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A girl of the painted cohorts of the city went along the street. She threw changing glances at men who passed her, giving smiling invitations to men of rural or untaught pattern and usually seeming sedately unconscious of the men with a metropolitan seal upon their faces…She hurried forward through the crowd as if intent upon reaching a distant home, bending forward in her handsome cloak, daintily lifting her skirts and picking for her well-shod feet the dryer spots upon the pavements.  –  Stephen Crane, Maggie: A Girl of the Streets (Chapter XVII)

To the average American, the word “prostitute” is practically synonymous with “streetwalker”, despite the fact that only about 15% of all full-time prostitutes work primarily on the street (and that number seems to be shrinking due to the internet).  The National Task Force on Prostitution estimates 5-20%, the New Zealand study found 11%, a recent Canadian study said 10-20%, and other studies find comparable numbers.  So if they represent a minority of whores, why do so many people equate the two, even to the point that most popular excuses for criminalization apply mostly or completely not just to streetwalkers, but to the least fortunate segment of streetwalkers?

I examined the issue in my very first regular post, one year ago today, so there’s very little point in rehashing it; in a nutshell, I theorized that people think all or at least most prostitutes are streetwalkers because while the other 85% of us try to blend into the woodwork, streetwalkers by necessity try to attract attention because it’s their primary means of advertising.  In a later column I pointed out that the streetwalker is a mythic figure much like the cowboy; she presents a striking visual image, so even if the whore=streetwalker equation was not as prevalent before the 20th century, the coming of movies and television certainly made it so.  And of course the majority of hookers encountered by cops are streetwalkers; they’re the “low-hanging fruit” of our profession and therefore get busted far more often because they can be arrested at will without having to arrange elaborate “stings”.  For the same reason most government-sponsored “prostitution” studies are actually streetwalker studies because street girls are disproportionately represented in jails by a considerable margin and can usually be induced to provide whatever answers, however ridiculous, are desired by the “researchers”.

This narrow view of our profession is of course the fuel which keeps the fires of criminalization burning; cops make claims about “associated crime,” drug addiction, vagrancy and the like, and neofeminists paint pathetic pictures of women in unhappy, violent circumstances, and the public believes them because prior to the advent of the internet only those rare whores who could both write and win themselves book deals ever got a chance to speak in such a way that those who didn’t already know the truth could hear them.  Of course, the internet also gives cops, neofeminists and moralists the same ability to spread their lies as we have to spread the truth, so most people in the United States still don’t comprehend that it’s criminalization itself that creates the shadows in which abuse, degradation and crime thrive; criminalization begets crime, and the whore-hating busybodies are now as ever trying their hardest to disguise that fact and to distract people from reality with appeals to emotion and bigotry and cries of “think of the children!”

There are many well-informed people who recognize that most whores work indoors, but a large percentage of those still oppose decriminalization because they dislike streetwalkers; the Canadian and Dutch governments fall into that category (streetwalking is illegal in the Netherlands, and though it’s legal in Canada the girls are banned from actually talking to any potential clients).  San Francisco’s Proposition K of 2008 (a measure that would have effectively decriminalized prostitution in the city) failed by only 8%, and some advocates feel that it would have passed if it were limited to indoor prostitution.  A number of public figures (such as “Video Vigilante” Brian Bates) have gone on record as saying they’re against streetwalking but have no problem with indoor prostitution, and even many escorts feel that streetwalking should remain criminal even if indoor prostitution were decriminalized (a fact which makes some advocates extremely defensive about the subject).

Streetwalking is a bone of contention among those debating prostitution law and/or its removal, but both sides tend to ignore reality on the issue.  Those in favor of its criminalization ignore the fact that it’s already criminal now, yet it goes on anyway and the women are exposed to more danger because of its illegality.  And those in favor of decriminalization ignore the fact that even if prostitution and all its attendant activities were legal, police could still harass and arrest streetwalkers for loitering, vagrancy, disturbing the peace and many other “public nuisance” type charges.  In short, both sides (as is so typical in the United States) stubbornly cling to extreme positions which don’t accomplish what they actually want to accomplish:  the government wants prostitution out of public sight (and therefore out of mind), and sex worker rights advocates want our trade generally decriminalized, and under the present arrangement nobody is happy.  As I said in my column of last July 11th, “we may eventually have to accept some intermediate form of legal tolerance…and work from there; gay rights were not all granted in one court decision, and neither will prostitutes’ rights be.  Even the Founding Fathers were forced to remove anti-slavery language from the Declaration of Independence in order to secure the approval of the southern colonies, without whose cooperation independence was unattainable.”  As long as there are streets there will always be streetwalkers, and some people will be upset by their presence; if both sides work toward a compromise we as a society may eventually find some balance which will answer the majority of the concerns of both sides without trampling on anybody’s rights.

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Writing is like prostitution.  First you do it for love, and then for a few close friends, and then for money.  –  Moliere

One year ago today, I started this blog in order to have a soapbox from which to share my views on my profession; I wanted to do my small part in getting the word out that whores aren’t really different from other women and that laws suppressing our trade are evil, oppressive and unfounded in even the most tenuously defensible legal precedent.  I also hoped to help men and women to understand each other a little better, to find a creative outlet for my writing skills and perhaps even to entertain people along the way.  The Honest Courtesan has been more successful than I ever would’ve guessed; though I intended from the very beginning to post every day for at least the first year, I was pretty tired at the end of December and publicly worried that I would not be able to keep up the pace.  But then I got my second wind, changed the way I did a few things so as to make the process a bit less grueling, and managed to accomplish my initial goal without burning out or once missing a deadline.  After 365 posts, 8300+ comments, almost 250,000 hits and 87 subscribers, I don’t think it would be prideful of me to say that this blog is a success; I am respected by my readers and peers, complimented often, quoted and linked all over the internet and regularly contacted by journalists and other professionals for my expert opinions.  And that’s probably more than an overeducated middle-aged whore with a big mouth deserves.

So now I really am going to slow down just a teensy little bit, not only to give myself a breather but also to make time for all the guest blogging, editing, activism and other outside projects my popularity has attracted.  I’m still going to post every day (gods willing), but on holidays and perhaps a couple of other days per month my columns will be much shorter (though most will continue at the present 750-1500 word range, which I find very comfortable).  Because there are far too many past columns for any new reader who isn’t completely obsessed to even hope to slog through, starting tomorrow I’m introducing a new daily feature called “One Year Ago Today”, which will be a link and a short description of the column from that date the previous year; this will enable interested new readers to catch up gradually.  Most days the feature will probably be just a PS at the end of the regular column; other days it may actually be embedded in a new column on the same subject, and on still other days (such as holidays) the column may only consist of the link and a few new or introductory thoughts on the subject of the earlier column.

