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For regular readers, this month’s guest columnist needs no introduction; Laura Lee is a sex worker and activist who lives in Scotland, but is active in the fight against criminalization both in the UK and in her native Ireland.   You can find many stories about her (and videos in which she appears) in the subject index, most of them under the subtitle “The Public Eye“.  I admire Laura for her incredible courage in coming out as a sex worker and facing down politicians both in committee rooms and on television, but for this essay she preferred to speak of the courage of others; I’d say she’s well qualified to judge that particular quality.

Laura Lee CNNIn the current debate raging about further criminalization versus decriminalization, sometimes it’s very easy to lose sight of the real people behind the statistics, those sex workers on the front lines.  This week in Perth, Scotland, some of the bravest women I have ever encountered took the stand to give evidence against a vicious rapist; their courage took my breath away.

I could summarize the circumstances surrounding the case, but I think the voices of the sex workers concerned are far more powerful.  With their kind permission, I will replicate some of the email correspondence I’ve had below, changing some personal details to maintain their privacy and right to anonymity.

Myself and a few other girls travel from Edinburgh/Glasgow up to a flat in Perth for shifts, one of girls phoned in a state.  She had let a punter in, he demanded money from her, when she said she didn’t have any, he raped her and punched her in the face very violently.  She cried through the whole attack, that was around November last year.  We begged her to report the attack to the police which she was adamant she was not going to do fearing her family would find out what she did for a living.

Early February I was working in the flat, and although there had been reports of a guy hanging around the flat all week, I’d calmed down by then and thought I was out of danger.  A punter called, he knew where the flat was and I assumed he was a regular.  He came into the flat, told me I could do things the easy way or hard way.  He had to say it twice as I couldn’t believe what I was hearing but knew I was in big trouble.

I told him I had no money (understand the other girls he raped were tiny, I body build, plus I’ve got teenagers and don’t appreciate cheek).  There was obviously a “don’t mess with me” stance which had taken over in me without my knowledge.  He threw me on the bed and spread my legs apart.  I knew he was going to rape me.  I screamed at the top of my lungs, he jumped off me and made a run for the front door, curling his fist into a ball as I ran after him to get the door shut, that was his warning to stay away as he fled.

Within 15 minutes I’d phoned the police and reported the crime.  Laura, I know what I work as makes people disgusted and they think I’m a lesser person because of that but I’m not, I’m proud, this job has supported me and my kids and given me a support system financially that a lot of single mums can only dream about.  I refuse to go to work to be abused, battered or raped.  I never signed up for that, I am proud of who I am and what I’ve achieved!!!!!

The police were lovely and very supportive, they had no clue that sex workers were even in Perth, my friend was asked by the police if she would approach other flats in Perth with the promise there would be no charges for the other girls, they were not interested in what they were doing as they wanted this lowlife caught.  After a bit of persuasion it turned out that another two girls had been attacked, anally raped and battered by the same guy which they identified.

I can’t forget what he said to me – “You can’t phone the police, you’re just a prostitute!!!!”

That will haunt me for the rest of my life.

Perth High CourtSo that’s their story.  One by one those women took the stand against the man who thought “you’re only a prostitute”.  Isn’t it time that we acknowledged that they are far from “just prostitutes”?  They are women, they are mothers, working to support their children and they deserve the full protection of the law.  The police in this case have been wonderful and very supportive of the women, and have now appointed a liaison officer so that they can report their worries in private.  He was found guilty last Tuesday, and will be sentenced on the 30th; let’s hope it’s a long, long one.

Too little, too late.  The time has come to acknowledge that whatever your moral judgment on sex work, those who work within the industry deserve to do so in safety.  Had these women not had such immense courage to go forward and report these crimes, who’s to know where it would have stopped?  We need to decriminalize sex work right now, so that every sex worker can work with others for safety, and so that the stigma and vulnerability attached to sex work can begin to be peeled away.  When this lady told me the rapist’s  words will haunt her for the rest of her life, I resolved to fight for decriminalization with a ferocity rarely tested.  That, at least, I can promise them.

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I and others have often written about the origin of “sex trafficking” mythology in evangelical Christian theology, and many of the largest “anti-trafficking” NGOs have strong ties to anti-abortion and anti-gay groups.  Shared Hope International is one of those organizations, and its founder Linda Smith has been involved in anti-sex causes for three decades.  Since they are based in Washington state I asked Portland, Oregon-based activist Carol Fenton to give us a short introduction to Smith and Shared Hope…

Linda SmithLinda Smith boldly proclaims that the same beliefs that guide her anti-abortion and anti-gay politics are the same values that pilot her domestic minor sex trafficking efforts.  “I started as a pro-life activist,” she says; “The children I serve today are children of God, labeled, stripped of justice, denied life in many cases…[I use] many of the same arguments that I used fighting for the unborn for many years.”  Smith gained notoriety for her staunchly conservative views from the very beginning of her political career in Washington State in 1983, and she landed in the House of Representatives with support from the Christian Coalition and “Linda’s Army”, a grassroots write-in campaign.  While in office, she worked to advance a fundamentalist agenda, formed relationships with Christian conservatives, and networked with a growing Evangelical base to promote her ideology.  After two terms in Congress, Smith started Shared Hope International, which she considers her ministry. Smith revealed, “My titles and political connections have opened doors for me around the world that wouldn’t have opened otherwise.”  In 2001, Smith kicked off the War Against Trafficking Alliance in conjunction with The Salvation Army, the International Justice Mission, and the Protection Project (founded by Laura Lederer, a Bush administration advisor and anti-pornography activist).  Along with Smith, the alliance worked to brand and sell anti-prostitution and anti-trafficking training as a human rights cause.

As the trafficking crusade continued to gain traction, funding began to pour into known “rescue” organizations including WATA, for which Smith obtained $1.8 million dollars for a global anti-trafficking conference in February of 2003.  During the first four years of the Bush administration, $300 million was awarded to anti-trafficking work, including Shared Hope International. With grants from the U.S. State Department’s Office to Monitor and Combat Trafficking in Persons, Smith and SHI first released the DEMAND report in 2007, followed in 2009 by the National Report on Domestic Minor Sex Trafficking: America’s Prostituted Children, and in 2011 by the annual state report cards.  With DOJ funding, Smith and her team have gone undercover to obtain and create their own brand of “research” on the commercial sex industry.  The result is SHI’s Protected Innocence Challenge, a joint analysis done by SHI and the American Center for Law and Justice (founded by evangelical minister Pat Robertson).  In 2011, Smith promoted SHI’s state report cards and legislative framework to attendees at the Values Voters Summit in a breakout session entitled “Saving America’s Children From Pimps And Perverts: The Protected Innocence Initiative”.  The following year, while addressing a small crowd during one of the 2012 Value Voters breakout sessions, Smith said that efforts to stop the sale and trade of minors in the sex industry should be an extension of the “pro-life” cause.  “Believers and conservatives should put this issue [domestic minor sex trafficking] in its proper position,” and not treat it as tangential.

