
The apparent path of the sun reaches its southernmost point at 16:28 UTC today, making this the shortest day of the year in the Northern Hemisphere and the longest day of the year in the Southern. This is a time for remembrance, renewal and rebirth; I wish for all my readers the blessings of the season, and pray that all of you get all you hope for in the new year. Blessed Be!
Archive for December, 2017
Yule 2017
Posted in Holidays, tagged holidays, paganism on December 21, 2017| 4 Comments »
Twitterpated
Posted in Miscellaneous, tagged Acting and Activism, advertising, bisexuality, censorship, comics, cops, dating, FBI, imaginative fiction, language, lawheads, left-right myth, neofeminism, pragmatism, sex work is work, Swedish model, Twitter on December 20, 2017| 3 Comments »
Do you follow my Twitter feed? You really ought to, and if you aren’t on Twitter you should join just to follow me. I mean, look at some of the cool tweets you’ve missed in the past week, and this is just a fraction:
Every time I see something like this, I'm even more glad I decided to be a whore. https://t.co/nZkH9KJjeT
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) December 15, 2017
1) Leave amateurs alone.
2) Find an escort you like, submit to her screening, pay her.
3) Repeatedly call her attractive for the entire length of the booking if you want.This ain't rocket science, guys. It's not your sexuality under threat here; it's your fantasy of free sex. https://t.co/ZleZAbMl1I
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) December 14, 2017
Ask sex workers how much difference there is between the parties when it comes to sending violent thugs to rape us and destroy our income.
Then ask pot users and chronic pain patients how much difference there is when supporting the brutal, racist drug war & mass incarceration. https://t.co/gMcNNcCGts
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) December 14, 2017
So, you were a "child" at 15? You had a tiny penis & no body hair? You couldn't have gotten a girl pregnant? Couldn't perform adult cognitive functions? Couldn't drive or read a newspaper? You still rode in a car seat?
Really?"Legal minor" ≠ "child"
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) December 15, 2017
"Anarchists" means people like me. "Traffickers" means ordinary sex workers & clients. "Organized crime" means the dude you buy your weed from in most states. "Traitors who sell secrets" means people like @Snowden.
There's a "disgrace" here all right, and it's the FBI. https://t.co/KkxIR6sWtf
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) December 16, 2017
A talking toaster is still a toaster.
A toaster with a feminine-sounding voice or name is still a toaster.
A toaster that you pretend is female is still a toaster.
A toaster has no sex.
A genderless machine cannot be "harassed". It exists to do a job, not promote politics. https://t.co/29DWCqrlaZ— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) December 16, 2017
Good. Let's hope neither of the filthy prohibitionist douchebags ever works again.
And the same goes for all "actresses" who campaign for OTHER WOMEN to be subjected to rape, robbery, caging & shaming by the pigs. https://t.co/6X4Cqspgae
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) December 16, 2017
This is what allowing government to "regulate" things gets you. https://t.co/EaspepXVw2
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) December 16, 2017
Been putting off calling me for a date? Arrange one by January 6th and get a generous Christmas discount! meetmaggie [at] earthlink [dot] net. Serious inquiries only, PLEASE! pic.twitter.com/oyp0xLsXvj
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) December 16, 2017
My Maman gave me this comic book when it was new, despite my mother's dislike of my reading horror.
I still miss her so much. https://t.co/aGGHw6LCa8 https://t.co/eiHD1rZ1mf
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) December 16, 2017
Damn, @LindseyStirling is cute. I would definitely not kick her out of bed for eating crackers.
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) December 17, 2017
I'm sure sexual assault charges in the military would decrease if we dramatically downsized the military & stopped needlessly sending young people of any sex into deeply traumatizing life-and-death situations. https://t.co/3544ZGPJ4s
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) December 17, 2017
Every time I see a fellow whore talk about amateur dating, I'm a little bit more relieved that I've never tried it.
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) December 17, 2017
My first crush was Mrs. Emma Peel on "The Avengers". Which, I think, explains a lot.
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) December 18, 2017
She likes pretending to be sex-positive, when in reality she is and always has been a dried-up prude.
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) December 19, 2017
Except that there's still money in "Star Trek". It's referenced often in TOS, fairly often in NG, & constantly in DS9.
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) December 19, 2017
It's easy to get to the 7th circle; all you need to do is kill yourself. Getting any deeper requires initiative.
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) December 19, 2017
The Swedish model, as practiced in Canada & elsewhere, is literally the opposite of a harm reduction approach. https://t.co/l3MZljNni8 It is specifically intended to harm sex workers in hopes of forcing us into low-paid & degrading menial labor. https://t.co/84aXX7EKmR
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) December 19, 2017
Really, ladies, y'all need to be charging instead of giving it for free to jealous losers who want to keep you down. https://t.co/bULSnPOx2o
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) December 20, 2017
Qui cum canibus concumbunt cum pulicibus surgent. https://t.co/WqJsFmF6ot
— Maggie McNeill (@Maggie_McNeill) December 20, 2017
Make sure you click on the links. What are you waiting for?