One of the projects on which I’d like to work is one which many of my readers have asked for, namely a collection of my best columns.  It’s quite easy to publish electronically nowadays, and I’d also like to explore doing a limited run of paper copies (to start, more can always be printed if need be) for no other reason than it would do my little librarian’s heart good.  I also feel like it might let me reach an audience which doesn’t generally read blogs.  The columns I select will have to be modified a little; hyperlinks will have to be replaced by quotes and attributions, and references to earlier columns which don’t appear in the collection subsumed in the text, that sort of thing, but I should be able to do those pretty quickly once I start.  Before I do anything else, though, I’ll need to know which columns to include, so I’d like your help in figuring that out.  Please comment to this post or send me an email listing your ten favorite columns from the past year.  You don’t need to rank them because I’m going to score them simply by the number of lists on which they appear, ignoring the order they appear in; if you can’t think of ten just put as many as you like.  Then at the beginning of August I’ll do a column in which I list the top ten columns calculated in a number of different ways:  The top ten by number of page views, the same list corrected by removing columns usually found by popular image searches, the top ten by number of comments, my favorite ten and your favorite ten.  And all of those will go into the book.

Thank you so very much for reading, for responding, and for making this project more fun and rewarding than I ever would’ve imagined it would be.  And most especially thank you all for your kind words and unflagging support, without which I think I would’ve run out of juice long ago.  Here’s to the next year!

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I have the rest of my life to learn every curve of your body and what makes you laugh and cry with joy.  –  from one of my husband’s love letters

This is the second part of an interview with my husband using questions provided by my readers; if you missed yesterday’s column you ought to read it first.  All the words in non-italic, non-bold type in today’s column are his.  If you have a question not covered in either column, ask it in a comment and he’ll answer it sometime in the next few days.

Are you wired in such a way that your wife being with other men or women turns you on?

I am now, but not at the beginning.  It did bother me, but I felt I didn’t have a right to say anything because after all I started as a customer myself.  Once we went into dating mode but were still having a long-distance relationship, I tried to keep myself busy when I knew she was working so I wouldn’t think about it.  There were even a few times when I thought to myself that I should break it off because I felt it wasn’t “normal”, that “if she really loved me she’d stop” and stuff like that.  But due to my love for her I stuck it out, and what really turned it around for me was a client she had in the spring of 2004 who wanted to do a two guys with one girl thing.  She asked if I was game and I said “what the hell?”  I was really nervous but found it turned me on to watch her with another guy, and as time went on I liked it more and more.

As far as my being turned on by seeing her with other women, well yeah, that goes without saying!

If you are turned on by it, why would you want to know when she enjoys it? Is that another turn on?

That’s because I love her and would rather her job be pleasant than unpleasant.

I am not big on statistics, but I know a lot of escorts report a self esteem boost from the business.  Do you also get a self esteem boost, being a provider husband? 

No.  In some ways it was fun, but I also felt bad about not providing enough of an income for my wife to not have to do it any more.  It wasn’t my fault that we got in financial trouble, but it still didn’t feel good that I couldn’t solve it alone.  Still, big dreams require big money, so I had to come to grips with it.

Tell me the single worst thing about being married to a provider, and the single best.

The worst is the fear that something might happen to her, which is worse at some times than others.  The best part is getting to meet other sexy women in the industry, and sometimes…

Was your fear for Maggie’s safety a constant nagging, or just occasional? How did you handle it?

There were many times I was afraid, but I had faith that she could take care of herself.  Still, the odds were that something would eventually happen, and she’s told you about the time she was arrested.  What made me really angry was that when something did happen, it was because of the people who are supposed to protect us.

Were you ever “outed” as a provider husband?

No, the only people who knew were those who already knew she was an escort, and I did tell my best friend that she owned a service (but not that she was an escort herself).

Any friends ever make an “indecent proposal”?

No.  Since very few people know the odds are small to start with, and we chose who we told carefully.  I think a man who would ask something like that wouldn’t be much of a friend.

What special things does a provider  know about her husband, that a non-provider wife is not likely to know or understand?

I think an escort is much more likely to understand a man’s need for variety, and also to understand that when a man looks at another woman it doesn’t really mean anything.  A lot of non-escorts get upset if their husbands even look at somebody else.  I think escorts are much more mature about it.

What’s the biggest differences between being in a provider marriage, as opposed to what I would assume would have been a non-provider marriage?

I really can’t see a difference, except for what we’ve already discussed and the fact that a provider wife is often gone in the evening instead of being home all the time.  It’s kind of like being married to a doctor who’s on call.

What have you learned sexually that you think other men wouldn’t know?

That there a lot more bisexual women out there than most men think, and if you play your cards right, you might end up in bed with your wife and her hot friends.

Postscript

Though nobody asked this as a question, I want to say a little bit about how I feel about prostitution in general.  In all these questions I think you can see a theme, that working girls aren’t any different from anybody else.  Many years ago, before I was married the first time, I once saw a streetwalker in my home city.  She took me to her hotel, and asked me to wait while she went around the corner to do something.  This of course made me very nervous, so I peeked and saw her shuffling a sleepy little boy of about eight into a different room.  She then came back to get me and we went back to her room, and I could see that one bed was still made while the other one (obviously the little boy’s) was turned down.  I didn’t stay any longer than necessary because I wanted the little boy to be able to get back to his own bed, and when I left I tipped her an extra $50.  I still remember that like it was yesterday because it was the thing that really showed me that everyone is just doing what they have to do.  Everybody thinks streetwalkers are dirty or drugheads, but she was a human being like all of us trying to get through life as best she could.

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As a flower dies without water,
As the night is blind without the moon,
So is my heart without you, beloved
.  –  from one of my husband’s love poems

On May 31st I asked my readers to submit questions for a collective interview with my husband; he read those questions and dictated replies to me, then I rearranged the questions and answers so as to provide a more logical flow, combining some answers and slightly rewording a few questions in the process. When answering one of the questions he suggested I provide a link to the column I did on the subject, and we decided I should do the same for other answers where appropriate.  One point of interest:  We’ve never been exactly sure who the mystery woman who steered him in my direction (see the first question below) was because he couldn’t remember which service he called, but I’m pretty sure it must have been Linda.  All the words in non-italic, non-bold type in today’s and tomorrow’s column are his.

How did you meet Maggie?