But Shared Hope International’s authority and influence extends far beyond Smith’s base. In 2009, with DOJ funding, SHI developed and released Intervene training for “identifying and responding to America’s prostituted children”. The curriculum is marketed as a tool that builds awareness in social agency workers and those who are in contact with children and youth who may be at risk.  Whenever this training takes place, local reporters refer to anti-trafficking panelists as “experts”, say that training will create a bridge between social services and law enforcement, and claim that people can learn how to identify human trafficking and strengthen their state laws.

sleazy Shared Hope billboardTo gain continued political support for this issue, an integral part of each report is sensationalistic storytelling and stereotyping.  In Oregon, Shared Hope International advocates use fear-based stories and anecdotal evidence to implement new legislation that is focused solely on domestic minor girls.  Joel Shapiro, a lobbyist with SHI, says “going after pimps and johns” is more difficult because the illicit business has gone from the streets to online.  Yet, U.S. Attorney Amanda Marshall views the Commercial Sexual Exploitation of Children (CSEC) as a high priority, the Sexual Assault Resource Team has five full-time staff members that respond exclusively to CSEC cases, and the Multnomah County DA formed a Human Trafficking  Team and is using additional funds to pay for another CSEC prosecutor; with this team in place Oregon is already 5th in the nation for CSEC prosecutions.  None of this is based in anything resembling sound research and data, a fact which the abolitionists themselves admit in statements buried deep with the hysteria:

The exact number of child victims of sex trafficking in the United States is unknown because comprehensive research and scientific data are lacking.”

With regard to children affected by trafficking, there is a dramatic absence of harmonized and systematic data.”

There is little systematic and reliable data on the scale of the phenomenon.”

The U.S. State Department Office of Accountability found gaps in data, numerical discrepancies, methodological weaknesses, and no coordinated strategy or way to gauge results, yet funding and resources keep being thrown at these false claims.  It’s past time for officials who are truly concerned about exploitation to distance themselves from agenda-driven ideologues like Smith and start addressing the push factors, listening to key populations, and focusing on evidence-based harm reduction and anti-criminalization efforts which create healthy and safe communities for everyone.

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the magic puddingThere was considerable controversy in the comment thread of “Something in the Milk”  about whether emails could be tracked as my correspondent described, and how such a thing would work.  So on the evening of Valentine’s Day, she and I decided to test it out:  she sent me an email, I forwarded it to others and she told me what we had done.  The results convinced me, and I think they’ll convince you as well.  The tracking utility is called Readnotify, and though it isn’t free the cost is small.  Normally there is a notification in the email that shows it’s being tracked, but in “silent” mode this information is hidden from recipients.  Note that all ISPs and the names of local towns have been disguised to protect privacy. 

This email was initially opened on IP 40.8.23.254:12345; the device it was opened on has specific software specifications, listed under “Browser”.  This shows the brand and version of the browser agent that was used when opening my email; these specifications are unique to each machine as updates are not always installed.  I can see that this user is showing MSOffice in the browser info, so this user receives email via Outlook more than likely.

Opened
Opened 3-Feb-14 at 23:58:55pm (UTC -5:00)   –   59mins46secs after sending
Location Middle, Nowhere, United States (86% likelihood)
Opened on  (40.8.23.254:12345)
Browser used by recipient: Moz/4.0 (MSIE 7.0; WinNT 5.1; Trident/4.0; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.4506.2152; .NET CLR 3.5.30729; MSOffice 12)

This information by itself is meaningless; you can’t determine a user, a physical location, or anything else other than the IP information and the browser info.  But what this information can provide is a “dog tag” for a device; as you compare it to other email tracking data that you receive, you can begin to notice whether any single “dog tag” appears in the circulation of any other emails that you are tracking.  Now Reader 1 reopens the mail; only the end of the IP is different, you will see that change with reopens.

Re-Opened
Opened 4-Feb-14 at 00:20:32am (UTC -5:00)   –   1hour21mins23secs after sending
Location Middle, Nowhere, United States (86% likelihood)
Opened on  (40.8.23.254:67890)
Browser used by recipient: Moz/4.0 (MSIE 7.0; WinNT 5.1; Trident/4.0; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.4506.2152; .NET CLR 3.5.30729; MSOffice 12)
Last log No more activity after 4-Feb-14 at 00:21:12am (UTC -5:00)   –   Log data indicates email was read for at least 40secs (approx.)

Now for Reader 2:

Forwarded/opened on different computer
Opened 4-Feb-14 at 00:21:24am (UTC -5:00)   –   1hour22mins15secs after sending
Location Redmond, Washington, United States (86% likelihood)
Opened on  (22.56.123.91:12345)
Language of recipient’s PC: en-ca (English/Canada), en (English), en (English)
Browser used by recipient: Moz/5.0 (WinNT 6.1; WOW64; rv:26.0) Gecko/20100101 Firefox/26.0
Last log No more activity after 4-Feb-14 at 00:22:52am (UTC -5:00)   –   Log data indicates email was read for at least 1min28secs (approx.)

This recipient is using a Canadian English setting and running Firefox version 26.  I am doubtful as to location as Redmond comes up often and seems to be the location of an ISP.  Mountain View, California, where Google proxy servers are located, also comes up often.  Though I am not mentioning all of them, each individual identifier in the report will match when a “dog tag” reappears.

Moving on to Reader 3:

Forwarded/opened on different computer
Opened 4-Feb-14 at 00:24:40am (UTC -5:00)   –   1hour25mins31secs after sending
Location Bacontown, Nova Scotia, Canada (86% likelihood)
Opened on  (407.81.23.715:56789)
Language of recipient’s PC: en-US (English/United States), en;q=0.5 (English)
Browser used by recipient: Moz/5.0 (WinNT 6.1; WOW64; rv:26.0) Gecko/20100101 Firefox/26.0
Accepts Files browser can open: i/png,i/*;q=0.8,*/*;q=0.5

This one appears to be in Bacontown, Nova Scotia, and the ISP is Eastlink Ca, running Firefox version 26.  Wait, it appears that Reader 2 has opened my email again from the same device.

Re-opened (by earlier reader #2)
Opened 4-Feb-14 at 00:24:49am (UTC -5:00)   –   1hour25mins40secs after sending
Location Redmond, Washington, United States (86% likelihood)
Opened on  (22.56.123.91:24680)
Language of recipient’s PC: en-ca (English/Canada), en (English), en (English)
Browser used by recipient: Moz/5.0 (WinNT 6.1; WOW64; rv:26.0) Gecko/20100101 Firefox/26.0

Now the original reader is taking a third look:

Re-opened (by earlier reader #1)
Opened 4-Feb-14 at 00:59:25am (UTC -5:00)   –   2hours16secs after sending
Location Middle, Nowhere, United States (86% likelihood)
Opened on  (40.8.23.254:54321)
Browser used by recipient: Moz/4.0 (MSIE 7.0; WinNT 5.1; Trident/4.0; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.4506.2152; .NET CLR 3.5.30729; MSOffice 12)
Last log No more activity after 4-Feb-14 at 01:00:09am (UTC -5:00)   –   Log data indicates email was read for at least 44secs (approx.)

Now we arrive at a 4th device that appears to be a mobile phone.  I say that because it is showing a Google proxy; this is a new way Google is protecting phones from malware by opening images on a proxy for view.  That proxy shows up as Mountain View, California.  In this case we are viewing Google proxy info, and that “dog tag” will match any other proxy lookup so it is pretty useless for significant matching.

Forwarded/opened on different computer
Opened 4-Feb-14 at 01:00:36am (UTC -5:00)   –   2hours1min27secs after sending
Location Mountain View, California, United States (86% likelihood)
Opened on  google-proxy-11-234-56-78.google.com (11.234.56.78:98765)
Browser used by recipient: Moz/5.0 (Win; U; Windows NT 5.1; de; rv:1.9.0.7) Gecko/2009021910 Firefox/3.0.7 (via ggpht.com GoogleImageProxy)
Last log No more activity after 4-Feb-14 at 01:01:49am (UTC -5:00)   –   Log data indicates email was read for at least 1min13secs (approx.)