Diary #390
Posted in Diary, Miscellaneous, tagged advertising, California, holidays on December 19, 2017| Leave a Comment »
It’s the holidays again, and that means my schedule is all over the place (though in a not-necessarily-bad way). Y’all may have noticed my latest news and links columns weren’t in their usual places; that was necessary to make room for the holidays and other special occasions, but it’ll be back to normal after the Yuletide season ends on January 6th. I’ll be at Sunset for a few days at Christmas and again at New Year, and then Lorelei and I are going on a short vacation in January, but by mid-January everything should be settling back down. Several of you have asked me when I’m coming down to California again, and I’m not sure of the date but probably late winter (February or early March); keep your eyes on these diary columns and I’ll announce the dates when I get them. Of course, I’m also available to make a trip just to see you if you like; the minimum appointment length must at least be equal to my round-trip travel time, which basically means an overnight appointment if you’re more than four hours from Seattle by air. However, I do have a Yuletide special running until January 6th which could save you a good bit on that if you’re willing to pay in advance (or if you’re a subscriber to this blog). As always, serious inquiries only, please, and Happy Holidays to all of you!
In the News (#798)
Posted in Current Events, Miscellaneous, News, Perception, Tyranny, tagged Advice for Clients, agency denial, All-Purpose Excuse, animals, bad customers, Banishment, BDSM, brothels, California, Catastrophic Consequences, censorship, cops, dirty, disease, Florida, Halfway Updates, halfway whores, homosexuality, hysteria, Illinois, internet, Ireland, law, Madonna/whore, Malaysia, neofeminism, New York, No Escape, Oklahoma, porn, prisons, Prudish Pedants, rape, rescue industry, Sales Pitch, See No Evil, sex offender registry, sex rays, sex work is work, shame, Shame Shame, Sweden, Swedish model, The Mote and the Beam, The Scarlet Letter, Torture Chamber, transgender, With Friends Like These on December 18, 2017| 8 Comments »
The guns of oppression are aimed at the friendless before they swing to the connected and moneyed. – Guy Hamilton-Smith
Miranda Kane on how NOT to deal with a sex worker:
…Don’t ask questions like…”Is this your only job?” Sex work is many people’s full time profession…Do not ask for a discount on the promise you’ll become a regular customer…Don’t send a picture of your dick…Contact us in the correct manner…turn up on time…
A petition was begun by former art history major Mia Merrill to censor (though she doesn’t see this as censorship) this painting because it sexualized a child. Balthus painted something wrong…censorship is precisely what she’s asking for, even if she says she’s not…No doubt Merrill’s belief that her feelings are righteous justify her authority to scold the Met, not to mention Balthus, since it’s outrageous that he should paint something that offends her sensibilities…censors can’t bear the idea that something that offends them isn’t somehow subject to their control, so they…tell the world how literally awful it is while assuaging their conscience that they’re not really censors. To its credit, the Met has told them to suck eggs…If it’s offensive, then people will see it and find it offensive. No one needs a scold to tell them so…
Sex is a primary need…and because of that, sex work is…one of the oldest professions on the planet…Malaysia is not a country that people around the world would associate with prostitution. Nevertheless, it would seem that Malaysia is fast rising as one of the main destinations for sex tourism in Southeast Asia. Prostitution in Malaysia is illegal, but if you were to walk the streets of Kuala Lumpur, you will notice it is a thriving business…involved in layers of illegal activities such as organised crime, human trafficking, money laundering and even violent crimes…Sheril A. Bustaman…[of] PT Foundation…argued prostitution is a legitimate industry if owned and controlled by sex workers themselves…When the [Singapore] government legalised prostitution…brothels and their workers had to be registered and be given permits to operate…Sex workers are required to follow specific health procedures and are to be tested for sexually-transmitted diseases regularly…When the whole industry is regulated, it eliminates so many other actual undesirable crimes such as human trafficking…
Reporter Azlee is clearly an authority due to one conversation (in which he apparently didn’t listen very well) and is therefore far more qualified to opine on what sex workers need than, say, sex workers and human rights organizations, who all support decriminalization rather than “regulation”.
Another good argument against the evil of “sex offender” registration:
…despite a steady media diet of cops and robbers police procedurals, the rhetoric on crime policy has begun to shift. The [US] appears to be [losing]…our faith in imprisonment as an effective response to problems like drug addiction…Yet…one group of people continue to languish in the collective “harsher is better” mindset…forcing people to register as sex offenders “is what puritan judges would’ve done to Hester Prynne had laptops been available“…registries are rapidly proliferating and becoming an increasingly popular back-end tool for feeding people into the carceral state…
Lawyers are seeking a federal court order of protection for a transgender prison inmate who [was repeatedly]…sexually assaulted for the entertainment of prison guards. Attorney Alan Mills of the Uptown People’s Law Center says…Strawberry Hampton…was forced to strip and…[blow] a cellmate for the entertainment of guards. “She eventually said I’m not going to do this anymore and reported them through…the Prison Rape Elimination Act…When the guards found out she had reported them, that’s when the abuse really escalated.” Including beatings, solitary confinement and the denial of food [sic]…
There’s a video of Gal Gadot having sex with her stepbrother on the internet. But it’s…an approximation, face-swapped to look like she’s performing in an existing incest-themed porn video. The video was created with a machine learning algorithm…and open-source code that anyone with a working knowledge of deep learning algorithms could put together…It’s especially striking considering that it’s allegedly the work of one person—a Redditor who goes by the name “deepfakes”—not a big special effects studio…this…shows that we’re on the verge of living in a world where it’s trivially easy to fabricate believable videos of people doing and saying things they never did. Even having sex…It isn’t difficult to imagine an amateur programmer running their own algorithm to create a sex tape of someone they want to harass…
“Even having sex” she says, as if that’s the worst thing this bird-brain can conceive of. The idea of, say, cops manipulating a body cam video to make it look as though a black man they murdered had pulled a gun on the cop, doesn’t even enter her sheltered little mind.