I was in New Orleans and was in the process of getting a divorce after finding out my wife had cheated on me, so I decided it would be fair for me to call an escort.  So I called an agency, and the woman said she didn’t take credit cards, but she referred me to another agency that did and it was Maggie’s.  So then I called and I asked for an older girl and Maggie said, “I’m 34, will I do?”  She sounded nice, so we worked out the details and she came over to my hotel (and then we played board games, because anything else would be unlawful).  One thing led to another, and the rest is history.

Have you always had respect for the working girls, or is this something Maggie gave you? Or to put it another way — before you met Maggie, could you have imagined being married to a hooker?

I have always had the same respect for working girls as for the butcher, the baker and the candlestick maker; they’re just people making a living.  I saw other girls before I met Maggie, from streetwalkers to escorts, and I respected them as human beings and never thought of them as anything other than people.  I don’t think I would’ve ever considered it before, not because I felt less of them but because of the barrier between client and provider (there’s no sense in wishing for ice cream when you’re in the Sahara).  But with Maggie it was different; the way she dressed, the way she acted, she was like any other girl I knew; her GFE felt so sincere and so real that it really was like being with a girlfriend, so I felt like I really had a chance with her.  And she later told me that she genuinely did like me from the beginning, so that was probably part of what I felt.

At what point did you emotionally cross the line and know that you were in love enough with a working girl to want to get married? How could you tell?

I really don’t remember, but it wasn’t all that long after meeting her.  It was love at first sight, and I knew that I would have to work very hard to convince her that I was serious.  A few months into the relationship Maggie opened a drawer at my apartment and discovered a stash of beanie babies I had intended to give her one at a time over months; when she looked questioningly at me I said, “I was prepared for a long siege.”

Was your marriage conditional on your being her only partner/“client”?

Originally it was.  She agreed that once we were engaged she wouldn’t do any more calls, and though she ran her agency she didn’t do any calls herself, just bachelor parties and two-girl shows.  But later due to extreme circumstances we decided she would go back to work herself for a while, from January 2004 until June 2006.

Does Maggie give you a hall pass when you need some outside variety?

For reasons of mutual security, we first met at this vending machine before returning to the hotel room. The picture was taken much later.

She not only provides the hall pass, she usually provides the hall.  We discussed what the rules were from the beginning; since she was an escort I knew she had to see other men, but if she had asked me not to see other women I wouldn’t have.  However, that wasn’t the case; she has allowed me to see other women on a number of occasions, and sometimes even provided girls for me.  If we had to keep a score card it wouldn’t have worked; I don’t think a relationship with an escort can work for everybody, a certain maturity level needs to be there.

Do you give Maggie a hall pass if she wants to hook up with someone for personal pleasure and not professionally?

She has my permission to be with women, but not with men.  I feel that I’ve stretched my liberal outlook on her being with other men as far as it can go, and besides she’s told me she isn’t interested in being with any other men.  The reason I don’t mind her being with women is selfish, because if she gets involved with another woman I might be invited to participate.

Are you worried about your wife developing feelings for clients that she sees on a regular basis?

No.  We’ve talked about it many times and I know it’s only work for her.  In ten years it’s never come close to being an issue.

How do you know that she won’t fall for someone else the same way that she fell for you?

Like any other marriage.  She’s not more likely to fall in love with someone else than any other woman would be.  You might as well worry about your wife falling in love with some guy she sees in the produce aisle at the supermarket.  There has to be trust.  I have to trust her just like any other man has to trust his wife; if you don’t have trust your relationship won’t work whether she’s an escort or a secretary.

So you’ve never been jealous of her being with other men?

In the beginning I was jealous, not of the sex but rather of the time.  Since we had a long-distance relationship our time together was precious, and I resented when she had to go on a call because I was losing that time.

To be continued tomorrow…

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Give me your tired, your poor,
Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free,
The wretched refuse of your teeming shore.
Send these, the homeless, tempest-tost to me,
I lift my lamp beside the golden door!
  –  Emma Lazarus, “The New Colossus”

When my husband and I first met he lived in the Los Angeles area, and after we were engaged I would travel there several times a year to spend a few weeks with him, leaving Grace to run the agency except for my shift on the phones.  Occasionally we had to run down to San Diego, north of which (along Interstate 5) lies an immigration control center which in those days was rarely open, thus allowing undocumented migrants to pass through the area unmolested.  Whenever we would pass and see this, my husband would say something like “I guess they must need dishwashers in Los Angeles or vegetable pickers in the Sacramento Valley.”

This was his way of pointing out what Americans who support greater restrictions on immigration love to ignore:  that the majority of jobs they whine about immigrants “stealing” from “real Americans” (most of whom are themselves no more than three generations removed from immigrants) are those no native American would touch, such as agricultural labor.  Some of them have an answer for that:  “if they paid higher wages they could get American workers.”  Of course, increased production costs would increase the price of the produce and any finished product which relied on it, which the anti-immigrant people would then complain about; perhaps these good Americans believe the farmers should simply accept decreased profits, or that the federal government should subsidize the greater costs?  But that would be socialism, wouldn’t it?  And judging by the noise these folks raise about the costs of “illegals” (as they’re so fond of calling them), they obviously aren’t in favor of that.

Proponents of tighter immigration are fond of saying immigrants need to “get in line”. Here, courtesy of Reason magazine, is a flow chart of that “line” (click to enlarge, and again to magnify).

I’m not denying that there are migrants who cross into welfare states in order to sponge off of their largesse, but how are they different from home-grown freeloaders?  A parasite is a parasite, and judging by America’s ever-increasing government bureaucracies, we have nothing against them.  Contrary to what the pundits claim, the majority of migrants want to work for a living, just as the majority of native-born citizens do, and since they are often willing to work harder, longer and more cheaply at less-pleasant jobs than those born to the softer life of a developed nation, they can out-compete natives at such jobs.  That’s called capitalism, folks; it’s what made this country the wealthiest one in the world, and if you don’t like it I’m sure there are a number of nice socialist (and a couple of leftover communist) countries to which you could yourself migrate.

So why am I discussing this topic?  Well, it’s partly because as I mentioned in my columns of June 22nd and 29th, increasing anxiety about unorthodox methods of migration is one of the root causes of “trafficking” hysteria, which is then conflated with prostitution and results in ever-more-Draconian prostitution laws and greatly increased anti-whore police activity, and that makes it my business.  But it’s also because I’m really sick of hearing the lawhead phrase “illegal alien”, which is of course intended to make them sound like criminals.  How, pray tell, are arbitrary immigration laws any different from the arbitrary laws you break?  Don’t say you don’t break laws, because everyone does.  And I don’t mean Silverglate’s inadvertent felonies (which are an entirely different issue); I mean the victimless “crimes” that you, I and everyone else purposefully choose to commit on a regular basis.  There is no moral difference between a migrant choosing to violate an arbitrary immigration law in order to have a chance for a better life, my violating arbitrary laws against my profession, your failing to pay state use taxes for online purchases, or your brother-in-law smoking weed.  And all of those actions are far more moral than the rampant violations we as a nation allow cops and prosecutors to commit every day, because their actions genuinely hurt people (often grievously), whereas breaking of arbitrary codes, statutes, ordinances and rules almost never does.