Reader 5:

Forwarded/opened on different computer
Opened 4-Feb-14 at 01:11:13am (UTC -5:00)   –   2hours12mins4secs after sending
Location Beachville, California, United States (86% likelihood)
Opened on  (66.111.77.88:09876)
Language of recipient’s PC: en-us (English/United States)
Browser used by recipient: Moz/5.0 (iPad; CPU OS 7_0_4 like Mac OS X) AppleWebKit/537.51.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Mobile/11B554a

Looks like an iPad running a mobile version of something opened it.

Reader 6

Forwarded/opened on different computer
Opened 4-Feb-14 at 01:11:23am (UTC -5:00)   –   2hours12mins14secs after sending
Location Beachville, California, United States (86% likelihood)
Opened on  (66.111.77.88:09877)
Language of recipient’s PC: en-us (English/United States)
Browser used by recipient: Moz/5.0 (iPad; CPU OS 7_0_4 like Mac OS X) AppleWebKit/537.51.1 (KHTML, like Gecko)
Last log No more activity after 4-Feb-14 at 01:11:39am (UTC -5:00)   –   Log data indicates email was read for at least 16secs (approx.)

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Interesting.  Only the last digit of the IP is different.  It is also an iPad running the same versions except for the mobile part.  I am guessing it is either a second device on a home network, or a non-mobile email agent causing a difference in the reverse name resolution.  Now Device 5 appears again showing the mobile version and another slight difference in the reverse name resolution.

Re-opened (by earlier reader #5)
Opened 4-Feb-14 at 01:12:53am (UTC -5:00)   –   2hours13mins44secs after sending
Location Beachville, California, United States (86% likelihood)
Opened on  (66.111.77.88:09885)
Language of recipient’s PC: en-us (English/United States)
Browser used by recipient: Moz/5.0 (iPad; CPU OS 7_0_4 like Mac OS X) AppleWebKit/537.51.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Mobile/11B554

Now Reader 7:

Forwarded/opened on different computer
Opened 4-Feb-14 at 01:14:26am (UTC -5:00)   –   2hours15mins17secs after sending
Location Middle, Nowhere, United States (86% likelihood)
Opened on  (40.8.23.254:87654)
Language of recipient’s PC: en-US (English/United States), en;q=0.5 (English)
Browser used by recipient: Moz/5.0 (X11; Linux i686; rv:24.0) Gecko/20100101 Thunderbird/24.3.0
Accepts Files browser can open: i/png,i/*;q=0.8,*/*;q=0.5
Last log No more activity after 4-Feb-14 at 01:16:47am (UTC -5:00)   –   Log data indicates email was read for at least 2mins21secs (approx.)

Reader 7 is on the same network as reader 1.  It is a different device though, operating Linux i686 Thunderbird/24.3.0  I would guess this is a second device on either a home or office networked computer.  Next Reader 5 opens it on the iPad again using the mobile version.

Re-opened (by earlier reader #5)
Opened 4-Feb-14 at 01:17:44am (UTC -5:00)   –   2hours18mins35secs after sending
Location Beachville, California, United States (86% likelihood)
Opened on  (66.111.77.88:11223)
Language of recipient’s PC: en-us (English/United States)
Browser used by recipient: Moz/5.0 (iPad; CPU OS 7_0_4 like Mac OS X) AppleWebKit/537.51.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Mobile/11B554a

Now Reader 7 opens it again on the same device:

Re-opened (by earlier reader #7)
Opened 4-Feb-14 at 10:39:06am (UTC -5:00)   –   11hours39mins57secs after sending
Location Middle, Nowhere, United States (86% likelihood)
Opened on  (40.8.23.254:12548)
Language of recipient’s PC: en-US (English/United States), en;q=0.5 (English)
Browser used by recipient: Moz/5.0 (X11; Linux i686; rv:24.0) Gecko/20100101 Thunderbird/24.3.0
Accepts Files browser can open: i/png,i/*;q=0.8,*/*;q=0.5
Last log No more activity after 4-Feb-14 at 10:57:31am (UTC -5:00)   –   Log data indicates email was open for at least 18mins25secs (approx.)

Then Reader 7 decided to get a little tricky, and though they used the same device, they opened it on a different browser.  Not Linux, they went with  Moz4.0 with an MS Office tag indicating it was opened thru Outlook perhaps.

Opened 4-Feb-14 at 11:49:57am (UTC -5:00)   –   12hours50mins48secs after sending
Location Middle, Nowhere, United States (86% likelihood)
Opened on  (40.8.23.254:31285)
Browser used by recipient: Moz/4.0 (MSIE 7.0; WinNT 5.1; Trident/4.0; .NET CLR 2.0.50727; .NET CLR 3.0.4506.2152; .NET CLR 3.5.30729; MSOffice 12)

Finally, the activity with this email concludes with one final open on the iPad in Beachville, California, mobile version:

Re-opened (by earlier reader #5)
Opened 4-Feb-14 at 21:07:02pm (UTC -5:00)   –   22hours7mins53secs after sending
Location Beachville, California, United States (86% likelihood)
Opened on  (66.111.77.88:11705)
Language of recipient’s PC: en-us (English/United States)
Browser used by recipient: Moz/5.0 (iPad; CPU OS 7_0_4 like Mac OS X) AppleWebKit/537.51.1 (KHTML, like Gecko) Mobile/11B554a

Ending Summary

Summary   –   as at 5-Feb-14 at 16:29:00pm (UTC -5:00)   –   1day17hours29mins51secs after sending
Total  Opened 15 times by 7 readers
Reader #1  Opened 4 times for 1min24secs total
Reader #2  Opened 2 times for 1min28secs total
Reader #3  Opened 1 time
Reader #4  Opened 1 time for 1min13secs total
Reader #5  Opened 4 times
Reader #6  Opened 1 time for 16secs total
Reader #7  Opened 2 times for 20mins46secs total

Now, if this were a client interaction I would have concerns. Why would our interactions be shared so many times? And with whom were they shared?  I would then begin to scan other email reports to see if any dog tags from this individual match any dog tags from any unrelated (or supposedly unrelated) emails match these. By comparing dog tags, you can identify when a network of devices are constantly sending you emails then circulating your replies through the network.  In comparison, most email tracking reports say opened 1 time by 1 reader, or 2 times by 2 readers (two devices).  Even 15 times is ridiculously high, as we see in this test but take a look at a recent summary of the activity on the email that I wrote about in “Something in the Milk”:

Summary   –   as at 5-Feb-14 at 16:36:41pm (UTC -5:00)   –   22days19hours12mins46secs after sending
Total  Opened 134 times by 4 readers
Reader #1  Opened 124 times for 28mins8secs total
Reader #2  Opened 7 times for 22mins23secs total
Reader #3  Opened 2 times for 15mins3secs total
Reader #4  Opened 1 time

The last entry on the log shows my email still being opened more than 20 days later; the dog tags on his report match dog tags on four other contacts all claiming to be in different parts of Florida and one in New Orleans.  Why would this P411 member be forwarding my emails to a network of individuals centered in Orlando who are all responding to my Eros ad?

Her tracking and conclusions were spot on.  I opened the email, then asked Aspasia and Kevin Wilson if they’d help; when they agreed I re-opened it and forwarded it to them (Middle, Nowhere is where my DSL service originates from).  Soon afterward my husband returned my call and agreed to participate; he’s working in California right now and did open the mail on two devices in three ways, then forwarded it to a different email address of his and opened that one.  Meanwhile, Grace was opening it as well, and when I read this report to her she laughed and said that she had indeed tried to trick the software as described. rice pudding

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Mark Bennett is a criminal defense lawyer in Houston who, as he says in the text below, is unafraid to defend sex workers.  I first linked his blog just over a year ago in “The Truth About ‘The Truth About…’“, then more recently in “The Spiral of Absurdity“.  But in December he wrote a series of “tweets” which impressed me so much, I asked him to turn them into a guest post; this column is the result.