…Silicon Valley’s homogeneity has a more trivial side effect: boring holiday parties. A fete meant to retain all your talented engineers is almost certain to wind up with a rather same-y crowd, made up mostly of guys. At this year’s holiday parties, however, there’ll be a surprising influx of attractive women, and a few pretty men, mingling with the engineers. They’re being paid to. Local modeling agencies…say a record number of tech companies are quietly paying $50 to $200 an hour for each model hired solely to chat up attendees. For a typical party…the company…[makes] them sign nondisclosure agreements, and [gives] them names of employees to pretend they’re friends with, in case anyone asks why he’s never seen them around the foosball table…
Hey, picket-fence gays, are you ready to support sex workers yet?
Three [professional] sex-trafficking victims told their stories in a dramatic Tampa City Council meeting…to get support for a new city ordinance on bathhouses—a mammoth package of new occupational licensing requirements, record-keeping mandates, limits on hours of operation, and other rules…None of the victims…said they’d been exploited at a bathhouse. Indeed, local lawmakers failed to offer any evidence at all that sex trafficking is an issue at Tampa’s bathhouses…but “sex trafficking” has become such a magic invocation that politicians can use it to pass just about anything, no matter how unrelated to the law’s professed purposes. In this case, the city is using the specter of sex trafficking to collect new fees, take more control over local entrepreneurs, and make it much easier to shut down businesses they don’t like. And they had ample help from the D.C.-based Polaris Project, which receives massive amounts of federal funding…it’s unclear how [other] evidence presented—reviews of erotic massage parlors—relates to bathhouses in Tampa, other than that Polaris is trying to make that link. Tampa has entirely separate regulations regarding massage therapists and parlors…the new ordinance…would mainly apply to the combination sauna, gym, and social clubs that are a fixture of Tampa’s gay scene…
Sweden…wants to…[make] it illegal [for Swedes] to pay for sex abroad…even if this was done in countries where the practice is legal…This is already illegal under Swedish law, however Swedish courts are not able to issue punishments on paying for sex in countries where it is legal, and that’s what the government wants to change…
Oklahoma prohibitionists claim that HIV+ people emit sex rays as well:
Every time I think sex policing cannot hit a new low, the news delivers something like this story out of Broken Arrow, Oklahoma. After an arrested woman informed the police that she was HIV-positive, the cops decided to broadcast this information—along with her full name and photo—to all the local TV news stations. They also left letters on the subject on about 50 cars parked near…the…massage parlor where she worked…The woman…was booked for prostitution—a charge that was later dismissed—and knowingly spreading an infectious disease. Yet police present no evidence that she engaged in unprotected sex with customers—nor, for that matter, that she had…sexual intercourse, with or without a condom, with anyone…The reporters seemed less interested in questioning the cops’ story than in expressing shock that prostitution could possibly exist in their town. “There are two schools on the next block, and just around the corner, there’s a family neighborhood that’s decorated for Christmas,” Charles Ely reported at the local ABC affiliate…
Catastrophic Consequences (#576)
This sleazy tactic has spread from Canada to Scotland to England to Ireland:
An erotic masseuse [in Dublin] has been accused of setting her dog on a [disguised cop] who [represented his deception of a sex worker as] a “mission of mercy” to try to find out if she had been trafficked. Cristina Cristian is alleged to have assaulted the [garda] by unleashing her border collie Todd, which bit…Andrew O’Sullivan…[threatened] Christian and…her…girlfriend Elena Amuzan…and…[forced] Ms Amuzan…on the ground with her arm behind her back. Ms Cristian…was scared when she saw this, thought they were being robbed and opened the bathroom to get her phone to call Ms Amuzan’s parents. The dog had been locked inside and she did not realise it had got out. She said she only called out in Romanian for the dog to come back…
Steinem’s been peddling this malarkey since 1978, and I’ve been mocking it since at least 1984:
Pornhub has opened up a pop-up shop in New York City, where patrons can buy promotional merchandise and sex toys…through Dec. 20…[prohibitionist] Gloria Steinem has called the brick and mortar location a tactic to further promote sexual violence. Speaking at a Pornhub pop-up shop protest on [December 8th]…Steinem and tens of other [censors] called for New Yorkers to boycott the shop…“It is a hub that…we must realize is the source of the poison that is in our system,” Steinem said, [adding her oft-repeated nonsense]…that erotica is healthy but that mainstream porn was not healthy erotica, arguing that Pornhub normalizes the degradation of girls and women…[as part of] the protest’s press conference, Steinem and others marched into the store chanting, “Pornhub sells sexual violence,” as the feminist icon asked a store worker why the store was selling handcuffs and how those handcuffs were related to free will, democracy, or independent equality…
Anti-sex work kinksters: reread that last line, then maybe rethink your loyalties.
