT rights, Louisiana, porn, prisons, rape, red-light districts, Spain, streetwalkers, The Last Shall Be First, Torture Chamber, transgender, underage, United Kingdom, Winding Down on June 23, 2021| Leave a Comment »
Civil forfeiture is an abomination. – Travis May
As long as sex work is marginalized, sex workers will be targeted for violence:
…Over four days in May, the same man stalked seven women and sexually assaulted three of them across [Philadelphia] and [its] suburbs….he took [few] steps to evade detection, [even wearing]…the same clothing…[yet cops] from Mississippi to Philadelphia [let Kevin Bennett pull off] a…crime spree staggering in scope, spanning eight states over 50 days, until [they finally managed to arrest him] in late May. He’s a suspect in at least five rapes, three jewelry-store robberies, and a handful of stalking and assault incidents…
Burying government in lawsuits is the only way to slow its depredations:
…the U.S. Department of Justice is seeking to permanently [steal] the contents of hundreds of safe deposit boxes, including over $85 million in cash and precious metals, jewelry and other valuables worth millions more…the boxes’ owners have not been accused of any crime and have not been told what the government thinks they did wrong. Now, several of those owners are joining an existing Institute for Justice (IJ) class action lawsuit to stop the government’s forfeiture plans…“This is an $85 million cash grab by the federal government,” said IJ Senior Attorney Robert Frommer. “The government has no basis to think any of these people have done anything wrong. It just wants to keep their stuff”…
I first linked to this story in Links #563.
On the Simultaneous Having and Eating of Cake (#1003)
The latest chapter in this nasty, twisted saga:
GirlsDoPorn…recruiter and male talent Ruben Andre “Dre” Garcia was sentenced…to 20 years after pleading guilty to sex trafficking charges against him in the case that also involves the site’s fugitive owner, Michael Pratt, and others…
A good example of why “policies” not anchored in law are no solution:
…Leeds City Council…[ha]s deci[ded] to “step away from what has been a pioneering and compassionate approach to on street sex work” and scrap the Holbeck Managed Approach Zone…almost seven years after [it] was first launched…The zone was officially closed down temporarily last April, [using] the [excuse of the] pandemic…forc[ing women] to work in riskier environments and ma[king] it harder for them to get help in an emergency…[and apparently thepoliticians liked that result and wanted it to continue]…
The Last Shall Be First (#1090)
Puritanism is throttling the entire world:
[Politicians] in Hungary passed [a law] that prohibits sharing with minors any content that portrays being gay or transgender…supporters [of the ban projectile-vomited the word “]pedophilia[” a]t…human rights groups [who] denounced [the new censorship law] as anti-LGBT discrimination…The ruling Fidesz party has a parliamentary majority, and [politicians] from the right-wing Jobbik party also endorsed the measure…All other opposition parties boycotted the voting session in protest…Some human rights officials have compared it to the so-called gay “propaganda” law passed by Russia in 2013…[in order] to harass sexual minorities…
You know things are changing when Louisiana eliminates an excuse for caging people:
A bill to decriminalize the possession of small amounts of marijuana…in Louisiana will become law after Gov. John Bel Edwards signed the legislation…Although…the bill [doesn’t legalize cannabis]…the penalty would be less than most speeding tickets…[it] would make possession of 14 grams or less…a misdemeanor in all cases and limit the fine to $100 with no jail time. It takes effect Aug. 1…
Your regular reminder that rapist screws are not confined to the US:
Cases of sexual assault and prostitution have been [anonymously] reported at a [prison] for unaccompanied migrant minors…in Spain’s Canary Islands…The complaint…also detailed “physical assault and sustained abuse” allegedly committed by workers at the center, as well as deficient sanitary conditions. According to the complaint, these episodes of “negligence” have been “condoned and encouraged” by members of current and past management teams, who “have done nothing to stop it”…
What kind of sick mind thinks that voluntary “delinquent” behavior is the same as being raped, tortured and locked in filthy cages by brutal armed thugs?