An adult’s body belongs fully to that adult.  It does not belong to his parents, to her husband, or to the government.  If something—including your body—belongs to you, you can do what you want with it, as long as what you do doesn’t hurt (or create an unjustifiable risk of hurting) other people.  If you cannot do what you want with it (without interfering with others’ rights), a thing does not belong to you.  You have at best a limited license.

Ken Lane watches his daughter Hannah sign the purity covenant at the annual Father-Daughter Purity Ball in Colorado SpringsIt is true that the law and society treat us as having a limited license to our bodies.  In most American states you can’t legally smoke marijuana, you can’t hire someone to help you end your own life, and you can’t have sex with someone for money.  It has not always been the case that a woman’s body belongs to her, even aside from the claims upon it by government; historically, women’s bodies have effectively belonged to their male kin, who were honor-bound to protect their purity until they married, and to their husbands thereafter.  There are still segments of society in which this is the case.  Witness, for example, “purity balls” at which adolescent girls pledge that they will preserve their virginity until married and fathers pledge that they will protect their daughters’ purity.  I do not claim to be a feminist, yet it strikes me as creepy that a father should take such a proprietary interest in what his grown daughter does with her vagina.

To the avowed feminist, the claim of male ownership (transferred from the father to the husband, with no intermediate ownership) of female sexuality must be the height of patriarchy.  Yet there’s a wide gap between rejection of male ownership of female sexuality, and acceptance that everyone’s own sexuality belongs to him or her, to do with what he or she will as long as it doesn’t hurt (or create an unjustifiable risk of hurting) other people.  This gap is illustrated by the feminist position (not universal, but much broader than just the PIV-is-rape crowd) that sex work should be criminalized.  Sex work is the explicit exchange of sexual services for value (as opposed to the implicit exchange of sexual services for value, which we just call “sex”).  Criminalization is the use of violence (including the threat of violence) to compel people to refrain from doing something.  This is what libertarians call “the gun in the room”:  without violence, government would be powerless to compel anything, so those who support criminalization are using violence (through proxies) to force women not to engage in explicit sexual commerce.  The argument against decriminalizing sex work depends on people possessing a thing that they cannot be permitted to sell.  But if a person possesses something that she could not (assuming a willing buyer) sell, she doesn’t own it.  By criminalizing sex work we teach people that their sexuality is not their own, but subject to society’s—government’s—license.  If male ownership of women’s sexuality was bad, government (male-created and mostly male-run) ownership of women’s sexuality is worse.

I write as a criminal-defense lawyer who represents sex workers, as a libertarian, and most importantly as the father of a girl.  “Would you have sex for money, Mark?  Would you be happy about it if your daughter chose to?”  I reckon not.  But each of us experiences life’s many facets differently; I know women who derive satisfaction from sex work, and I’m not prepared to force my own tastes on other people at gunpoint.  Outlawing sex work makes women’s sexuality (most sex workers are women) the property of the community.  There would be a certain internal logic in this if you were a PIV-is-always-rape feminist:  you would see in the sex worker a woman who thinks she is honestly exchanging sexual services for money, but who a) suffers from false consciousness; and b) is harming your cause by promoting a culture of penetrative sex, and therefore rape.  (You would also have written off this post, on seeing my name, as mansplaining.)  By the same token, if you were a religious fundamentalist you might think that sex workers were calling the judgment of God down upon society, and feel that using violence to stop sex work was justified to prevent a greater harm.

protest postersBut I suspect that most people fall somewhere between these two extremes.  If they view sex work as harmful, most people see it as harmful to the sex workers, harmful to individual relationships, or a symptom of a more severe disease.  When sex work is harmful to sex workers, the harm is often due to criminalization, which drives the criminalized behavior underground, where it’s easier for violent people (including police) to harm those engaging in it.  Even absent criminalization, sex workers would sometimes put themselves into danger, but the risk of harm to sex workers cannot justify using violence to stop them.  When sex work is harmful to individual relationships, that’s the fault of the people in the relationships, and not of sex work; using violence to stop sex work because some relationships are troubled is an irrational overreaction.  And though I do think that society is sick, sex work (which has always existed in all societies) is not a symptom.  Even if sex work were a symptom of a societal disease, applying violence to sex workers would not cure it; on the contrary, it would just drive the symptom underground.

I think that most people have a visceral moral reaction against sex work, which they rationalize and don’t worry about a lot about because they don’t consider the downside of criminalization.  I’d like to ask those people:  could we try treating a woman’s sexuality as her own property, to keep, give, rent, or sell as she will?  Let’s try, just for a generation or two, teaching our daughters that they are sovereign over their own bodies.

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Readers, I recently got this letter from a sex worker I’ve known for years.  Obviously I’m not in a position to know all the ins and outs of the situation, but this lady is very sharp and I talked to her about some of the earlier incidents she refers to as they happened, including the one from three years ago.  I have edited this a bit for conciseness, to remove a few unnecessary personal details and to embed links, but the rest is hers.  The “Gina” she refers to is the owner of Preferred 411 (“P411”), a client verification service to which I’ve referred on multiple occasions.

Dear Maggie,

P411 lilyI am writing this in hopes that you may help me to share this information regarding P411.  I was reluctant to come forward at first, but after the evidence that presented itself today, I can no longer deny the responsibility that I have to my sisters to report that I strongly believe that the security of the site can no longer be trusted.  I was the biggest proponent of P411 for years, but now sadly, I must say that Gina and I exchanged emails today that can leave me with no other impression than that she is working with cops, maybe even the FBI.

Three years ago a man claiming to be “Danny H___”* attempted to schedule appointments with me in Orlando, Florida, using a very memorable email address.  I was provided with screening information that led to a Florida real estate license, so I made the appointment; however, my intuition kept telling me that something was wrong so I ran some checks on the contact form he filled out on my website.  A back door tracker showed it originated at “Orange County Telecommunications”, and following that back took me to the police department website.  I quickly cancelled the appointment, yet had already told him the hotel; he begged me to see him, and when I looked out the window I saw two blacked out undercover Dodge Chargers in the parking lot, parked driver to driver in the style of the police.  So I told him that I found him attractive and would see him for free, and suddenly he lost interest.  Hmm.

Early last week, I was surprised to be contacted by that same memorable email address again!  I had just posted a new ad on Eros for the Tampa area (which includes Orlando).  Because I knew he was a cop from last time, I decided to look at the MBI website and found a message from the Director breaking down their efforts to eliminate escort advertising from Orlando for tourism reasons.  I spent hours reading it, and began tracking all of my communications.  Imagine my further surprise when each of four different client contacts that day all tracked back to the same Orlando IP address as the cop’s email; in fact, each of the four clients forwarded all of my emails to the same four contacts in various locations of the country, all showing “human trafficking” task forces located in those cities.

I went into high alert mode, using P411 as my preferred source of screening, and that day I was contacted by two P411 members.  I agreed to meet one of them, but had to redirect his conversation many times because he kept saying graphic things that would not occur in a tantric session.  I never want to blow a client out of the water by shouting “There is no sex in my sessions”; I let them figure it out on their own and they are usually OK with it.  But this guy wouldn’t let go of the sex talk prior to meeting.  In fact, he got a little upset and said, “This is too much work.  It sounds like you are just an escort, not Tantra with Sex.”  I explained that I had to be careful due to Florida’s efforts to impose moral agendas by persecuting erotic education.  And boy, did that email get a lot of attention; it was forwarded or opened 68 times on 5 different devices in 5 different cities.  In fact, all of the contacts that week circulated my emails to the same network, including some in which the supposed client wanted me to cross a state line to see him (which is fishing for a Mann Act charge).  I have detailed tracking reports on all of these emails, though none got quite as much attention as the one in which I mentioned that I was aware of current police operations.