I’ve been thinking about this a great deal lately, and when I read this New York Times article posted on June 22nd, I felt it was time to write a column about the subject.  The article is the story of Jose Antonio Vargas, an undocumented immigrant from the Philippines who came to the U.S. in 1993 when he was 12, worked hard to learn English, discovered he was “illegal” when he was 16, excelled in school and became a Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist…only to be told that the only way he could ever become “legal” was to accept a ten-year exile before reapplying (presumably this is intended as a paternalistic “punishment”, the governmental equivalent of “go to your room and don’t come out until I tell you”).  Vargas decided it was time to to tell his story in the hopes of educating people about the myths and realities of undocumented migrants, and a few of the things he said in his article may sound very familiar to my prostitute readers:

…I am still an undocumented immigrant.  And that means living a different kind of reality.  It means going about my day in fear of being found out.  It means rarely trusting people, even those closest to me, with who I really am…There are believed to be 11 million undocumented immigrants in the United States.  We’re not always who you think we are.  Some pick your strawberries or care for your children.  Some are in high school or college.  And some, it turns out, write news articles you might read.  I grew up here.  This is my home.  Yet even though I think of myself as an American and consider America my country, my country doesn’t think of me as one of its own.

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Attack is the reaction; I never think I have hit hard unless it rebounds.  –  Samuel Johnson

In physics, every action results in an equal and opposite reaction.  But in human relations, actions often result in vast overreactions.  Such was the case with Hollywood denizen Ashton Kutcher, who had a very public meltdown on Twitter  late last Wednesday night in response to a Village Voice article which criticized the spurious “child sex trafficking” mythology he and his wife have used to make themselves look like great humanitarians (a sadly typical practice in today’s Hollywood).  Kutcher apparently didn’t realize that newspaper reporters and others who have to work for a living actually go home at night rather than obsessively checking Twitter 24 hours a day, because he spat out one message after another, apparently growing increasingly angry that nobody from Village Voice was responding to his ranting.

The next morning, reporters responded while Kutcher was apparently still asleep, offering to check the “facts” Kutcher claimed to have to support his trafficking mythology; they also asked him “Is money for ‘awareness’ programs that whip up fervor over mythical numbers really better than actual treatment for homeless teens?” and stated, “Here’s why @aplusk’s mythical sex slave numbers matter: activists use them to target legal adult freedoms, not underlying teen problems.”  When Kutcher eventually awoke, he obviously had no reasonable answers and therefore launched into another tirade, this time “tweeting” to several large Village Voice advertisers (namely American Airlines, Domino’s Pizza and Disney),” “Hey @AmericanAir are you aware that you are advertising on a site that supports the Sale of Human Beings (slavery)?” and “Hey @disney @dominos Are you aware that you are advertising on a site that owns and operates a digital brothel?”  As if that “digital brothel” crack weren’t enough to convince you of Kutcher’s real prohibitionist agenda, try this one on for size: “Hey @villagevoice speaking of data, maybe you can help me… How much $ did your ‘escorts’ in you classifieds on backpage make last year?” and “Hey @villagevoice speaking of Data… How many of your girls selling themselves in your classifieds are you doing age verification on?”  The snide tone and prohibitionist jargon is very telling, and since Ashton feels compelled to put scare quotes around the name of my profession I’ll return the favor:  Hey Ashton, why is it OK for you, your wife and other “actors” to make millions playing sex workers, but not for us to make tens or hundreds of thousands actually being sex workers?

American Airlines folded to pressure from this “actor” immediately, withdrawing its advertising from Village Voice at Ashton’s command, and Domino’s appears to be thinking about it.  Radley Balko of The Agitator cancelled his American Airlines bonus miles credit card as soon as he found out about it, and I call upon my readers to not only boycott American Airlines but to send them emails explaining why you’re doing so; Domino’s needs to be similarly admonished against obedience to narcissistic, megalomaniacal “actors” lest they follow suit.  And please, ask others of like mind to join us; it’s about damned time people understand that almost 450,000 American whores and 6.78 million regular customers can no longer be ignored, marginalized and demonized.

Backlash against prohibitionist lies is well-established in Europe; on July 3rd I referenced Laura Agustín’s report that public funds from European countries in which prostitution is legal had been squandered  on a ridiculous ad campaign promoting the “Swedish Model” for all of Europe.  Well, apparently at least some people in high places had similar opinions, because on the same day I published that column, Agustín reported that the following question was submitted to the European Parliament last Friday (July 1st):

Can the Commission explain if EU funds have been used directly or indirectly to finance an abolitionist “Campaign to put an end to prostitution in Europe” and “Together for a Europe Free from Prostitution”, promoting a “Europe free from prostitution” and calling on “individuals, national governments and the European Union to take concrete actions”, substantially on the basis of the Swedish model of legislation on the issue and with the aim of abolishing prostitution, which is presented as a form of violence against women?  Have notably Progress funds been used for this?  If so, can it explain how EU funds can be used to promote a certain legislative model, notably on a matter where Member States have different policies and sensitivities on the matter?  If EU funds have been directly or indirectly used, if a campaign is launched to legalize prostitution and sex work or to promote a different legislative model, would the same EU funds be eligible for it?  If not, why?  Will the Commission request that EU funds are given back, if the campaign is funded without the Commission knowledge?

Agustín points out that the current European Commissioner for Home Affairs is Swedish, and has made her anti-whore bias clear in recent speeches; it will be interesting to see if these prohibitionists either get their comeuppance or (even better) be forced to fund a series of pro-decriminalization ads as the above-quoted question proposes.  Incidentally, while you’re on Laura’s site you might read her comments on the whole Ashton Kutcher thing; regular readers may remember that Kutcher and other “actors” living out a fantasy of expertise rudely and childishly insulted Laura (a real expert on migrant labor and sex work) at a BBC event last December, thus once again demonstrating their monumental hubris and even more monumental cluelessness.