Another attempt by politicians to destroy the entire internet:
…Under a proposal from Rep. Bob Goodlatte…anyone posting or hosting digital content that leads to an act of prostitution could face serious federal prison time as well as civil penalties. This is obviously bad news for sex workers, but it would also leave digital platforms—including dating apps, social media, and classifieds sites such as Craigslist—open to serious legal liability for the things users post…it would give digital platforms a huge incentive to track and regulate user speech more closely…Ann…Wagner’s legislation (H.R. 1865) would open digital platforms to criminal and civil liability not just for future sex crimes that result from user posts or interactions but also for past harms…platforms that followed previous federal rules…would now be especially vulnerable to charges and lawsuits…Wagner’s bill doesn’t just stop at carving out a new Section 230 exception. It also creates a new crime, “benefitting from participation in a venture engaged in sex trafficking,” and makes it easy to hold all sorts of web platforms and publishers in violation…So in cases like, say, Hope Zeferjohn, the teen girl convicted of sex trafficking for talking to a younger teen on Facebook about prostitution, Facebook could be facing a federal charge for participating in a sex trafficking venture…
Against Violence
Posted in Perception, Tyranny, tagged agency denial, cops, end demand, holidays, politicians, rape, serial killers, sex work is work, violence vs. sex workers, Washington (state) on December 17, 2017| 1 Comment »
Under prohibition, my life, your life and the lives of everyone reading this are nothing but cheap, disposable and interchangeable objects with which “messages” can be sent to all the other pieces of human trash…and then crumpled up and thrown away. – “Sending Messages”
Every December 17th, sex workers around the world gather together to mourn our dead, killed by the violence that inevitably results from the prohibition which pushes our work into the shadows. The observance began on the eve of the sentencing of Gary Ridgeway, the Green River Killer, in 2003, and many of the sex workers subjected to violence (fatal or not) every year are still harmed by men like him, evil individuals emboldened by society’s pretense that we are expendable and the knowledge that the “authorities” aren’t going to work very hard to solve crimes committed against us. But a far larger fraction of the violence committed against sex workers is committed directly by armed agents of the state, often though not always under the excuse of “gathering evidence” for our “crime” of having impure thoughts about otherwise-legal sex. And even when cops aren’t directly raping, robbing and caging us, politicians intentionally encourage others to commit violence by passing laws specifically designed to make us desperate and define us specifically as subhuman creatures who can be brutalized with impunity. Seattle, where I live, is an especially striking case of these evil procedures: one would think that the “authorities” of the place where the Green River Killer hunted his victims would be especially aware of how criminalization harms women, but no; instead they work to destroy us indirectly by hunting our clients, while mouthing toxic propaganda about how we’re helpless victims. And so tonight, as I have for the past several years, I will keep vigil with my sisters in order to remember the victims of these vile policies, and to renew our pledge to keep fighting for a day in which our own society no longer brands us fair game.
Links #389
Posted in Current Events, Links, Miscellaneous, Music, Tyranny, tagged animals, cops, Georgia, Indiana, Minnesota, Things We Choose To Do Together, United Kingdom, video on December 16, 2017| Leave a Comment »
We feel bad. – Steve Linders, pig mouthpiece
Sadly, there just aren’t any good holiday videos any more. But this one features a toy choo-choo, so I guess it’s close enough (and the stunts are pretty impressive). The video was provided by Inspireland and the links above it by Brooke Magnanti (the first three), Eric Sprankle (“trash”), Cathy Reisenwitz (“guns”), and Mike Siegel (“sadistic”).
- I hate it when this happens.
- The Gregorian chant generator.
- I’m told it goes with everything.
- Cops sic vicious dog on woman for taking out trash.
- “Progressives” want cops to be the only people with guns.
- Government is just a word for the things we choose to do together.
- Because merely murdering people’s dogs isn’t sadistic enough any more.
From the Archives
- Sociopathic control freaks want to criminalize diddling with dolls in private.
- Next they’ll wonder why women working “illegally” increases dramatically.
- Cops, Sweden, the Pope, dinosaurs, Louisiana, Doctor Who & much more.
- US too busy forcing Thailand to raid brothels for nonexistent “sex slaves”.
- South African sex workers make impassioned pleas for decriminalization.
- These mental gymnastics would be Olympian if they weren’t so clownish.
- If a cop rapes you, say he paid you instead. THAT he’ll get in trouble for.
- “Feminist” reporter says women are too stupid to manage our own lives.
- Massage parlors take brunt of “sex trafficking” hysteria in smaller cities.
- So many cops rape whores, rapists often pose as cops to facilitate rape.
- The only flaw in this essay is that the author buys into the “pimp” myth.
- Probably more important than analyzing the “sexism” of her utterances.
- Canadian “authorities” nearly as obsessed with “trafficking” porn as US.
- No sillier than the anti-sex propaganda favored by Western charlatans.
- Sociopathic sheriff destroys innocent lives for his self-aggrandizement.
- I honestly couldn’t think of what other category I could put this under.
- The hopelessly-square Advocate is slowly coming around on sex work.
- Yet the government still won’t admit that the TSA attracts pedophiles.
- “Expert sex therapists” have never labelled “sex addiction” a disorder.
- Eva Keene on the larger implications of the persecution of Backpage.
- A remarkably revealing display of NPR’s total disregard for the truth.
- “Pizzagate” was a predictable outgrowth of “sex trafficking” hysteria.