Unsanitized
Posted in Perception, Philosophy, Tyranny, Words, tagged activism, censorship, dirty, holidays, LGBT rights, neo-Victorianism, psychology on June 2, 2021| 5 Comments »
Today is International Whores’ Day. It is not “Sex Worker Day”; that is March 3rd. Today is a day to shamelessly celebrate our shameless history, not a day to cater to the precious fee-fees of amateurs by neutering our terminology so as not to offend their delicate sensibilities with a raw, unsanitized word like “whore”. But for the past several years, I’ve seen a number of sex worker organizations and social media accounts doing just that, and in doing so participating in the same process of sexual sanitization which inspires modern picket-fence gays to absurdly claim that huge fascist corporations and gangs of uniformed thugs employed by the state to inflict violence on sexual minorities are more welcome at an event commemorating an anti-cop riot than kinky queers are. While the neo-Victorians who dominate 21st-century public discourse…
…reject the belief that sex is innately bad, they also believe against all reason and evidence that it’s something like a radioactive material which must be handled with special and elaborate precautions or else it becomes the single most destructive force on Earth. They imagine that engaging in sex for the “wrong” reasons, or without the benediction of elaborate rituals of consent, or with people separated from one another by more than a very few years of age, is terribly harmful…the desire to describe…sex…as “good” or “bad” is a very strong one, and for the neo-Victorian mind to accept sex into the “good” category it must be ritually purified by amputating all of its darker aspects, branding even the discussion of them as “violence”, and even pretending that they aren’t even sex at all. This belief flies in the face of reality; sex, fear, dominance and violence are inextricably bound together, and only by living in a state of complete denial can someone pretend that the only valid, “healthy” and legal sex is that which is so sanitized and neutered that it resembles the real thing about as closely as a hamburger does a heifer…
Today is not a day for sanitized words or concepts; it is, in fact, exactly the opposite: a day to fight society’s attempts (via law and police violence) to sanitize the wilder, unrulier, more chthonic aspects of sex. This is a day for sexual outlaws, not well-behaved “workers”; it is a day to celebrate the triumphs of criminalized human beings against a society that would rather we didn’t exist. It is a day to oppose censorship, not to engage in self-censorship; a day to honor a means of survival that predates laws and governments by eons; and a day to celebrate a power which will always defeat even the most pernicious attempts to domesticate it.
The Sparkle of a Star
Posted in Perception, Philosophy, Tyranny, tagged drugs, imaginative fiction, LGBT rights, marriage, nostalgia, psychology, racism, witchcraft on May 24, 2021| 1 Comment »
We are quicksilver, a fleeting shadow, a distant sound…our home has no boundaries beyond which we cannot pass. We live in music, in a flash of color…we live on the wind and in the sparkle of a star!
– Endora (Agnes Moorehead)
A couple of years ago I rewatched Bewitched, a show I always enjoyed in my youth but hadn’t seen since the early ’80s. I’ve always thought Elizabeth Montgomery was an excellent actress, but this time the magic of cannabis (which slows down my hyperactive nervous system so that I can really watch these shows in a way I’ve never been able to before) opened my eyes to just how talented she really was; she could convey so much with just her facial expressions and vocal manner, and her comedic timing was brilliant. But beyond that, I saw aspects of the show itself that were previously opaque to me. I’ve always recognized that many of the episodes are veiled commentaries on racism and other forms of bigotry; that was typical of the 1960s, when fantasy and science fiction shows could sneak controversial issues past uptight sponsors and network censors by disguising them as the stuff of alien worlds or magical happenings. When Samantha angrily denounced ugly witch stereotypes or mortals’ fear of those who are different, the perceptive viewer understood what the show was really saying. As I grew older, I realized that there was also a more-deeply-buried queer subtext which was too radical even for most contemporary viewers who thought of themselves as liberal: beside the fact that several of the principals were played by gay men, Samantha had to hide her true nature in order to exist in the judgmental mortal world, and only in the company of other witches could she really be herself. Furthermore, those mortals were willing to hunt, persecute and even burn those like her merely because they were different. But queer people weren’t the only sexual minority violently persecuted and actively hunted by 20th-century puritans; while I’m sure it was unintentional, sex workers can also see ourselves reflected in this magic mirror.
When I last watched the show, in my late teens or very early twenties, I naturally identified most with Samantha. But on this rewatch, I found myself identifying with her mother, Endora, due in part to her age, in part to her unique personal style, and in part to her attitude toward her daughter’s marriage. I’m old enough to have a daughter in her twenties or early thirties, and I can certainly understand how I’d feel if she married a man I thought wasn’t good enough for her. But it goes beyond that: the association between sex work and witchcraft is a very old one, and even today many sex workers metaphorically describe our work as “magic” (not to mention the many sex workers who actually do specifically practice witchcraft, though obviously not the fantasy TV variety). Endora’s chief gripe with her son-in-law isn’t really that he’s mortal; it’s that he wants to rob her beloved daughter of her birthright by forcing her to eschew magic and submit to mortal drudgery. And every time I heard her say this to Samantha (in quite a few episodes), I imagined how I would feel if my beautiful daughter gave up a successful career in sex work to marry a “dumbo” who demanded she renounce her heritage, shun her whore friends, and work a shitty square job when she could make far more with far less effort by doing what she’s good at instead of letting herself be limited to behavior that doesn’t make dreary, unimaginative authoritarians uncomfortable.