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Prostitution is one of the oldest vices of the human race, and civilized communities have been experimenting with its control for centuries.  The only definite conclusion that has been reached is that it is likely to exist as long as the passions of the human beings remain what they are today.  –  Victor Houston, in his report to Congress on prostitution in Honolulu

Though the early 20th century social purity movement came to Hawaii as to every other place there were Americans, the anti-whore laws it spawned were never strictly enforced.  This is partly due to the fact that neither the natives nor the sizable Asian minority saw prostitution as a “social evil” as the puritanical whites did, and the wealthy planters at the top of white society wanted hookers available to protect their daughters from being raped or seduced by laborers or American sailors.  As in many other places and times, the police were therefore given the power to “regulate” prostitution in Honolulu, and they did so by establishing a series of practices so Draconian they eventually led to the collapse of the system.

Only brothel prostitution was allowed; independent whoring of any kind was strictly suppressed, and of course the madams had no objection because that meant all girls had to work for them (just as in modern Nevada).  Every passenger ship which arrived in Honolulu was met by the police vice squad, and any unescorted woman was assumed to be a prostitute; she was fingerprinted, registered and given a copy of the “Ten Commandments” she was expected to obey:

She may not visit Waikiki Beach or any other beach except Kailua Beach [across the mountains from Honolulu].
She may not patronize any bars or better class cafes.
She may not own property or an automobile.
She may not have a steady “boyfriend” or be seen on the streets with any men.
She may not marry service personnel. 
She may not attend dances or visit golf courses.
She may not ride in the front seat of a taxicab, or with a man in the back seat.
She may not wire money to the mainland without permission of the madam.
She may not telephone the mainland without permission of the madam.
She may not change from one house to another.  She may not be out of the brothel after 10:30 at night.

The police enforced these rules by beatings and threatened eviction from the islands.  Though working in Honolulu was lucrative ($30,000 or more per year at a time most women were lucky to make $2000), most girls could only handle it for about six months, and when they left the islands they were not permitted to return for at least a year.

Originally most brothels (or “boogie houses” as they were called locally) were in the Iwilei district, but they were later forced to relocate to Hotel Street and a few adjoining parts of Chinatown.  They were a normal and accepted part of Hawaiian life; there was no stigma attached to men who patronized them, and most wives even accepted their husbands’ going there for the rational reasons we’ve discussed here many times.  When Naval ships came in, the lines at the brothels literally stretched down the block, and contemporary accounts describe Honolulu housewives passing unconcernedly through the lines to reach the businesses beyond them.  The going rate was $2.00 (a full day’s wages) for locals and $3.00 for servicemen; most businesses had two separate doors and waiting areas because, due to pervasive racist attitudes of the time, white sailors did not like to think they were being served by the same girls who attended to the Asian locals.  During the Second World War, the demand from servicemen grew so large that most of the better brothels on Hotel Street simply stopped seeing local men altogether.  To speed things along, a “bull pen” system was instituted:  Hawaiian matrons guarded the doors, turning away any man who was drunk or looked like a troublemaker.  Each then paid his fee and received a poker chip, then waited for an available room where he undressed and waited for the whore who was working in the next room; she would come in, collect her chip, inspect him for signs of venereal disease, quickly wash him and do her work.  He had three minutes to achieve release, after which she said “aloha” and was off to the next room while he washed up and got dressed.  Most brothels required girls to see at least 100 men a day and to work at least 20 days per month, but despite this enormous volume there were only about 166 cases of sexually transmitted disease per year in the entire prostitute population (a number some clueless historians have called “extremely high” when it in fact represents an infinitesimal percentage of the tremendous number of clients).

The “bull pen” system is said to have been the brainchild of Jean O’Hara, a gutsy Irish Catholic native of Chicago.  After the attack on Pearl Harbor in December of 1941, many prostitutes fled back to the mainland and many others volunteered to nurse wounded men, lowering the available supply just as the demand increased; O’Hara and many of the other girls used the situation to leverage better working conditions for themselves.  First they raised the price to $5.00, but Major Frank Steer, the Army officer in charge of vice under martial law, vetoed that and enforced the $3.00 price.  They then began to flout the old rules, going out in public as they wished and enjoying their earnings for the first time.  The police chief, William Gabrielson, was furious; how dare these dirty whores flout his regime and pretend to be real people!  He complained to General Emmons, the military governor, who told him he didn’t care what the hookers did as long as they were happy, because happy whores meant happy troops.  But Gabrielson couldn’t stand his little dictatorship being threatened, so he ordered his men to continue business as usual (and more brutally).  In April, 1942 they evicted four prostitutes from a house in Waikiki, and the women complained to Captain Benson of the military police.  Benson told them the civilian police didn’t run things any more, and they could do as they liked; when Gabrielson heard this he was livid and announced to the Honolulu Star-Bulletin that he was officially turning control of vice over to the military.  Emmons was of course forced by Washington to deny this, and officially returned control to Gabrielson while at the same time ordering the MPs to protect the prostitutes from Gabrielson’s uniformed hooligans.

O’Hara, realizing the tenuousness of the whores’ position, instigated a strike which endured for three weeks in July of 1942, demanding the basic human rights of American citizens.  The prostitutes pointed out that their work was vital to the war effort, and they had already collectively purchased $132,000 in war bonds.  The establishment was humiliated and the newspapers were ordered not to print a word about the strike, but obviously something had to be done so General Emmons, in a Solomonic maneuver, made a very calm and diplomatic appeal to Gabrielson to rescind the movement and residence restrictions, in return for which the military agreed to take over the weekly health and hygiene inspections.  Gabrielson had little choice but to comply, and the whores were afterward free to move about the island as they pleased.  O’Hara took advantage of this to carry out a real estate scam; she would buy a house in a genteel neighborhood and then let it be known what she did for a living, at which point she would be promptly bought out at a considerable profit by bluenosed neighbors.

Eventually, however, she pushed too hard; in 1944 she published a popular book entitled My Life As a Honolulu Prostitute (later republished as Honolulu Harlot).  Since the Japanese were in retreat and the islands no longer in danger, martial law had been lifted and a new ruling elite decided that Hawaii would never win statehood if most Americans thought of them as backward “natives”; O’Hara’s book called unwelcome attention to an institution now regarded as an embarrassment, and a “concerned citizens” group published a map showing the addresses of every registered prostitute in Honolulu so as to provoke a witch-hunt.  The police forcibly evicted prostitutes from their homes and returned them to the brothels, and territorial governor Ingram Stainback sent letters to all the high military officials informing them that prostitution was illegal and asking if they approved of the regulated brothel system.  Obviously they could not admit that openly, and so stood by while the police closed the brothels on September 22nd, 1944 and all of the whores were either forcibly evicted from the islands or harassed until they either left or managed to evade police surveillance.  Apparently, Chief Gabrielson soon missed the “good old days” of bullying hookers, because he eventually retired from his position to serve as a “consultant” to the Tokyo police department in catering to U.S. military demands for increased control of prostitutes.