- And you can bet they’re going to get help from civil liberties groups.
- What it’s like to be targeted by an “Operation Cross-Country” sting.
- Long-time readers may recall that I said this almost five years ago.
- I’m sure racist “sex trafficking” myths had nothing to do with this.
- When a guard coerces a prisoner into sex, it’s rape, not “barter”.
- Another good article about one of my heroines, Rachel Wotton.
- Indian feminists’ enlightenment puts American ones to shame.
- Celibacy erodes men’s judgment, sometimes until it vanishes.
- Homeless shelters ban women & children, because dirty sex.
- David Wraith: “Sexual abuse made me the person that I am.”
- Liz Brown is as suspicious of the Sherri Papini case as I am.
- Because one moral panic at a time isn’t enough any more.
- Reflecting on three years of dramatic changes in my life.
- Consensual crime laws enable predators, part umpteen.
- “We didn’t want to wait until there were actual victims.”
- An excellent December 17thcolumn by Clay Nikiforuk.
- Star Wars, pets, cops, predictability and much more.
- A disproportionate number of actual pimps are cops.
- A judge agrees that the law says what it says.
- My previous columns for December 17th.
- A porn performers’ bill of rights.
- When will journalists grow up?
- My January 2017 tour dates.
- The Hooker Monologues.
- Rapist cops of the week.
- A visit from Tara Burns.
Stalkers in Blue
Posted in Biography, Perception, Tyranny, tagged anecdote, cops, Louisiana, New Orleans, Oklahoma, rape, Stalkers in Blue, To Molest and Rape, violence vs. sex workers, Washington (state) on December 15, 2017| 4 Comments »
Every week, sometimes more than once per week, I share news reports of cops molesting, sexually harassing, sexually assaulting and even raping women and teen girls, and sometimes even men, boys or children. These reports appear on average every five days, but that’s only counting the incidents which are both reported and rise to the level of a crime; most rapes, molestations and other sexual misbehavior by cops falls short of an actual crime, and most of the crimes are not reported because most of the victims are wise enough to understand that their lives will be overturned and their affairs pried into by “investigators” with very little chance of the rapist cop suffering even the slightest consequences (unless you call a paid vacation a “consequence”). Most regular readers know that I myself was raped by cops in May of 1995, but today I’d like to share all of the other incidents of sexual harassment that, while they weren’t quite crimes (though a couple of them certainly constituted malfeasance and abuse), may give you an idea of how frequently cops try to apply sexual pressure of one kind or another on women. With the exception of the cops when I was arrested for prostitution in 2005, none of these knew I was a sex worker (and before September of ’97 I wasn’t, not full time anyway); they and others like them are out there in their tens of thousands, making life more difficult and scarier for any attractive woman who has the misfortune to cross their paths.
First, there was the one in my (small) home town who carried a grudge against me for over 10 years because I wouldn’t date him in high school; as an adult cop in the early ’90s he delighted in stalking me to give me tickets. It only stopped when he tried to frame me for an accident in which an elderly man ran a stop sign and slammed into my car; my mother was furious, so she went to the sheriff and reported him. That one had a happy ending; the sheriff actually refunded me the costs of several of the tickets the guy had written in the past year. But had the town been bigger and my mother not had a political connection that allowed her to gain the sheriff’s ear? Forget it. In the spring of 1989, a cop who had pulled me over on some dumbass excuse forced me to walk about 800 meters along a busy highway at night in pumps and a none-too-long skirt to the nearest service station to call a friend to come and get me and my car, which he wouldn’t let me drive because he claimed my license was suspended. I later discovered (when I contested the FOUR tickets he gave me) not only that it wasn’t, but that this cop had a long history of humiliating attractive young women (the tickets were dismissed because the DA & judge were so sick of hearing about him). Then on two separate occasions, both in the ’90s, state troopers pulled me over on I-10 and asked me for a date; the second one had the nerve to do it after he wrote me a ticket for some kind of bullshit like a burned-out brake light. That was the same excuse used by a cop in the town nearest my Oklahoma ranch to stop me not once but twice, about a month apart; after the second one I went straight to the police chief and told him if it happened again I’d know it was harassment and would not stay quiet about it. Surprise; it never happened again. Another pig in that same small town (< 20,000 people) stopped me for some BS on three separate occasions when I was out in my convertible. He never gave me a ticket, just wanted to gawk at the hot chick in the cool car, so I thought it was best to leave well enough alone on that one.
When I was arrested for prostitution after Katrina, a jail cop wanted me forced to strip in front of male guards and prisoners; the female guard refused and told him off, and to her credit stuck to her guns even after he tried to cite “regulations” at her (which, judging by her reaction, he clearly had never tried to invoke before for female prisoners he didn’t find attractive). Then one night a week and a half ago, a Seattle cop who pulled up beside me at a traffic light then proceeded to tail-gate me for 11 blocks, even when I changed lanes (twice) and turned into another street; he didn’t give up until I turned into my own street, which is not a through street (I guess that would’ve been a bit too obvious). On another occasion in the ’80s, a cop tailed me with lights flashing in a secluded part of I-10; following my then-boyfriend’s advice I refused to pull over until I got to a brightly-lit filling station. And as I exited the freeway, the cop turned off his lights, accelerated and kept going. I don’t want to think about what might’ve happened in those pre-cell phone days had I pulled over.
