Do you still feel Gina and P411 are dangerous? I disabled my p411 account because I am still worried, but I do not really know how to screen clients so I am wondering how I should go about it. I live in a city where the cops target escorts frequently, and though I have never been arrested for prostitution, I have been in trouble for other things and cannot have any legal issues from this.
I don’t think you need to disable your account; however, I wouldn’t assume any guy from P411 is automatically good, either. I’ve written about screening a number of times; my personal favorite method is asking for references. If you don’t trust references, there are other means of screening including Date-Check, a helpful whitelist with a better track record than P411. I’ve also written about several other methods, and here’s a good resource list compiled by a provider in New Orleans. You should also look at the posts in my mentoring tag; some of them may make you nervous, but it’s better to be prepared. And one final thing: if at all possible, get in touch with your local SWOP chapter. This can be a very isolating business, and connecting with other local sex workers will not only help you to stay safe, but may also help you to find peace of mind and emotional support.
(Have a question of your own? Please consult this page to see if I’ve answered it in a previous column, and if not just click here to ask me via email.)
Question for this: References are a good idea, however in other fields (such as academics), people have been successfully in gaming that approach, e.g. by use of fake email accounts. Do you screen references somehow, do you call them, or do you require this to people you know directly or where you know somebody that knows them?
For that to work dependably, they’re going to need to come up with a fake escort site, fake reviews and a fake reputation, too.
Excellent point. That will reliably prevent any low-effort/low-cost attacks for your field.
I’ve tried emailing.
Smh.
I don’t want to comment and be controversial.
I support all girls but the ones that say their way is the best
Naturally
But I’m not sure I f that email works.
Id line you to call me. I think it’s in the best Interst of the theme, name, a lot of the advice you jive and I’m assuring you a good soul is here.
Mrsuluwarpspeed@gmail.com at 12noon nyc time.
Add then #s?
It’s very important.
To celos:
You’re actually totally correct.
This is an industry that’s very hard to find honest women like people such as myself and of course the blog author.
But … I represent the opposition.
I see fake reviews, been approached by countless fakes fur profit to review , and the irony is I DO NOT ACCEPT REVIEWS, REFS, NOR CLIENTS THAT READ OR WRITE THEM! Lol
Ok im a veteran. For example you used… I trust that add twist it like this : in business WE MUST HAVE GOOD JUDGMENT. LEARN THE CRAFT, INS AND OUTS. IF YOU’RE MEANT TO DO BIZ. … you will never ever have to see refs or verify.
But … Then again. I treat all infringes the same. No one hi s line me .
The secret is this: I talk to the many boards of reviews . They like me . I want to tell the women. So much. Ugh.
They are so sheisty. And cheap. Add the worst part! They’re the only ones who are willing to go thru that!
I don’t want s client that
1. LISTENS TO OTHERS
2. WRITES ABOUT OUR INTIMACY
3. OR CAN’T PASS A PREREQUISITE IQ (most dummies go for targets)
BAD GUYS TARGET.
that’s why I blacklist. The things I share with girls will never ever show up on an id.
21 years. No bad calls. I have shitty times.
Lol
But what puts a girl in danger is:
ANONYMITY, SECRETS, YOUNG RUNAWAYS, OVERLY PARANOID , YOUNG , EVEN OLDER , YOU BLUR THAT FACE.
I’M SURRY BUT VERIFYING. THAT IS TARGETING. A SERIAL KILLER RO4LL GET OFF ON THIS .
I’M closing. Now.
I want confident , honest, discrete smart men. Who want ONLY ME …
I GET JUST THAT.
NO more liars. Or hobby freaks. Or jerks that think I’m so dumb I need reviews to sell me.
I’m too brilliant at biz. Plus the ladies make me stand out … When you think of it.
P . S. Think… If they use fake pics. Rolling my eyes.
Also think… We ladies get far more Screwed over than you. So I know even if we disagree
Me and this lovely lady have each other’s back lol
I’m a subscriber to your blog and find it enlightening and enjoyable with a good chunk of independent thinking thrown in. However, not being an American, I have absolutely no idea what a P411 is. I have Googled it and came up with something to do with solid state electronics, a British WWII submarine, a part from a HP computer and a model of Datsun from the sixties.
Like I say, not all of your followers are from the US and neither are the issues you discuss, so a short explanation would help.
Anyway, keep up the good work.
Click on the link embedded in the question; I think that will provide the info you need. 😉
Every system can be compromised.
As Reagan said, ‘trust, but verify’.
The most important information is how much resources your enemies can invest into an attack and how smart they are. If you have that, you can estimate pretty well how careful you need to be.
I’ve tried emailing.
Smh.
I don’t want to comment and be controversial.
I support all girls but the ones that say their way is the best
Naturally
But I’m not sure I f that email works.
Id line you to call me. I think it’s in the best Interst of the theme, name, a lot of the advice you jive and I’m assuring you a good soul is here.
Mrsuluwarpspeed@gmail.com at 12noon nyc time.
Add then #s?
It’s very important.