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We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness. — That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed, — That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness.  Prudence, indeed, will dictate that Governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shewn that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed.  But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object evinces a design to reduce them under absolute Despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such Government, and to provide new Guards for their future security.  –  from The Declaration of Independence

Two hundred and thirty-five years ago today the Second Continental Congress adopted the Declaration of Independence, originally written by Thomas Jefferson and then modified by the assembled Congress into the form which was actually signed.  It was the carefully-considered reaction to a long series of grievances which had been building for thirteen years, most prominently a dramatic increase in taxation and increasingly-harsh suppression of the civil rights of the American colonists.  For almost a century (since the Glorious Revolution of 1688) the accepted view in England was that Parliament was supreme throughout the Empire; in other words, that anything Parliament did was ipso facto constitutional because there was no higher authority.  But the American revolutionaries, inspired by the philosophy of John Locke, held that government is a social contract between the governor (king, parliament or whatever) and the governed, which granted the right of rule as long as the government upheld its end of the contract.  And though the government has the right to establish laws and make other decisions as it sees fit, some rights are unalienable, that is they are inherent in all humans from Nature or God, and no government has the right to unduly restrict or abrogate those rights without just cause.  Parliament was therefore not supreme but limited by its unwritten social contract with the people; the Declaration pronounced that Parliament and the King had violated that contract and enumerated the ways in which they had done so.

The words of the Declaration’s second paragraph (quoted above) set forth this philosophy with admirable clarity, and what reasonable and moral person could disagree?  The rights of every person to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness are, as the Declaration avers, self-evident, as is the right of a group of people to choose the government which works for them.  This paragraph is followed by a long section describing the ways in which the Congressional representatives held that King George III had broken the social contract and thereby made the colonists’ rebellion not merely a right but a duty; here are a few important examples from this section:

He has erected a multitude of New Offices, and sent hither swarms of Officers to harass our people and eat out their substance…

He has affected to render the Military independent of and superior to the Civil Power…

For quartering large bodies of armed troops among us:

For protecting them, by a mock Trial from punishment for any Murders which they should commit on the Inhabitants of these States…

For imposing Taxes on us without our Consent:

For depriving us in many cases, of the benefit of Trial by Jury…

In colonial times, laws were upheld by elected officials (sheriffs, constables and the like) employing deputies or the local militia when necessary; citizens largely protected themselves, and the only American city with a standing police force was Philadelphia (and it was quite small).  By the time of the War Between the States only a handful of large cities had such forces, and like sheriff’s deputies they dressed in plain clothes and had no formal ranks.  But in the latter half of the 19th century police forces grew far more numerous and assumed a paramilitary character, with uniforms and ranks but lacking the regimentation and strict discipline of a true military organization.  The Social Purity movement spawned a vast proliferation of laws, and by the beginning of the 20th century police were routinely dispatched against citizens who only a few years before would have been considered completely law-abiding.  Both the powers given police and the gap between them and other citizens continued to expand as the century wore on and the number and intrusiveness of laws proliferated, and at some point police began to routinely refer to non-cops as “civilians”…ignoring the fact that they, too, are civilians, as they answer to the civil authority.  The last shift came with the inflation of the “War On Drugs” in the 1980s, and federal grants now allow police departments across the country to purchase automatic weapons, armored vehicles, grenades and other military hardware, which they then use against American citizens who have harmed no one.  Police departments have become increasingly militarized, and have been granted unprecedented powers to invade homes, brutalize and murder citizens, steal their property and abrogate their rights in violation of the Constitution and every law of common sense and decency.  The police have become, in short, a vast, decentralized, undisciplined army which is not subject to any law, nor are individual cops held responsible for any crimes they commit.

The federal government has in recent decades erected a multitude of new offices, and sent out swarms of officers to harass the people and eat out ever-increasing portions of the GDP.

The police army has been rendered independent of and superior to local, state and federal laws.

They are heavily armed and quartered among us in every neighborhood.

They are protected by mock trial from punishment for any murders or other crimes which they should commit on the inhabitants of the states.

Every year, new taxes, fees and unfunded mandates are imposed on us without our consent.

Many federal offenses are tried before a judge rather than a jury, or else juries are hand-picked and then kept ignorant of salient facts of the cases; or citizens are falsely accused of such heinous crimes, with such disproportionate penalties and necessitating such outrageously expensive defenses, that those accused of them simply plead guilty in return for a lesser sentence.  Also, property stolen by the state under ever-expanding “asset forfeiture” laws is not returned even if its rightful owner is never charged with a crime.  Each of these procedures essentially deprives its victim of the benefit of trial by jury.

Jefferson’s words are clear, and just as self-evident as they were in 1776:  “whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness…when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object evinces a design to reduce them under absolute Despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such Government, and to provide new Guards for their future security.”

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There will never be a really free and enlightened State until the State comes to recognize the individual as a higher and independent power, from which all its own power and authority are derived, and treats him accordingly.  –  Henry David Thoreau

Three more examples of the suppression of individual freedom (by two governments and a huge corporation), plus a fourth item just for fun and a correction.

Creating Criminals (January 15th, 2011)

For reasons which include the fall of the Iron Curtain and the rise of Islamic fundamentalism, Western nations in general (and the U.S. in particular) have begun to develop considerable anxiety about people who cross borders without jumping through all of the hoops so beloved by bureaucrats.  As I previously discussed, the hysterias about “human trafficking” and “illegal aliens” are actually one and the same thing, so it’s no surprise that unconstitutionally-broad, civil-rights-trampling legislation on both subjects have become politically popular at the same time.  But as the State of Georgia has recently discovered to its chagrin, when one turns large numbers of people into criminals with the stroke of a pen, there are often side effects one hadn’t considered:

After enacting…a law designed to drive illegal immigrants out of Georgia, state officials appear shocked to discover that [it] is, well, driving a lot of illegal immigrants out of Georgia…Thanks to the resulting labor shortage, Georgia farmers have been forced to leave millions of dollars’ worth of blueberries, onions, melons and other crops unharvested and rotting in the fields.  It has also put state officials into something of a panic at the damage they’ve done to Georgia’s largest industry.