There are probably other incidents I’m not remembering right now, but I think you’ll get the idea. And I’m willing to bet most every woman reading this has at least a couple of similar stories. But go on, authoritarians, tell me how cops are there to “protect” women, and how we’re supposed to feel “safe” around them, and how they’re the only ones who should have guns. But you’ll have to pardon me if I spit in your face when you do.
No Need?
Posted in Philosophy, Words, tagged drugs, ethics, language, psychology, Skin To Skin on December 14, 2017| 7 Comments »
Prohibitionists are fond of claiming that nobody “needs” sex; in order to sell their evil belief that the State should have the power to inflict violence on individuals for peaceful, consensual acts of which the State nonetheless disapproves, prohibitionists try to represent sex as a mere “extra”, like playing video games or going on vacations. Those of us whose profession includes tending to the sexually wounded and touch-starved know better; we understand that while people don’t die for lack of sex, they also don’t immediately die for lack of other things that the prudes would still refer to as “needs”. Life is not merely a synonym for “biological existence”, and there are many things which have nothing to do with maintaining biochemical processes, yet are necessary for a life that isn’t low-level torture. The psychologist Abraham Maslow proposed a “hierarchy of needs”, with the basic biological requirements such as food and oxygen at the bottom and pursuit of one’s own personal potential at the top; the needs at the bottom are most paramount, and it’s very difficult to consistently pursue the needs at the higher levels when there are holes lower in the pyramid. Note that intimacy (including sexual intimacy) is in the middle, yet prohibitionists claim it’s unnecessary and even say people have no right to it; one wonders what kind of dreary, prison-like existence they believe humans “should” be leading? Nor are sex prohibitionists the only ones whose minds are poisoned by this evil belief; drug prohibitionists have for many years now waged a campaign against people getting relief from chronic pain on the grounds that some of them might enjoy the drugs. These are not the thought patterns of normal, morally-developed human beings, but rather the sick beliefs of busybodies whose own sexuality is only satisfied by denying happiness to others.
English is a language with a very large and nuanced vocabulary; for most concepts there is a broad selection of words to convey subtle differences in meaning. But in this case the language is lacking; there are no adequate words to cover the gap between “want” and “need”. The former implies mere preference or desire, while the latter indicates something that’s required for a healthy life, and the few words we have to bridge the gap, words like “yearning”, “longing” and “pining” come across as more poetic than specific. I am not exaggerating in the least when I tell you that cannabis has kept me going the past two years; I don’t “need” it like I need food or water, and I often go a couple of days without it when my schedule doesn’t permit a long-enough downtime. But neither is it a mere “want”; it enables me to relax, to control my anxiety, and to relieve the deep sorrow under which I otherwise labor for most of my waking hours, and it allows me a quality of sleep I had been denied for a decade. Certainly, there are other drugs that might do the job…but not as well, and at the cost of deleterious side-effects, a level of medical surveillance with which I’m not comfortable, and more money than I can afford. Similarly, my clients don’t “need” my services like they “need” oxygen, and yet it often isn’t a mere amusement either; recently the wife of one of my gentlemen publicly thanked me for relieving her husband’s stress and told me I was great for their marriage.
If most people were morally-developed enough to respect each others’ differences and preferences, it would hardly matter; whether another person’s desire for human contact is merely a fancy born of boredom or an aching emotional wound makes no difference if everyone respects his right to seek it for himself. But sadly, that is not the case; we live in a world where evil lunatics claim the right to assess why others want what they want, and to use violence to deny it to them if they can’t “prove” that they “need” it badly enough…and often, not even then.
In the News (#797)
Posted in Current Events, Miscellaneous, News, Obituary, Perception, Tyranny, tagged acting, Africa, agency denial, brothels, cell phones, Cooties, cops, Drawing Lines, Enabling Oppression, evidence, France, halfway whores, Hollywood, illegal aliens, Imaginary Victims, Indiana, Kenya, Lack of Evidence, language, Moving Pictures, Only Rights Can Stop the Wrongs, Pennsylvania, pimps, politicians, racism, rescue industry, Rooted in Racism, Served Cold, shame, statistics, Tennessee, The Cold Grey Light of Dawn, The Profumo Affair, The Public Eye, To Molest and Rape, Too Close To Home, underage, United Kingdom, Utah, Washington (state) on December 13, 2017| 2 Comments »
Sex trafficking is…the crime du jour. – Judge Toni Messina
Christine Keeler, the former model at the centre of the Profumo affair…has died aged 75, her family and a close friend have said. Keeler, then a teenage model and showgirl, became famous for her role in the 1963 scandal…when she had an affair with the Tory cabinet minister John Profumo and a Russian diplomat at the same time at the height of the cold war…Keeler’s son, Seymour Platt…[said] she died on [December 4th]…She had been ill for several months…from…COPD (chronic obstructive pulmonary disease). A major BBC series revisiting the scandal is due to start filming next year. Keeler, who had been living under the name of Sloane for many years, was briefly married twice, both marriages ending in divorce. She had two sons – James from her first marriage, and Seymour from her second – and a granddaughter..