Once I had verified that all of these suspect mails were coming from the same IP address as the P411 account, I contacted P411 immediately by phone; the operator (with zero sense of urgency) told me to email Gina.  I had to do that twice before she replied, and her replies left me with no doubt that she is working with the cops.  She claims that a P411 client forwarding our emails to known police IP addresses is not an issue because IP addresses are “garbage information”.  I agree that without other information, they mean very little, but when the addresses are clearly part of a network and the same IP comes up again and again, it is undeniable that something in the milk ain’t clean.  When I explained how I knew these addresses were associated with known cops, she categorically stated that the original client from three years ago was “with no doubt, NOT LE”.  Following this oddly-certain declaration I decided to Google that memorable email address, and found multiple blacklist reports which also identified him as LE (in direct contradiction of Gina’s statement).  When I confronted her with this evidence, her reply was, “Some people just live for drama and paranoia.”

This is not the first time I’ve suspected problems with P411.  Prior to the Denver busts using fake P411 accounts last June I had emailed Gina about suspicious activity from a Denver account with zero OKs who forwarded my emails to Colorado State Government computers; this supposed newbie was trying to get me to travel from Florida to Colorado and to “bring a friend to Colorado because I like to watch”.  Pretty odd for a newbie to reach out to Florida for something as easy to find as a duo, unless you’re trying to invent a “human trafficking” scenario.  But this week, when I reminded Gina of that incident, she claimed the username I reported was not the one involved in the busts.  There was one other incident last year:  I checked my P411 account after a long absence and found that my phone number had been changed to someone else’s; searching the new number revealed a duplicate of my ad, complete with my photo and an apparently false review.  Gina’s reaction to that issue was to say that I must have changed the phone number myself.

"I've just made a deal that will keep the Empire out of here forever."

“I’ve just made a deal that will keep the Empire out of here forever.”

I didn’t speak out then because I could not believe that Gina, as well respected as she is, could really be in on this.  I’m also aware that Gina and P411 reside in Canada, but with the current “sex trafficking” hysteria who knows what agreements may have been made between the two countries’ police agencies?  And it’s not like there is no such thing as extradition for “crimes” that are now being represented as something very serious.  Furthermore, I’m not the first provider to accuse Gina of being “dirty”, and several clients I know are concerned that she is preparing to “cash out” due to the fact that she was recently offering lifetime P411 memberships for the cost of two years (citing “bad business decisions” as her reason).  Today I deleted my account.  But I have a responsibility to stand up as an activist and say that these things are undeniable, and I have the evidence to prove it.

 Months before the Denver incident, P411 was also compromised in Wisconsin and Little Rock, Arkansas; there was also evidence of a much more serious problem which I included in TW3 #43, but removed mere hours before publication time because Gina came up with a seemingly-credible explanation for it.  But now, the circumstantial evidence appears to be stacking up; even if this can all be explained, it has not been as yet.  Services like P411 run on trust, and Gina does not appear to be investing enough effort in maintaining that trust; until and unless she does, I would advise all escorts using the service to be wary and to run your own extensive screening on anyone who approaches you via P411.  

*Mr. H____ has emailed me and insists that he had nothing to do with this sting operation; given that the police don’t care whom they hurt  in their crusade against whores, it’s entirely possible they could simply be using his name without his permission.

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Nerdy and political ramblings from a modern-day courtesan and art historian in Chicago.  –  Aspasia’s description of her blog

WordPress gives bloggers a lot of space, and I mean a whole lot; I’m halfway through my fourth year of blogging now, and I’ve only used 18% of my allotment.  Nor have I been parsimonious with it; if you take a look at my Resources page, you’ll realize that some of those PDFs are enormous.  But as I’ve said before, I’m every bit as much a librarian as I am a whore; I want this blog to be a resource for activists, and judging by the feedback I’m succeeding.

Aspasia 2In addition to the studies, essays, books, pictures, charts and other such materials I’ve also hosted mirror copies of several of Dr. Brooke Magnanti’s posts; so, when Aspasia told me she was leaving activism to pursue other personal goals and deleting her blog, I had no hesitation in offering her the space to archive her posts here.  I’ve copied them all into static pages backdated to the original posting dates, and have indexed them below; this post will also be replicated as a static page and will thus serve as the permanent gateway to Aspasia’s space here at The Honest Courtesan.  Though the only practical way to preserve the comment threads was as static images, please feel free to continue commenting in the regular way below any of these posts.  Perhaps one day Aspasia may restart her blog, but until then she assures me she’ll still be a regular in the comments here.  I’m sure you’ll all join me in wishing her luck in her future endeavors, and in hoping she won’t be a stranger.

August 2011

Now for Something Completely Different!

September 2011

Torchwood and Sex Worker Stereotypes
PLEASE think of the CHILDREN!!!!!
Because the Jokes Write Themselves
Feminism:  Still Not Getting It
A Brief FYI
Gypsies, Tramps and Thieves
Upcoming Mega Post

October 2011

It’s Still Slut-shaming
New Obsession:  Lost Girl
Sometimes Even I’m Shocked

November 2011

The Succubus:  Myth and Reality
This is What Sanity Looks Like
All Clogged Up
Lafayette Explains It All
Whores and Courtesans and Others, Oh My!

December 2011

Sci-Fi Geekout- What If The Doctor Was Helen Mirren?

January 2012

No, This Shouldn’t Be Shocking At All
A Game of Thrones- Official Trailer for Series 2

February 2012

Chicago Skin Tax

May 2012

Chris Rock on Political-Tribal Mentality
What is the Difference?

June 2012

Textbook Definition of Misogyny
Forget Magic Mike, Support THIS Movie About Strippers

August 2012

Proposition 35 & Sex Worker Relationships

September 2012

Thank You, Robyn
Only When We Don’t Like You
And This is Why WE Don’t Like YOU…
Nicholas Kristof’s IAmA Reddit

November 2012

Staying Sane v. Engaging in Discussion: Comment Threads on Sex Work Articles
Snarky Thoughts on Election Day
Sex Worker Allies and Education
Quote of the Day
Yet Another Example of Feminists Not Fucking “Getting It”
‘Tis the Season!

December 2012

Feminism: Not Fucking Getting It…AGAIN! Part: Infinity
Buddy Cole on Vice
A Remembrance Two Days Late

January 2013

And Thank You for Proving My Point
Liar, Liar, Pants On Fire!

February 2013

Chicago-area Announcements: Participants Needed for Study
Hey, That’s Me! And Other General Things…
Join Me in the Fight Against Whorephobia!
Gail Dines on Being Called a Crusader

April 2013

The Problem With A Name

August 2013

Origin Story: Sex Workers Can’t Have Relationships
Difference of Opinion
Media Inquiries

September 2013

Hooker, Please: On the True Death of True Blood
Crabs in a Bucket
Beyond the Breasts: Femen Truly Exposed
Guest Columnist: Aspasia Bonasera

October 2013

Upcoming Post: Recap of “Ghost Adventures: Mustang Ranch”

December 2013

12/17/13
Study Hour!

January 2014

This is the End, My Friend

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One of my boyfriends once said something like, “If you’re going to shoot a man, you at least ought to have the decency to look him in the eye when you do it.”  This essay is presented in that spirit; anyone who supports inflicting harm on someone should at least have the guts to look upon the effects of his handiwork.

solitary confinementI am a registered sex offender.  I’ve been so for over 10 years, the result of a conviction for possession of child pornography; I served a prison term and have been out for a number of years now.  I’ve been friends with Maggie for nearly 2 years now and she has been very supportive; I wish there were more people like her in this world but, alas, such a Utopia is impossible.  I’d like to thank her for giving me a chance to talk about my life; I’m not here to defend my actions or say that my punishment was undeserved.  I accept responsibility for what I did and will live with the consequences for the rest of my life, as the state will never let me forget.  I’m just here to tell in plain words what my life has been like since it ended.