Conceptual Ledge
Posted in Music, Perception, Philosophy, Tyranny, tagged law, LGBT rights, Like Houses, propaganda, psychology, surveillance, video on May 13, 2021| Leave a Comment »
Statists are fond of pretending that the slippery slope is a “fallacy”, because they don’t want you to think about how either legal precedent or human psychology work; as I wrote years ago in “The Devil’s Toys“,
…In the common law tradition, laws are defended from those who would challenge them by arguing precedent: demonstrating that a new law or practice strongly resembles others already in existence which have never been challenged (or better yet, withstood such challenges) constitutes evidence that the new act is also permissible. But there’s another factor, a psychological and moral one: once people get used to an idea, they’re much more likely to support laws that reflect that attitude…Those who rejoice when a private corporation deletes a writer’s article, and would gloat if she were fired, are already receptive to the idea of censorship; enacting the practice into law and establishing censors to act “on behalf of the public” is only one step further…
In the past decade, we’ve seen so many tyrannies enabled by these mechanisms, there’s very little point in my rehashing them; however, useful idiots being first and foremost idiots, they just keep on cheerleading for face-eating leopards that they believe will never eat their faces, because they either believe or want everyone else to believe that the slippery slope is a “fallacy”. There is indeed such a thing as a “slippery slope fallacy”, but it’s different from the real principle of tyranny via incremental extension of legal precedent; what makes the difference between the two is what one might call a “conceptual ledge”, a break in the chain of logic that those employing a slippery slope fallacy intentionally gloss over. The difference is so clear and simple only a fanatic or other victim of dangerously-disordered thinking could miss it: an example of the real slippery slope is the way that surveillance powers approved for use against “terrorists” were in fact mostly used to persecute people for drugs, while an example of the slippery slope fallacy looks like this:
Any questions?
Guest Columnist: Val Elefante
Posted in Guest Columns, Perception, tagged activism, internet, LGBT rights, Twitter on April 12, 2021| Leave a Comment »
Regular readers know that I feel strongly about promoting online resources for sex workers, especially if those resources are owned and operated by sex workers! I recently met Val on Twitter and asked her if she’d like to introduce my readers to her sex-work-friendly social media site, Lips. So without further ado:
Hello lovely readers of The Honest Courtesan! My name is Val, and I am a tech researcher, erotic filmmaker, sex worker activist, and the community manager of Lips, a community-designed social media platform for women, non-binary folks, & the LGBTQIA+ community to express themselves openly & honestly without fear of censorship or harassment. I am beyond honored that Maggie has entrusted me with this opportunity to introduce myself and Lips to you all today.
Lips began as a print zine on a college campus in 2008, and was founded directly in response to the mainstream media’s representations of female & queer sexuality – often through the paternalistic, patriarchal lens also known as the “male gaze.” Lips invited folks to mail in (or anonymously drop into a P.O. box) stories, poetry, and artwork for the publication, and over time it grew into a much-needed community-led space for self-expression – including sexuality – that was safe, open and honest. As the community grew and the zine moved online, it became increasingly apparent just how radical this project was. The community faced tons of obstacles: internally, it was difficult to combat the shame that society projected and foster self-esteem and self-love, and externally, stigma, whorephobia, digital censorship, and harassment all posed threats to Lips’ existence. This was when the team came together and decided to build our very own social media platform called Lips.social. We hosted co-design sessions with groups of artists, sex workers, sexual health and wellness educators, and LGBTQIA+ young people to bring the community’s ideas together for what this app should do and be. We co-wrote our own Community Guidelines that reflected our community’s values – not the values of the mainstream society we aimed to resist. And finally, thanks to the generosity of a grant from the Headstream Youth Mental Health Accelerator, we were able to build and launch the first version of the Lips app. On December 31, 2020, all of the hard work paid off and we welcomed a vibrant community of over 14,000 members into our new little digital paradise.
Of course, we continue to face obstacles like whorephobia, but will always respond with the care and best interests of our community at the forefront. With Lips, our main mission is to design and build technologies that make the internet a healthier and safer place for marginalized communities – including sex workers. We do this through:
- A more nuanced, community-led approach to sexuality moderation
- UX/UI that protects against harassment and trolls
- A business model that is directly linked with the economic success of marginalized creators
- And finally, most excitedly, the co-ownership of our company with the community members!

That’s right! We are very excited to announce that we are now selling equity in the company to the community, so if you are interested in joining our team and becoming an investor, visit wefunder.com/lips to learn more, and reach out to us at team@lips.social if you have any questions. (Anyone can invest, minimum is $100). Join us in building a better (digital) world for marginalized communities.
My parting words – Personally, I need Lips to exist because women, non-binary & LGBTQIA+ artists, activists, educators, sex workers, healers, and more have created the kind of body and sex-positive art and experiences that have saved my life and the lives of so many people around me. So, if you’re still here, thank you for reading this far – you’ve already supported our work – and please become as involved with Lips as you’d like. Every investment, every share, every new community member counts. Thanks y’all.
XX, Val