Name one other “crime” that gets this kind of treatment on nothing more than a busybody’s say-so:
Why should cops bother with investigations and due process when they can rely on anonymous tips and social shaming?…Larksville, Pennsylvania…police are bragging to local news that they bullied a woman out of town after a neighbor suggested she might be a sex worker…[because] here were too many cars pulling up to a local apartment building and too many men getting out of them…Based on that one tip, Chief John Edwards went straight to Facebook to post a warning notice…”‘ALLEGED’ prostitution” is taking place “in an apartment in or near the 200 block of Vine Street…I and my officers will provide you with a never-ending stream of police activity.” He also said the cops would talk to “all the neighbors in the area” and instruct them “use video and photography to document” the comings and goings on the street. Then Larksville police—still without talking to anyone at the allegedly suspicious apartment or conducting due diligence of their own—went to the street in question, put physical copies of the warning on any vehicles in the area, and handed them out to people door-to-door…
The truth about “sex trafficking” dawns in the mind of a judge:
…sex trafficking…laws are so expansively written that even if a woman voluntarily agrees to be photographed in scant attire in response to an escort ad but later changes her mind, the person who took the pictures could be convicted of sex trafficking for threatening to post the ad without her permission…I tried a case recently where the court found that a Backpage ad was enough to convict my client of sex trafficking in New York even though all of the acts relating to the sex trafficking charge occurred in New Jersey…I was told by Bella Robinson, founder of Coyoteri.org…that sex workers are more fearful of police who jail them than Johns. Cops can arrest them, take their money, threaten to take their kids, and [rape them]…
The United Nations migration agency plans to fly 15,000 more migrants home from detention centres in Libya before year-end in the wake of shocking reports of rampant migrant abuse and squalid and overcrowded conditions at these facilities [in which they are detained after “authorities” stop them from migrating to Europe, where they actually want to go]…Libya in recent weeks has witnessed a drastic increase in the numbers of migrants [imprisoned] in detention centres – from a usual range of 5,000 to 6,000 to over 15,000…IOM is also scaling up its reintegration support for the migrants in countries of origin and will be working on addressing the root causes of migration, as well as increasing our programming to [force them to stay where they came from]…
Twenty-nine-year-old Cyntoia Brown has been locked up in a Tennessee prison for 13 years, after she was convicted of first-degree murder and aggravated robbery in the killing of a man who hired her as a prostitute when she was 16…Brown…was a [cognitively impaired] runaway who was raped, abused and forced into prostitution by a man known as “Kut Throat.” She will be eligible for parole after she turns 69…Brown’s case re-entered the spotlight this month after a group of celebrities including Kim Kardashian West, Rihanna and Snoop Dogg posted their support on social media with the hashtag, #FreeCyntoiaBrown. An online petition urging Tennessee’s governor to consider clemency for Brown has garnered more than 4,000 signatures…Each year, more than 1,000 [legal minors] are arrested for prostitution in the U.S…Advocates say that in many cases those children are the true victims, and argue Brown’s case should be reconsidered under new “safe harbor” laws that [pretend to] protect trafficked minors from criminal charges [but in actuality only help “perfect victims”, not girls like Brown]…
Only Rights Can Stop the Wrongs (#346)
While US politicians are marching along with a witch hunt:
…Senator Millicent Omanga has criticised members of Nairobi County Assembly over plans to pass a motion outlawing commercial sex work. The senator termed the move impulsive and unfair…[and she] challenged the MCAs to provide alternative sources of livelihood for the commercial sex workers before condemning them…At the same time, atheists have come out in defence of commercial sex workers and…threatened to take action against the MCAs if they do not rescind the motion…Atheists in Kenya say the choice to engage in sexual activity in exchange for money is a private and should not be considered a crime, and that prostitution should be recognised as a form of trade…
Despite the glaring absence of any escorts, it’s good to see a sex work-positive article in Glamour:
…The real stories of webcam models, dominatrices, and porn stars are often very different from the tropes we see in flashy (and often irresponsible) headlines about sex, drugs, and crime. In fact, plenty of sex workers truly love what they do. Glamour spoke to 15 women who work in different facets of the sex industry—porn performers, dominatrices, and cam models—about their choices to enter the business. Even beyond the financial freedom and the ability to travel that their career paths afford, many of them emphasized how they use their platforms to draw attention to social causes, highlight the contributions of marginalized communities, and help destigmatize sex…
When Operation Underground Railroad founder Tim Ballard looks at the latest artwork by conservative political painter Jon McNaughton, he gets emotional. Painted into The Underground Railroad are Ballard and his wife, depicted carrying children they helped rescue from sex trafficking…the artwork’s historical figures, including Harriet Tubman, Frederick Douglass and Abraham Lincoln…are flanked by figures whom the painter refers to as “contemporary abolitionists” or “slave stealers”: Ballard’s friends and supporters, ranging from Tony Robbins and Glenn Beck to Utah Rep. Mia Love. Art curators and Mormon black activists, though, are offended by the painting…“I would call it the epitome of the white savior complex,” says Mica McGriggs…Anthropologist Bradley H. Kramer…[says it’s] culturally clueless…to not realize depicting “white dudes rescuing black people” — under the title of “The Underground Railroad” — would be offensive…“It’s…like a parody of the white savior narrative…It steals the imagery and the power of the Underground Railroad narrative and transforms it into this Trumpian fantasy of brave, powerful white dudes rescuing black people from their squalor”…
I’m sorry, but I find this both funny and satisfying:
Ashley Judd led a cast of what would turn out to be dozens of actresses in accusing Harvey Weinstein of decades of sexual harassment and abuse…[but] an indie drama she starred in, Trafficked …is itself at the center of its own fierce debate regarding…its casting process….producers quietly removed its director, Will Wallace, from the project during postproduction over a disagreement involving the depiction of rape. And…one actress, Sanchita Malik…contacted SAG-AFTRA the day after attending [a casting] session…May 20, 2015, to convey her displeasure. (She subsequently filed a lengthy written grievance with the actors’ union.) In the statement…Malik [reported]…an extended exercise in which male counterparts…were coached to replicate harassment and assault…the scenario played out with her hair pulled, neck licked, body pushed against a wall and a fellow actor simulating rape…producers Conroy Kanter and Siddharth Kara…insist her characterization of the events involves “a significant embellishment and exaggeration of the level of intensity, crudeness and physicality of the casting session”…
A description of a work session involved “significant embellishment and exaggeration of the level of…crudeness”…Really? Do tell? Hmm, that somehow sounds familiar…
It looks like this popular cop masturbatory fantasy has made it across the Channel:
Three men have been arrested in Paris for…their roles in pimping out women for sex work in several apartments…rented out through…Airbnb…The key suspect…has a previous conviction for procurement. He took 50 percent of the money the women earned…
He “took” 50%; in other words his cut was 50%, same as Nevada brothels. Try calculating sometime how much of each dollar you earn for your company you get to keep; you’ll find it’s well below 50%.