Originally I had a short prison sentence followed by a lengthy probationary period, but when I was out about a month when I got busted for solicitation for prostitution.  I was feeling despondent and wanted some companionship (from a GROWN WOMAN mind you), but the state needed to prove it was tough by getting lonely men off the street.  So I went back to prison, but when I was released the second time I only had the “regular” RSO restrictions.  Upon release, I went first to a halfway house where I stayed in a garage room with 3 other guys; that sounds bad, but there was a worse one across the street with 15 guys living in one tiny house.  Even so, I couldn’t stand it for long, so I packed up my crap and moved back in with my mother and her alcoholic husband, who has abused us both for the last 15 years (mostly emotionally but sometimes physically).

Eventually I met a wonderful girl whom I fell in love with; I’ll call her “Annie”.  I disclosed my toxic past to her and she managed to look past it to give me a fair chance.  But her landlord was not so understanding; though it was perfectly legal for me to live there, within a week she got a notice saying they would start eviction proceedings if I didn’t move out (despite the fact that they rented to gang members and drug dealers).  So once again, I was forced to move back home.  When Annie’s lease was up she moved into my mother’s house to be with me, but that didn’t last long because my stepfather is a poison pill.  So we moved again, this time into a friend’s apartment where she and I shared a tiny bedroom with our two dogs.  Thankfully, we soon found a condo that was owned by a private individual rather than a corporation, and she didn’t mind renting to me.  That was probably the best 2 years of my life since getting out, but even that had to end as I cannot hold onto anything concrete.

For one thing, I’ve not held a steady job for over 10 years.  At first I did some temp work, but that dried up after they ran a background check on me for a specific job; after that I couldn’t find work anywhere.  I tried to go to work doing landscaping, but I’ve had knee problems for almost my entire life and the pain at the end of the day was so great I couldn’t even walk.  My mother couldn’t help, and my father won’t even return my calls or emails.  So I was being supported by my girlfriend, who in turn was being supported by her parents; unfortunately, her father became chronically ill so she returned to her home state to take care of him, and I had to move back in with my mother.  I’m still good friends with her but I miss her, our condo and our pets dreadfully.

That was nearly three years ago, and since then I’ve become increasingly isolated from society for obvious reasons.  For example, once Annie and I made friends with another couple; we had them over for dinner and a small Christmas party, and all seemed to be going well until the wife decided to see if she knew any sex offenders.  Instead of talking with me about this, they and everyone they knew decided to blackball me.  I’ve not made new friends since, save for Maggie and a few other open minded folks that nevertheless live thousands of miles away.  My relationship with my mother is tenuous at best and she, well, she’s still married to a drunk.

police lights at houseOne time a 4 year old autistic boy went missing in our neighborhood, and the sheriff’s office went all in on the search.  When I heard a reporter ask them on TV, “Is it possible the child was abducted?” I knew shit was coming my way; sure enough, a few hours later there’s a knock at the door.  Two deputies wanted to search the place without a warrant; I knew damn well that if I held out for one I could expect all sorts of fun visits in the future, so I let them in.  It turned out that the boy had drowned in a retention pool, but of course they didn’t think of something like that until after they harassed me.  I have nightmares about my incarceration, about my childhood home turning into a prison.  I’ve tried to commit suicide, but I’m bad at anatomy; all I have as a result of that are scars around the major veins.  And deep down I know it would crush my mother if I died that way, even after everything that’s happened.  I do secretly wish for my stepfather to die, as he too is unemployed and is much more of a financial and emotional drain on my mother than I am.

I have a daughter whom I’ve never met, from a failed relationship that ended before my initial arrest, and though I’d like a family of my own I know it’s quite impossible.  Aside from the economic realities, children of RSOs are often teased mercilessly by their peers and, as a result, develop depression and anxiety.  The state does nothing to protect the children of RSOs, and in some cases puts them in harm’s way; how could I willingly inflict that kind of life on a child?  People imagine that all RSOs are a danger to kids, but I’ve never abused any kid nor do I have any sort of predilection to do so.  I find child abuse abhorrent; while some may think that statement is at odds with my conviction, it happens to be the truth.  I’ve met several RSOs whose “victims” are now their wives and they have kids together; why should the state keep tabs on them and want to harass their wives and children?  I know there are some pretty bad guys out there and I don’t think there are any easy answers as to what to do with them, but I do know that bloating the registry with people who aren’t dangerous to anyone is probably a bad idea.  So there you have it; that’s my story, at least so far.  I don’t know it will end, or how much time I have left on this earth.  And I don’t know if I’ll ever get out of this torture alive, or if I’ll be gunned down by some psycho who thinks he’s serving some greater good.

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Jasper Gregory is a citizen science advocate and gender activist in Oakland, California; for the past few months he’s been researching the development of modern feminism from the 19th-century variety, and his “tweets” on the subject were so fascinating I invited him to contribute this column.  I think you’ll find it just as interesting as I do.

A new wave of sexual repression has swept through the lands of the Puritan Diaspora.  Under the banner of Feminism sexual puritans have declared a war on prostitution in Sweden and politically incorrect words and images in the UK and North America; the new Puritans are on the rise and have wrapped themselves in a rhetoric of “True Womanhood” that seems more appropriate for the 19th century than for the Internet Age.  But the similarities between today’s prude feminism and the earlier Victorian age of moral regulation go far deeper than you might suspect:  the radical “cultural” feminism of 1970-2013 is actually the continuation of a two century moral purity movement.

Frankenstein illustration by Berni WrightsonThe English romantic sentimental novel became established in the 1730s during the evangelical Protestant “Great Awakening“.  Under the label of “sensibility”, displays of romantic sentimentalism became the measure of good character; the more sensitive you were, the more civilized you were.  According to True Woman ideology, they were the most pure and civilized and thus the most sensitive, which is they were always fainting away and coming down with cases of nerves.  One outgrowth of Gothic romanticism was the science fiction novel, which first rose to international success in 1818 with Frankenstein by Mary Shelley, daughter of romantic novelist and women’s rights pioneer Mary Wollstonecraft.  And soon the Utopian science fiction novel became a way for the early women’s movement to inspire collective action just as the earlier Gothic romance heroines had provided a template for individual reformist action.

The first American woman science fiction author published the Utopia Three Hundred Years Hence in 1836.  In it, Mary Griffith imagines the Philadelphia of 2135, in which middle-class white women have attained more power in society.  The novel displays many features which would appear in later feminist Utopias, but it also contains many elements which were more in keeping the Victorian separation of spheres.  For instance, 2135‘s women do not have or desire the vote, for when they were given equal status under the law they retreated into a women’s sphere and separated themselves even more fully from the men’s sphere of politics and the university.  They did, however, enter the realm of business, which they were suited to on account of their house-holding skills; in fact, quite prophetically, Griffith saw equal competition in the marketplace as the route by which women achieved equality.