Barely a month ago…Gov. Nathan Deal welcomed the TV cameras into his office as he proudly signed…[the] law.  Two weeks later, with farmers howling, a scrambling Deal ordered a hasty investigation into [its] impact…as if all this had come as quite a surprise to him…According to [a] survey of 230 Georgia farmers…[they will] need more than 11,000 workers…over the rest of the season…In response, Deal proposes that farmers try to hire the 2,000 unemployed criminal probationers estimated to live in southwest Georgia…

As an editorial in the Valdosta Daily Times notes, “Maybe this should have been prepared for, with farmers’ input.  Maybe the state should have discussed the ramifications with those directly affected.  Maybe the immigration issue is not as easy as ‘send them home,’ but is a far more complex one in that maybe Georgia needs them, relies on them, and cannot successfully support the state’s No. 1 economic engine without them.”  According to the survey, more than 6,300 of the unclaimed jobs pay an hourly wage of…roughly $8 an hour…[and] few…include benefits…the truth is that even if all 2,000 probationers in the region agreed to work at those rates and stuck it out — a highly unlikely event, to put it mildly — it wouldn’t fix the problem.

…Deal’s pledge to find “viable and law-abiding solutions” to the problem that he helped create seems naively far-fetched.  Again, if such solutions existed, they should have been put in place before the bill ever became law, because this impact was entirely predictable and in fact intended…Georgia farmers could try to solve the manpower shortage by offering higher wages…[but that] would drive up their operating costs and put them…at a severe price disadvantage against competitors in states without such tough immigration laws…People are going to lose their crops, and in some cases their farms.  The small-town businesses that supply those farms with goods and services are going to suffer as well.  For economically embattled rural Georgia, this could be a major blow…

An AP follow-up story describes the predictable results of the astonishingly stupid idea that 2000 lazy Americans can take the place of 11,000 industrious Latinos.  The War on Whores has unplanned effects just as the War on Migrants does, but few of those effects are as sudden and dramatic as crippling a major sector of the economy practically overnight.

The Swedish Disease Spreads (February 16th, 2011)

Who needs government censorship when media companies will do it for you?  In this June 24th column from the Times-Colonist, Jody Paterson describes how Google has encouraged anti-prostitution activists in Ireland while censoring those campaigning for human rights:

…Ten escorts launched “Turn Off the Blue Light” this year, responding to a major campaign in Ireland to outlaw the last legal vestiges of prostitution.  The anti-prostitution campaign is called “Turn off the Red Light.”  The escorts picked their name as an allusion to the blue lights on Ireland’s police cars, and the impact of criminalization…The Red Light campaign – a coalition of 39 religious groups, unions, non-profits, feminist organizations, political parties and so on – is pushing for Ireland to follow Sweden…Desperate to be heard on the subject, a few Dublin escorts and supporters struck up their own small rights campaign and bought a Google AdWord – those paid links that you’ve probably noticed at the top of some of your Google searches.  The ad linked to the Blue Light website…[and] said:  “Turn off the Blue Light:  Sex workers in Ireland need human rights, not legal wrongs.”  It ran for several weeks without issue.  But in May, Google yanked the ad, having suddenly decided the content was an “egregious violation” of company ad policy…[against] selling adult sexual services…Blue Light isn’t selling sexual services.  It’s campaigning for human rights…As if to add insult, the company then sold an AdWord to a religious organization leading a campaign against sex trafficking in Ireland…

I guess concern for human rights is more than we can expect from Google, which until it came under fire from rights groups last year was only too happy to whore itself to the Chinese government by censoring search results.

Creeping Rot (April 18th, 2011)

Ireland isn’t the only country under attack by anti-whore fanatics; as I reported in this column the Swedish Model is spreading like gangrene across Europe, and the European Commission has “recommended” it for all European countries and wasted public funds on an ad campaign which can only be described as “ridiculous”.  On June 19th Laura Agustín wrote:

…By what twisted logic did the European Women’s Lobby decide that a film of a man pretending to lick a series of pussies would work to discourage other men from paying to lick pussies or have their own parts licked, or both?  The incoherency of this End Demand product is mind-boggling.  The EWL, as noted not long ago in a post about European anti-prostitution trends, has been running a Together for a Europe Free From Prostitution campaign, despite the fact that some members of the EU legally permit and regulate some branches of the sex industry…In the one-minute video, the man (meant to be a sex worker though he looks anything but) doing the licking acts out feeling sickened by it.  He brushes his teeth a lot.  In contrast, the women throwing themselves back on his bed look quite pleased.  Just how is this meant to discourage men from paying for sex?…the psychology of this campaign certainly shows how anti-sex the campaigners are.

Take a look at the video and then ask yourself what kind of mind would actually believe it would discourage men from hiring hookers.

Another Super Bowl Invasion (May 18th, 2011)

Maybe the crows are in cahoots with the grackles:

…Crows have been attacking police in the parking lot of a [suburban Seattle] police… station.  They’ve been swooping down and dive-bombing the officers as they walk to and from their cars.  Lt. Bob Johns said he recently was flanked by the aggressive birds and “got zinged.”  “They’re like velociraptors,” Johns said.  One officer used his siren to try to scare away the crows, but it didn’t work.  The birds responded by decorating his car with droppings, The Daily Herald reported.  State Fish and Wildlife Department biologist Ruth Milner said the birds are simply protecting baby crows that have been kicked out of the nest and are learning to fly.  Adult crows are quite protective of their young — a common trait among larger birds and birds of prey.  “All they’re doing is defending their nest,” Milner said.  She noted crows also can recognize people’s individual features.  And they hold grudges.  “If your cops have done something that (the crows) perceive as a threat, they could be keying in on them because they’re all wearing the same kind of uniform,” Milner said…

“Velociraptors” indeed.  Obviously cops feel compelled to exaggerate the threat of 500-gram birds just as they do everything else.

In Their Own Words (June 10th, 2011)

Regular reader Friend called my attention to the fact that the Catharine MacKinnon quote “All sex, even consensual sex between a married couple, is an act of violence perpetrated against a woman,” is a misattribution from the October 1986 issue of Playboy.  We do not need to lie about our enemies, so I replaced the incorrect quote with two properly-attested quotes.  My sincere apology to Professor MacKinnon for the error.

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When petty people get into power they consider themselves unexcelled in the world.  –  Chinese proverb

People who crave power are never satisfied with merely holding it; in order for their perversion to be satisfied they must wield it against others, preferably with destructive results, and when there are no more or less legitimate targets they simply attack peaceful non-criminals, never concerning themselves with whether their targets are actually hurting anyone.  The mere violation of an arbitrary rule is held to be sufficient grounds for persecution, often at great expense to the state and citizens, because the state’s authority must go unquestioned, no matter how inoffensive the target or how great the damage done by the exertion of such authority.