The Snohomish County Prosecutor…[decided] not to file sexual assault charges against Sheriff John Urquhart…accused by a former deputy of groping him after dining together in 2014 at a Renton restaurant. The Renton Police Department…recommended…charges of indecent liberties or assault with sexual motivation…The allegations were handled by independent police and prosecutors to [support the pretense of] avoid[ing] conflicts of interest. Snohomish County Prosecutor Mark Roe…[claimed] that even if the accuser’s accounts were true, the actions alleged did not meet the criteria for indecent liberties…
…[When] a…young woman…[was] found her dead of suicide on Nov. 2, 2015…detectives…found one of their own [ilk] suspiciously close to the death. [Francisco] Olmos…had been outside her house even before she was found dead. While the girl’s father called 911, Olmos asked to used the girl’s phone..[but actually]…deleted…texts and Snapchats [the girl had exchanged with him]…On [November 30th], police arrested Olmos on charges of obstruction of justice and computer trespass…Olmos knew the young woman through Indianapolis police department’s Explorer program, which trains teenagers for careers in law enforcement…In the hours before the young woman’s death, Olmos tried calling her 16 times. He left 10 text messages and two Snapchat messages…“Answer me you can’t do this to me AGAIN,” reads one of Olmos’ Snapchat messages shortly after the phone call…The girl didn’t answer. “How can you ignore me like I’m just one of them,” Olmos messaged four minutes later…Two minutes later: “You can’t do this to me you can’t. I’m headed to your house right now”…After several more unanswered messages and several hours, Olmos sent a final missive. “I don’t know what the point of ignoring me is,” he wrote. “You make me feel like this is really all my fault…I need to talk to you it’s urgent”…When detectives tried to access the young woman’s iPhone, they found it password protected, raising the question of how Olmos placed a call from the device. When an investigator asked the young woman’s parents for the passcode, both insisted that the device had not been password protected…Police sent the device to Cellebrite, a firm notorious for helping law enforcement hack into locked cellphones…They found what looked like a sloppy coverup. Olmos and the young woman had texted 177 times between Oct. 31 and Nov. 2, when she died…
For more on the “police explorer” rape trap for underage girls, see below.
…police frequently target marginalized people with sexual violence. That includes young women and girls, women of color, transgender women, sex workers, homeless women, women with mental illness, undocumented women, women who are addicted to drugs and alcohol, women with disabilities, and low-income women…police presence in schools…allows [cops]…to…abuse searches, harass girls in the hallways, and even sexually assault them…40 percent of police sexual misconduct cases involved teenagers and 34 percent happened during a traffic stop….[cops also] exploit young women…through Police Explorer programs…[and] sexually assault female high school interns in ride-alongs…a case of sexual misconduct by a police officer crop[s] up every five days. And according to a 2013 study, 41 percent of police sexual violence cases were committed by repeat-offending [cops]…some…move across jurisdictions and keep their certificate despite their history of sexual violence, in what is known as the “officer shuffle”…
Diary #389
Posted in Diary, tagged activism, advertising, holidays, Toys for Tots on December 12, 2017| 1 Comment »
Yesterday I wrapped up my annual Toys for Tots drive, which turned out to be the best one since I arrived in Seattle! Today I’m taking all of these toys to the collection center, and I want to offer a big thank-you to everyone who donated (and to all those who donated to your own local drive). Christmas is less than two weeks away now; I’ll be driving up to Sunset a week from Saturday with Jae in tow, and we’re going to spend the holiday with Grace. But from now until January 6th (discounting the holiday weekend) I’m offering a holiday special for regular readers and subscribers. Interested? You’ll need to email me for details! But I will say it’s available even if I have to travel to you, though the details are a bit different. As usual, serious inquiries only please! And if you’re inclined to get me a present, donations of any size are always welcome, and I’m going to try to add more to my Amazon wishlist!