Griffith lived in an era in which romantic movement activists were holding up women as especially pure and civilized within the separate women’s sphere of the home.  Though it seems paradoxical to us, it was middle-class women who fought for their gilded cages as moral arbiters of the home and guardians of society’s manners and morals.  Rather than being imposed upon women, the separate women’s sphere was fought for and attained by a Romantic Era women’s movement.  This can be seen in Griffith’s Utopia; her 2135 Philadelphia is a world in which the women’s sphere had domesticated and civilized the male public sphere.  All of the rough edges had been removed:  the roads were smooth, and noisy, scary steam engines were banned once women began to guide technology.  All dogs were also exterminated, a theme common in later feminist Utopias:  dogs were uncouth, ill mannered and dead, though cats would be allowed to live.  Griffith’s Matrons got together and censored the vulgar passages of Shakespeare, and in another flash of prophecy, once the actors had been censored they would go on to become major cultural figures.  Mostly, Griffith dreamed of state regulation and a strong police to intervene and protect white middle class women from undignified situations and unscrupulous men.  Liquor and smoking were banned; if a bachelor was found drunk three times his head was shaved and he was sent to the work camps.

These themes mirror the concerns of Romantic Era Christianity in which a highly artificial version of sentimental femininity came to dominate.  As Colin Campbell wrote in The Romantic Ethic and the Spirit of Modern Consumerism,

…the rise of sentimentality went hand in hand with the rise of consumer capitalism and of middle class women’s new role as head consumer of household items.  This is reflected in Three Hundred Years Hence, where all duties on imported luxury goods have been lifted.  2135 is a consumer paradise.

MizoraBy the 1880s the women’s movement was picking up steam and had moved on from the creation of women’s space into the purity campaigns, the effort to impose what they considered to be feminine virtues onto all of society.  Proto-eugenics was also becoming popular because as mothers, the reformers believed they could lay claim to special eugenic knowledge.  These themes are especially noticeable in Mary Bradley Lane’s Mizora  (1881), the first parthenogenetic Utopia (this element would become dominant in 20th-century feminist Utopias).  In Mizora, our narrator descends inside the Earth to find a blonde, Aryan, all-female society; their forebears had decided that dark skin caused criminal behavior and had used eugenic breeding to “cure” this affliction, and men were regarded as an inferior dark-skinned race whose elimination had led to a perfect society (an idea familiar to readers of 1970s feminist Utopias).  As in Griffith’s work, the Mizorans had tamed and domesticated uncivilized nature; animals had been eliminated and farming was held in suspicion because of the “deleterious” effects of earthly matter.  Their engineers made food from chemicals, produced bread from limestone and were close to achieving their glorious goal of finding chemical substitutes for fruit and vegetables; in a sense, Lane was imagining the Hostess Twinkie Utopia.  But besides being the first exclusively female Utopia where all of the turbulent and chaotic aspects of the men’s sphere had been tamed and made safe for proper ladies, Mizora was also a whiteness Utopia:  even their architecture and clothing were all bleached white.

1888 brought the literary Utopia into the mainstream with the publication of Edward Bellamy’s Looking Backward, which contained many of the themes of earlier women’s Utopias.  Looking Backward became the first international blockbuster bestseller and inspired the American Nationalist Socialist movement, the Nationalist Women’s Movement and later the Progressive Movement, the New Deal and Europe’s National Socialist movements.  One early Bellamyite was Charlotte Perkins Gilman, who in 1915 wrote Herland, a direct inspiration for 1970s women’s separatist Utopias.  Gilman continued the dog exterminationist themes of Mizora and Three Hundred Years Hence, and like most feminists of the time was a strong believer in Lamarckian evolution and eugenics; the Herlanders “of Aryan stock” had made eugenics the focus of their society, and had perfected their race by eliminating males along with the dogs.  The “Race Mothers” gave virgin birth to girls and were never subjected to the degradation of sex; women thus became supermothers and maternal passion was the only emotion left to them. Herlanders did not eat meat and cats had been eugenically engineered not to meow or catch birds; female cats were allowed to roam free, but males were kept in cages for stud purposes only.

Contemporary feminists consider Gilman one of the founders of American feminism, which is ironic considering that her eugenic feminism contained so much of the intolerance displayed by modern neo-Puritans.  She is less known for the white supremacism evidenced in her 1908 “A Suggestion on the Negro Problem”, in which she argued that the state should re-enslave African Americans to instill social hygiene in them and take away their right to reproduce; her proposal anticipates both the German solution to “the Jewish Problem” and the invasive social hygiene policies of the modern welfare state.  Gilman was rediscovered in the 1970s and adopted as a feminist idol, thus supporting the idea that 1970s feminism was a white women’s power movement; her model of purified eugenic Utopia became a cottage industry as multiple generations of women’s studies students read and wrote these Utopias and used them as a guiding principle for action.  The following graph shows the rise in use of the term “feminist Utopia” from 1970 to the mid-’90s: feminist Utopia graph

The year 2013 has seen a renewed feminism which in the United Kingdom is busy banning rock music, men’s magazines, pole fitness and exotic dancing, while in California a new culture war is aimed at the traditional libertarian values of the high-tech scene.  Without knowing it, a new generation is taking up the battle to civilize and domesticate the wild unruly natives and impose the traditional values of the Victorian women’s sphere on men and women alike.

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This is a kind of hybrid column, half Q&A and half guest post.  A reader sent me the photo below, and wanted to know if I could tell him anything about it (you’ll see why he thought I might in a moment).  Well, everything I know about art wouldn’t even make a whole column, but the essence of librarianship isn’t knowing information directly, but rather knowing where to find it.  So I asked Aspasia Bonasera, who happens to be an art historian in addition to a sex worker, and she provided the analysis below.  I hope you find it as interesting as I did.

In the early eighties I found this de-framed painting in an antique store in Wisconsin.   An older couple who ran the store said it had come up the river from Storyville to Chicago, where they got it in an estate sale, along with its anecdotal provenance.  Seems it was cut from its frame in great hurry, then later “framed” in something that was at some point painted dark brown…

Storyville painting

This painting was done in oil on canvas.  Primary colors dominate, though the palette is vibrant; the paint quality is average to maybe slightly above average.  The canvas itself looks to be average quality as well (cotton or low-grade linen), so this painting was either done by an artist without a lot of money to spend on finer, linen canvases or someone who paints as a hobby.  This says to me that it probably wasn’t a commission or if it was, it was not commissioned by someone with a lot of money for the project.  Commissions are generally done with the best materials the artist has access to, and it is not unusual for the patron to provide these finer materials.

The painting was originally larger; the female subject’s foot is clearly cut off at the bottom of the canvas where it was cut and re-framed.  There could be any number of reasons for this; for example, if the painting was commissioned for one patron but the deal fell through for reasons unknown to us, another patron may have bought it but asked that it be scaled down to fit on their walls.  More than likely, I think this painting was cut and re-sized by the buyer rather than the artist.  So far as I can tell, there is no signature of the artist on the painting, which tells me it may have been located on the bottom of the painting, which has been removed.  If the artist had re-sized/re-framed the painting in his studio, he would have re-signed his creation.

The painting shows a classic Reclining Venus, which was a popular theme in antiquity and Renaissance paintings.  For example, the Venus of Urbino by Titian is a Reclining Venus.  Naturally, this would have been an appropriate subject for a brothel.  The two young men are almost satyr-like, especially their ears, which are almost pointed and their long, drawn faces.  Satyrs were known for their lust and high libidos and were often depicted with women who were equally lusty and wild, especially Maenads.Diana and Actaeon by Camille Corot (1836)  The presence of the men in a voyeuristic pose may also be influence by the Greek myth of the virgin huntress Diana being surprised at her bath by the hunter Actaeon, whom she punished for spying on her nudity by turning him into the very animal he hunts (see also Titian’s rendering of that story).  Unlike Diana, however, the woman in this painting, as a representation of Venus/Aphrodite quite enjoys being spied on, though she doesn’t make eye contact with the voyeurs but affects an aloofness that probably only intensifies their lust for her.  Appropriate for a sex worker!