New Orleans’ Nasty Little “Sex Offender” Game (August 17th, 2010)

Regular readers know that prostitutes in Louisiana are routinely charged with the ludicrously-named “Crime Against Nature” felony in addition to simple prostitution, but while it’s generally dropped as part of a plea deal with white middle-class escorts like me it tends to stick for poor (especially black or transsexual) streetwalkers, who are then committed to the “sex offender” registry for decades (40% of Orleans Parish “sex offenders” are there for this non-crime).  In my column of February 26th I reported on a federal challenge (Doe vs. Jindal) to this law and mentioned that WWAV had other strategies for defeating it besides the court case.  Well, I can now tell you what I was asked to withhold in February:  One of those strategies was a legislative one, and it bore fruit Thursday (June 30th) as Governor Bobby Jindal signed a law reducing “solicitation for crime against nature” to a misdemeanor, thus removing the registration requirement.  The litigation must continue because everyone previously convicted is still classified as a felon, but considering the new law I think there’s a good chance the case will succeed and those who were victimized by the arbitrary pronouncements of little tin gods in the police and prosecutor’s offices will soon have a chance at a normal life again.  Congratulations to WWAV and its allies for this monumental victory over a two-century-old injustice!

Something Rotten in Sweden (November 13th, 2010)

Montgomery County, Maryland claims to be so concerned about the welfare of prostitutes that it is willing to infantilize us, construct elaborate and expensive schemes to violate our civil rights and those of our clients, and waste thousands of man-hours (and untold funds) in cruising hooker sites and writing libelous propaganda filled with weird rationalizations, distorted information and blatant lies.  But lest my readers believe this sick hatred is directed only at whores, I present this story which demonstrates that Montgomery County is committed to the suppression of all victimless crimes, no matter how small:

You can make a fortune selling parking spots outside the US Open, but don’t even dream of setting up a lemonade stand.  A county inspector ordered…kids to shut down the stand…and after they allegedly ignored a couple of warnings, the inspector fined their parents $500…Jennifer Hughes, the director of permitting for the county, says it’s technically illegal to run even the smallest lemonade stand…but inspectors usually don’t go looking for them.  She said this one was unusually large.  Hughes also says they’ve warned all kinds of other vendors they couldn’t operate near the US Open because of concerns about traffic and safety…What’s funny is that the county has given scores of other neighbors permits to let golf fans park on their front lawns.  The permits cost almost $300, but prices per car run as much as $60 a day.  And some neighbors are reportedly raking in tens of thousands of dollars…

The bad publicity of course resulted in the county backpedaling on the stand and waiving the fine, which demonstrates exactly why sex workers and those who support us need to keep calling attention to the rampant abuses committed against us by the police, such as in the following item:

Social Autoimmune Disorder (January 12th, 2011)

In this article I pointed out that societies, like individual creatures, sometimes develop disorders in which “the systems which were meant to protect society from invaders or other troublesome organisms are instead turned against some of its own systems, sometimes even vital systems.”  The column mentioned the new and legally troubling trend of police violating the First Amendment by charging the owners of escort websites for “facilitating prostitution” via escort ads on their sites, despite the fact that “courts around the country have held that advertisements posted on a host website are merely ‘republished’ material, with the host having no responsibility for the ads’ contents.”  This form of persecution has been tried before and failed, but police don’t care because:  1) it isn’t their money they’re wasting; 2) though the website owner will prevail, it will cost him a great deal and inflict tremendous suffering, which is what the police enjoy most; and 3) they may be able to trick or frighten some escorts and clients into revealing themselves.  The most recent example appears in this June 20th story from KOB-TV in Albuquerque, New Mexico:

New Jersey…physics professor David Flory thought he had a fool-proof operation.  Access to his website, “Southwest Companions,” was highly restricted.  Officials said only clients that were verified by prostitutes could gain access…”Once you became a trusted member you had access to reviews of the girls…where they would actually write reviews of the girls they’ve slept with, what acts they would commit, how much their pricing,” [APD Lt. William] Roseman said.  Six months ago, a prostitute working with Flory gave investigators a tip [which] investigators used…to become a trusted member [sic] of the website…prostitutes worked with police to make sure Flory believed the agents were trustworthy clients.  After six months of undercover work, investigators got trusted status and were able to access all the information on the site.  Then agents got a tip that Flory was headed to New Mexico on website business.  “We had enough information to do the…warrants…so we began tracking him once he arrived in New Mexico and…Sunday…he was having coffee at a Starbucks when the two detectives walked behind him,” Roseman stated.  As police arrested Flory, they saw that he was logged online to his site, “Southwest Companion,” [sic] on his phone.  “He told us that he wanted a secure site for people to ‘hobby’ that they did not have to worry about law enforcement.  So he intentionally set this up as a site to have prostitution occur without the fear of law enforcement taking over,” Roseman explained.

According to police, most of the 1,400 clients are from New Mexico, mainly the Albuquerque and Santa Fe areas.  Police said they are working to identify those clients and their names could be made public through court documents related to the case.  Officials are telling those who used prostitutes through the site to come forward before authorities knock at their homes or work.  Investigators said 200 of the prostitutes linked to the site are from Albuquerque.  Many of them charged a minimum of $250.00 for sex acts.  Florey [sic] is being held on $100,000 cash only or surety bond.

Professor David Flory

Regular readers have seen enough of these stories by now to recognize the typical features, such as the phrasing of ordinary actions as nefarious:  “what acts they would commit” rather than “what services they offered” (as in the phrase, “she committed manicure on my hands”), and even better “he intentionally set this up” (as opposed to most people, who set up their websites by accident).  Then there’s the reporter’s gloating over others’ misfortunes (see the first line) and the cops’ masturbatory bragging about their “investigation” and the downplaying of the bullying and deception used to further it; the story claims “a prostitute working with Flory” (i.e. advertising on the site) “gave investigators a tip” (i.e. she was arrested and interrogated in a back room, then threatened with having her kids taken away and other monstrous violations until she agreed to act as a Judas goat).  And of course there’s the typical cop strutting and throwing around empty threats, the weird passive-voice constructions like “have prostitution occur”, and the goofy puritanisms such as “used prostitutes” and “charged for sex acts”.  But the last and most important feature of just about every online story about a prostitution bust these days is the comment thread, featuring a few vulgar responses from cretins about “selling our bodies”, “spreading disease”, “forced by pimps”, etc…and many, many more from citizens wondering why public funds are wasted in pursuit of misdemeanors while loose-cannon cops are free to go around shooting people in the back (and bragging about it on the internet) without fear of repercussions for their crimes.

In the second half of the June 28th episode of Out FM, Liz Coplen of SWOP and Jill McCracken of SWWB discuss the Flory Case at length.

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