The style reminds me the most of French Rococo artists such as Antoine Watteau, Jean-Honoré Fragonard, or François Boucher.  Fragonard and Boucher are known for their erotic arts and voluptuous pastoral scenes.  This painting shows nature as full and sensual and blossoming.  The style, in my opinion, is very strongly influenced by Fragonard, which brings me to a conundrum of my own.  Fragonard was very popular among the French aristocracy in the years leading up to the French Revolution.  When the Revolution occurred, Fragonard fell out of favor (as did Boucher) and his art was forgotten for many years; this included the time period in which Storyville would have existed.  That said, however, Fragonard may have fallen out of favor in mainstream art history, but perhaps he was still remembered among those who were outside of the mainstream, such as those people who still liked the voluptuous and erotic artistic expressions embodied by the Rococo?  Certainly there would have been those among the elite classes of the French Creole in New Orleans who may have had Fragonard paintings (or at least known who he was) and also patronized Storyville.

Obviously without more to go on, this analysis is purely speculative, though based in what I have learned in my course work.  I would love to know more about it, though, as I always love investigating that intersection of sex and art.  If the reader really wants a thorough, in-person investigation, I suggest contacting a gallery that is in New Orleans itself, such as M.S. Rau Antiques; in Chicago, there are a whole bunch of places that could do the job as well.

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Today’s guest columnist probably needs no introduction for most of you; under her stage name Belle de Jour she wrote a well-known blog which turned into books and eventually a TV show, Secret Diary of a Call Girl.  Dr. Magnanti is a forensic scientist (she did sex work while in graduate school), and now brings her scientific training and analytical mind to bear as a writer on sex work, sex in general and other related issues.  So without further ado, I’ll surrender the floor to her. 

Hooters protestFor those living outside of the UK, it can be tough to comprehend the seeming stranglehold a certain type of second-wave feminism has on the mainstream media there.  Issues like, say, feminists objecting to Hooters might raise some local interest in the media if they happened in the States; whereas here they’re as apt to gain national attention.  Similarly, campaigns like the “Lose the Lads Mags” and “No More Page 3” efforts gain remarkable amounts of column inches compared to the number of lives these issues actually affect.  As a Southern girl who grew up in the very town that was home to the first Hooters, the only truly offensive thing about Hooters in Britain is the absence of the deep fried pickles that the menu promises.  But hey, mainstream feminism and I have long since parted ways; I accept that.

The benefit and drawback of working in such a small media bubble is that everyone knows everyone.  It’s fair to say that with most British journalists working for all of the national papers at some point or another, and with everyone reading the same papers and websites anyway, you are never really only “preaching to the choir”.  But not only are other journalists watching, so is the world.  In times past the public could hardly ever enter the conversation in any meaningful way.  Social media has of course changed all that.  And it’s this fact that seems to have taken the second-wavers by surprise:  they have been slow to realise that thanks to Facebook, Twitter, and so on, their previously one-way conversations are no longer one-way.

One of the perennial targets of second-wave feminists has been trans women who, along with sex workers, are frequently accused of not being “real” women, being tools of the patriarchy, and so on.  The great strides made in public recognition and social acceptance run up against a brick wall when talking to the average second waver.  If it was a matter of a small minority of British feminists, that would be a problem, but not an insurmountable one.  When these feminists have a considerable presence in the media, however, the issue of transphobia takes on very different and worrying overtones indeed.

This ongoing issue came to a head last year, when Suzanne Moore (who then wrote for the Mail and the Guardian, a dual role on far ends of the mainstream political spectrum all but inconceivable outside the tiny world of British media) found herself on the receiving end of some pointed criticism about an offhand remark about “Brazilian transsexuals“.  Trans people and allies of course spoke up.  Called out for her insensitive – not to mention, inaccurate in the context – use of language, Moore doubled down on her stance, controversially tweeting that trans women “cut their dicks off and be more feminist than me,” a remark that many who were on the fence about whether her initial remarks had been purposely transphobic found far, far beyond the pale.

JulieBurchill_2394027bIf it had only been Suzanne, or if the story had ended there, perhaps it would be long forgotten by now.  But her friend and fellow second-wave feminist Julie Burchill poured oil on the flames of controversy with a column that raised every last hackle on anyone who supported the rights of trans men and women.  As I wrote in the Telegraph at the time, it’s a way of thinking that we should be leaving behind in the name of solidarity for all women. This is after all the 21st century.

The backlash against Burchill’s comments was so great, and the condemnation so universal, that many second-wavers have since taken pains to distance themselves from the old ideology that characterised trans women as not “real” women.  A recent Soho Skeptics debate about trans, for example, attracted widespread criticism.  Participant and entrenched second-waver Julie Bindel, who was on the panel, took to Twitter repeating that she had long since apologised for any offensive remarks made about trans women (see for example her interview with Paris Lees for Meta Magazine) and anyway, can’t they all just move on now?

The question of how far Bindel and others like her have moved on, though, is still up in the air.  Recently, I noticed some discussion on the timeline of Sarah Brown, a Liberal Democrat councillor and trans activist living in Cambridge.  In 2008, Sarah jokingly suggested taking a leaf from Dan Savage’s playbook.  Savage, who is famously outspoken on gay rights issues, once managed handily to nick the name of one of US politics’ biggest homophobes – Rick Santorum – and repurpose the name to mean the mixture of lube, semen and faecal matter that can follow anal sex.  Savage’s effort was so successful that Googling the word “Santorum” now gives you his definition rather than the politician’s site.  As far as cheeky, media-aware activism goes, Savage hit it out of the park.  Sarah therefore suggested appropriating the name of Bindel (who up to that point had no problem associating herself with transphobic remarks in public) to mean the smegma-like discharge that sometimes accompanies a trans woman dilating her vagina post-surgery.  Some five years later, Bindel took exception to this, and tweeted about it.  Bindel claims to have been victimised by the blog, and also, to have apologised for any past transphobia.

Sarah_Brown_(politician)But has she turned over a new leaf, really?  An anonymous source contacted me. This source happened to follow what was going on in Bindel and Brown’s public timelines, but also followed Julie Bindel on Facebook, and pointed out that a different conversation was happening there.  So while on the one hand Bindel was objecting loudly on Twitter, claiming her transphobic phase was long in the past, Facebook was telling a very different story indeed.  First Bindel suggested her Facebook fans make complaints to Cambridge council, in an attempt to have Sarah removed from her job.  Considering that the blog in question was written well before Sarah entered politics, it’s unclear how this would be relevant to her current position, but anyway.  Still more shocking were the quotes and comments Bindel’s Facebook lamentations attracted.

Karen Ingala Smith, the Chief Executive of nia, a group dedicated to ending violence against women, posted that Sarah Brown was a “vile creature“.  Keeping in mind the extremely high rates of violence suffered by trans women, this would seem to be a particularly callous remark.  But this pales in comparison to the comments of Julie Burchill – she of the Suzanne Moore controversy, and a very high-profile journalist indeed in Britain:  “What a bunch of fucking rotters.  I’d like to shove their bad wigs down their stupid throats!

I don’t mind telling you I choked on my tea when I read that.

What the Facebook exchange goes to show is that if anything has changed in second-wave feminism, Bindel, Burchill, et al have yet to get the memo.  (It must have been lost in the post alongside the one reminding people that things you say on Facebook aren’t really all that private.)  But then for sex work activists like me, the discovery that the public and private faces of such people are adjusted precisely for their audience comes as no surprise.  And still less surprising is the incredibly violent imagery they employ in convincing themselves (and their sadly many followers) that some women deserve the violence that the second wave feminists do absolutely nothing to prevent.

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